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Just out of interest what are some of the ways that people intend to spend their Baby Bonus? I ask this question because there are often derogatory comments made about how parents choose to spend their money but I think the opposite is true and that it is put to very good use. I suffered quite severely from post-natal depression after my daughter was born and am very conscious that I may suffer from it again after my son is born so I have opted to hire a nanny to come in twice a week and help me at home with my two babies. With the baby bonus I can afford two afternoons a week for 6 hours each time for about 6 months. That kind of assistance will be invaluable to me. What do others have to say?
After reading a Q&A today about mothers who have babies for the "baby bonus" I thought I'd ask a Question myself about what people actually spend their money on. The Q&A (above) got quite a response and I think that it is fair to say that the money was spent on a lot of things - all of which are designed to lessen the load, ease the burden, assist in the transition or however else you want to put it.
Here is a summary of the answers about what the bonus was spent on:
- holidays
- second hand cars
- deposit for new car
- paying of loans
- paying bills
- new video camera
- new TV
- nursery items
- gifts and necessities for the older children
- special savings account
- Trusts accounts
- medical fees
- home loan/savings account
- new wardrobe
Personally, I love the "new wardrobe" one. I'm starting to think I'll have a nanny for half the time and a new wardrobe with the other half of the bonus. LOL!
On a more serious note, it was my hope that this online conversation would reveal to people that it is okay to spend the money you receive upon having a baby in whatever fashion you choose (I guess I probably would not include gambling and drugs in that)...but any other fashion. There is no rules about what it is spent on. There should be no stigma attached to receiving the money.
The other day I was approached by a colleague who hadn't seen me for awhile and didn't know that I was pregnant again. Her first response was not "congratulations". Her first response was (I kid you not) "baby bonus"! Needless to say, this woman does not have any children. If she did she would realise that the baby bonus is a nice little something you get in the mail after having a baby (these days) but not something that tends to occupy a lot of parent's thoughts or, impacts (I would have thought) on their decision to have a baby.
Before we judge other people we should try to recognise what is in them that makes them so alike us. And I think it is safe to say that when it comes to the baby bonus all of us are pretty much alike in how we choose to direct our funds. It's just that some of us are more comfortable with the concept of receiving a bonus and spending it on whatever we choose than others.
Be comfortable. It's yours. You deserve it. You want three years worth of manicures and pedicures then go for it. Honestly, I can't see how a parent could put a foot wrong in this regard.
By the way, I'm still interested in hearing of novel ways to spend this money so comment away.