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Baby Bonus Bonanza

Marguerite by Marguerite Talking(January 2007) (rank 473rd)

Just out of interest what are some of the ways that people intend to spend their Baby Bonus?  I ask this question because there are often derogatory comments made about how parents choose to spend their money but I think the opposite is true and that it is put

to very good use. I suffered quite severely from post-natal depression after my daughter was born and am very conscious that I may suffer from it again after my son is born so I have opted to hire a nanny to come in twice a week and help me at home with my two babies.  With the baby bonus I can afford two afternoons a week for 6 hours each time for about 6 months. That kind of assistance will be invaluable to me.  What do others have to say?

After reading a Q&A today about mothers who have babies for the "baby bonus" I thought I'd ask a Question myself about what people actually spend their money on.  The Q&A (above) got quite a response and I think that it is fair to say that the money was spent on a lot of things - all of which are designed to lessen the load, ease the burden, assist in the transition or however else you want to put it. 

Here is a summary of the answers about what the bonus was spent on:

  • holidays
  • second hand cars
  • deposit for new car
  • paying of loans
  • paying bills
  • new video camera
  • new TV
  • nursery items
  • gifts and necessities for the older children
  • special savings account
  • Trusts accounts
  • medical fees
  • home loan/savings account
  • new wardrobe

Personally, I love the "new wardrobe" one.  I'm starting to think I'll have a nanny for half the time and a new wardrobe with the other half of the bonus. LOL!

On a more serious note, it was my hope that this online conversation would reveal to people that it is okay to spend the money you receive upon having a baby in whatever fashion you choose (I guess I probably would not include gambling and drugs in that)...but any other fashion.  There is no rules about what it is spent on.  There should be no stigma attached to receiving the money. 

The other day I was approached by a colleague who hadn't seen me for awhile and didn't know that I was pregnant again.  Her first response was not "congratulations".  Her first response was (I kid you not) "baby bonus"!  Needless to say, this woman does not have any children.  If she did she would realise that the baby bonus is a nice little something you get in the mail after having a baby (these days) but not something that tends to occupy a lot of parent's thoughts or, impacts (I would have thought) on their decision to have  a baby. 

Before we judge other people we should try to recognise what is in them that makes them so alike us.  And I think it is safe to say that when it comes to the baby bonus all of us are pretty much alike in how we choose to direct our funds. It's just that some of us are more comfortable with the concept of receiving a bonus and spending it on whatever we choose than others. 

Be comfortable.  It's yours.  You deserve it.  You want three years worth of manicures and pedicures then go for it.  Honestly, I can't see how a parent could put a foot wrong in this regard.

By the way, I'm still interested in hearing of novel ways to spend this money so comment away.

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ajv00
April 22nd | ajv00
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

When we got  the Baby bonus we put it on the mortgage, then we drew on the mortgage and bought a new TV.  We are slowing paying the money back in to an account that we have opened up for bubs.  He will get the money when he is either 18 or 21 we haven't decided yet.

It is a shame to hear that people are having babies just for the money. 



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cassaustin
April 22nd | cassaustin
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

We had everything we needed for Austin when he was born, so when we got ours, half of it went on my credit card because that paid for 90% of bubs stuff while i was pregnant and the other half bought us a new washing machine and fridge. I dont see that as spending it on ourselves. It was something that we needed and having the baby bonus made it just that little bit easier for us to get ahead.

I dont actually know anyone who wants to have a baby just for the money, i think they would have to be pretty dumb to thou considering it costs a damn sight more to look after a baby than $4000. I do know it happens, but i just dont understand their thinking...



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electrifying02
5.00 (Excellent) | April 22nd | electrifying02
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

with ours we willl be putting it towards a second hand car as i need a bigger one as we like to travel and my car isnt the best at the moment . i disagree with it been spent on drugs and alchol and people who just have kids just to get the money thats not right ,

my mums friends sister has lost a few babys and said it doesnt bother her all she wants is the money that makes me sick

belxx



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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | April 22nd | mcm
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

For us we will spend it on a new car. Well it will be second hand and will be only a deposit but still new to us. We currently have a Toyota Camry which is fine for us now but with a forth child we need a bigger car. We need family time to go out and travel.

It doesn't worry me what people spend it on but does concern me if people don't think to spend it on their family and instead waste it, such as gambling or drugs.



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dannii17
5.00 (Excellent) | April 22nd | dannii17
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

We already have everything we need for bubs.So what we have chosen to do with the money is keep $1000 in my account incase anything comes up, that could be anything really for bubs, meds ect and the rest is getting put into an account that bubs cant touch till his 18, we will also be adding money into the account weekly..Its very hard to pay of loans on cars and things so i rather have the money there so he doesnt have to have the hassles of trying to own a car.

