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cold turkey

vanluven9093 by vanluven9093 Standing(June 2006) (rank 500+)
does anyone have any advice on how to stop the bottle? My two year old is very attached to her bottle. and i think its making it more difficult to potty train ( always wet) any advice would be great christina

I just threw out all the bottles and
told her that only babies drank from bottles. It took a couples of days but she soon realized that she had no choice
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Jessgore
September 2006 | Jessgore
cold turkey..
My mum's friend took my bottle and hid it.. She even hid it from my mum so that mum could not give in and give it to me.. Then they told me it was lost... SO I had to get a cup.... :)


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amanda9283
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | amanda9283
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My daughter was also quite attached to the bottle. I took it off her but replaced it with a non spill cup with only half the fluid in it. She was quite happy with that for awhile and each night i would put a little less in it, after not to long there was nothing in the cup and she is now satisfied to go to bed without it.


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allyp
2.40 (Poor) | June 2006 | allyp
Sippie Cups

I would say instead of throwing out all of the bottles is to buy sippie cups. It's the best and it worked on my niece when my mom wanted to get her off bottles!



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      kryztyna
3.40 (Average) | June 2006 | kryztyna
Re: Sippie Cups

we did get rid of the bottle but raya wont drink out of sippy cups she likes her big girl cups ( just small cups)

with the sippy cups she just takes the lids off  so that wont work.

but what i did do is my friend just had a baby and he was drinking a bottle so i told raya that the baby needs the bottles and raya is a big girl and she can drink out of her big girl cups instead and that was fine. She only asked about her bottle twice and even when she goes to sleep  shes ok with it cause the baby needs his bottles.



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nomes
3.88 (Good) | June 2006 | nomes
try everything....to a point

I found that including your child in any changes you make for them can make the transition eaisier on all involved.  They are not stupid.  Go shopping with your child for a special cup.  Let them choose it.  Say to them that you want them to have a special cup.  When they choose it, tell them you would like them to use this cup for all their drinks instead of the bottle.  If that doesn't work, try everything else people have told you, but no need to push it.  Something will work, but at the end of the day....it's their decision and I agree that lovingly is the best way.  You don't want them to say when they are older "oh mum, I remember when you gave the dog my bottle and it chewed it to bits and you wouldn't buy me a new one"  Fancy scarring them with a memory like that for something so trivial.  You might laugh, but that is a real memory from a client of mine.



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mewannaboy
1.82 (Poor) | June 2006 | mewannaboy
re:cold turkey

I've been there done that i helped my children to go from bottle to cup by giving them pop top bottles. my younger children would see the older one take them to school so she would call it her " school girl bottle" it worked for me every time, try it for your self. sometimes my daughter also had difficulty going from a formula milk which has a sweetness to it ,to the cow or goat milk or what ever you choose so i "faked" putting honey or choc syrup in and she believed it to be flavoured so she drank it. it did have a afew hiccups but it did work.



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kryztyna
2.08 (Poor) | June 2006 | kryztyna
what the???

why is half of this advice my requested advice ???

the top part is what i asked but the bottom isnt



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      matthew
3.42 (Average) | June 2006 | matthew
Re: what the???
When someone "Writes an article" on a "Requested advice" it takes the question at the top of the article.  OR for such a short answer as this people can just "Discuss" below the question.  This is perhaps an article that would be better suited as a Discussion/Answer style response rather than an article - although it is good to get any answers from members :)


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sanspotash
3.00 (Average) | June 2006 | sanspotash
Not sure yet...
Because we have not reached that point. My instincts, though, tell me that being that extreme is ultimately detrimental. There is a whole generation of punk rockers who would agree. Reject authority!


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      mewannaboy
2.00 (Poor) | June 2006 | mewannaboy
Re: Not sure yet...
and what about all those parents that gave "blanky and "dumb dumb" to santa claus or the tooth fairy. we all have done it. cold turkey is how you would do it if it were drugs or alcohol in older children so why not these things which children also dependant on.!!


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mrslunar
2.27 (Poor) | June 2006 | mrslunar
well
IMHO, I don't think using shaming techniques of any kind are a healthy way to have kids learn behaviors. Cold turkey can work, but it's best when it's done lovingly.


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Anonymous Member
2.56 (Average) | June 2006 | anonymous  
cold turkey thing
Buy some sippy cups and then gradually stop giveing her tha bottles and she will soon realize that Have your say!


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Anonymous Member
2.08 (Poor) | June 2006 | anonymous  
cold turkey thing
Buy some sippy cups and then Have your say!


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Anonymous Member
3.29 (Average) | June 2006 | anonymous  
cold turkey

When I broke my kids from the bottle, I just didn't give it to them any longer.  It worked for one, but not the other.  So, I only allowed one bottle a day, leaving the choice up to the child.  But, I didn't ask which bottle it would be, so every drink was in a cup.  If the child remembered, and asked for the bottle, then I would give it to them.... after about a week, he no longer asked.



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