Preparing for kindergarten (pre - school)

My big boy is almost 4 years old. In Victoria, Australia, the cut off birtday date to attend 4 year old kindergarten, is end April. My boy's birthday is 22nd April so he scrapes in by just over a week. I have been considering whether he is ready for Kinder. Physically, emotionally, mentally and socially all children are different. My girl was born ready for school! But my boy, he is very sensitive. He thinks that people don't like him, but I know they do. He has eczema and he is used to the stares and comments since he was a toddler. His health isn't the best either, he suffers from asthma. Mentally he is ready. He is so clever and aware. He surprises me nearly every day. So all these things considered I want him to attend Kinder after he turns 4. I know it will good for him and it will prepare him for 'big' school.

So what can we do as parents to prepare our child for Kinder?

• Socially -  make opportunities for your child to be with other children that may also attend the Kinder.  My boy has been lucky to be able to go to Nursery at Church where he has been able to play alongside other children his age and learn to share (well as much as possible at that age)
• Anxiety - if they seem worried, give them information, tell them what will happen at Kinder. I know what the set up is like at the KInder where my boy is going so I can talk to him about it. Also my girl has fond memories of attending Kinder and will be able to share those also with her brother.
• Say goodbye - when leaving your child, I don't think its a good idea to sneak out on your child. I have seen this done at Nursery. The child may be fine until they realise you are gone, then its very hard to console the child. Say goodbye in a happy way. Even if you are not so happy! A big cuddle and a firm goodbye with a smile may just work . I think even though my boy may be apprehensive he will be glad to have his own thing that mum doesn't know everything about.
• To encourage calm/quiet time as they will have at Kinder eg. story time, practice this at home. Most kids are mesmerised by books, I know my boy is.
• Playing Simon Says, may help your child to listen and follow directions. This is a great idea and so much fun.
• If you can, visit the pre school a few times before their start date. This will help them familiarise with the environment.
• Get a special lunch box and bag especially for them to take with them to Kinder. My boy has his already to go and it is of course Thomas themed. This makes it just little bit more exciting. In my boy's case, very exciting!
• This is very important! I feel a little sad about seeing my boy start Kinder. Its such a big step. I am sure he will be fine. But what about me? I may have a little cry when I leave him on that first day. But I will be so proud.

Hope that helps others as it helps me prepare for me big boy's big adventure at school.