Dannii xxo           I dont agree with ppl who spend the money on themselves like clothes just for the sake of it, cos one day you mite need that money and its not there.I also dont agree with drugs or alcohol.. I do think its good to buy a car with if you dont have one or need a bigger one.



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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | April 22nd | Libby24
Re: Baby Bonus Bonanza

i just dont like the ppl who buy drugs and alchole with it

 



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Sarsie
5.00 (Excellent) | April 22nd | Sarsie
Baby bonus, a touchy subject

No matter who you talk to it seems everyone has a strong view on exactly what the baby bonus should or should not be used for. Some people feel so strongly about it they want their personal view to be law! People also seem to have strong views on who should and should not get the baby bonus, ie.only low income earners or only high income earners.

My view is that if people are looking after their babys' properly and are buying and/or have bought all that their baby needs then It up to them how they spend their "Bonus".  It is a bonus and I am glad that everyone gets it reguardless of their socio-economic status.

We personally stretched ours out for a while to cover all the not so little expenses that come with a baby and also to pay back an ambulance bill as I was rushed to hospital half way through our pregnancy and didn't have ambulance cover (very very expensive mistake, silly us).



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SarahandDaniel
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | SarahandDaniel
I am missing something...
What's a baby bonus?
...and where can I sign up?


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HOTMAMA
4.00 (Good) | January 2007 | HOTMAMA
bonus? tax credits
There is no baby bonus here, or at least not that I have ever heard of.  There is a tax credit per child every year, so I guess that is as close as America gets.  We spend our tax money every year on our home, upgrades, before we owned our own home, it was used for past medical bills.  It depends on what you claim all year as to what you receive back at the end of the year.  I think the nanny idea is awesome!  I should hire a housekeeper to come in twice a week, I will play with the kids, they can deal with the house!


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lunaeclips5
3.60 (Good) | January 2007 | lunaeclips5
The Baby Bonus!!!
I am quiet upset to here that people are using there childes money to pay for items for themselves. The baby bonus is intended to HELP with the cost incurred Before and after baby arrives! Not for the Adults. Out of pocket medical expenses nannies and clothing nursery items, clothing Doctors. Not holidays and t.v.s and videos and cars and computers. I think its disgusting how people have babies for this money. Its to give your child a head start in life and to stop Family's from falling into debit.

The government is closely watching the young mothers that are having kids because they believe this is how they are spending there childs money.

When its the parents that are low income familys that have one partner working and the other at home watching the kids that are spending it on themselves.Yes you have every right to spend iton what you want, maybe you don't need baby things or have medical expenses, Still its not given to you for that, they named it incorrectly. While the Single parents that have nothing for there kids and don't become single parents alone get interigated. It makes me extremely angry that people would do that knowing that it will get revoked by the government and there are actually familys that DO use it for its intended purpose. As a result you dont suffer the strugglers suffer, but who cares hey? As long as it's not yourselves.

Great Artical!!


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      kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | kseers
The Baby Bonus!!!
Hi!  I just wanted to clarify that low income families (ie two parents) can and do suffer!  When I gave up work to have my son my husband had just started a new job and earned very little money.  We struggled but I made the choice to stay home as it is important to us.  No, I didn't spend the bonus on myself - it went into debt reduction so that we have a positive financial future and I don't have to work.  This in the long run is for our children - the advantage they get from having me at home outweighs anything I could buy them and it means that we are able to give them a better, more secure future than would otherwise be available.  If the baby bonus was not available we would still have done what we did, but it would have been harder. 

Lets be honest if you were starting from scratch and needed to give up work, buy a bigger car, maybe even a bigger house, fill a nursery, buy car seats etc...  then the money doesn't go very far (even when you buy everything second hand as we did).  You'd be a fool to have a child for that reason.

By the way, one thing you've not mentioned above that a few women I know have done, is to use the bonus to pay for a private midwife to have a home birth as this is not covered under Medicare at all (and to my understanding costs a bit more than the bonus).  Whatever matters to you the most I guess...


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           SJ2571
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | SJ2571
The Baby Bonus!!!
Hi there,  I totally agree with you kseers.  We to struggle each week after going down to a single income.  Our baby bonus helped us pay off our birthing expenses, baby needs (Cot, Pram, Clothes, Nappies, Wipes, etc) and we then we lived off the rest which in turn help our beautiful little bub.


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                lunaeclips5
1.00 (Very Poor) | January 2007 | lunaeclips5
The Baby Bonus!!!
I shouldn't have commented because you have miss read into it and not understood. Forget it.


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