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Correct Pronunciation

pfallerj by pfallerj Proud Parent(January 2007) (rank 12th)
Today's first time parenting tip - Pronounce words correctly and praise your baby, even when he gets it wrong.

Our son is starting to learn his first words, between "uh-oh" and "da-da" you'd think there wasn't anything else to say. He can try other words, but he
doesn't quite get them right. Things like a ball are "gall" and kitty ends up more like "tee-tee."

As parents and adults, I think the natural instinct is to say something like "No, it's ball." A better way to say it might be "That's right! It's a ball."

Your child's vocal chords and ability to make different noises is still in the early stages right now. By saying "no" to them, you're implying that they got something wrong in saying a ball was a "gall."

But in fact, he got it 100% right! He doesn't call anything else a "gall", and he always says it when he's bouncing it around. He understands the concept of a ball, but he just can't say the right word

By saying "That's right! It's a ball!" You're praising him for correctly identifying something, and at the same time correcting his pronunciation. As he learns how to make different noises, he'll start to make the correct sounds as you keep teaching him the "right" way to say things without confusing him and his ability to correctly identify concepts.

At the same time, you don't want to say "That's right! It's a 'gall'". This merely reinforces the incorrect pronunciation and you're essentially teaching him that the word for a spherical object is "gall".

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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | mumof1girl
pronounciation

 

At my daughter's kindy, they've taught me to do this but have given hints to me as my child has a speech problem, so they're telling me how to speak better to her etc. Great article again.



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Raine
January 2007 | Raine
good simple & accurate advice
This is actually very good simple & accurate advice for 1st time mums as it is exactly the way my sons speech therapist taught me to help him when he was in kindy & couldn't pronounce words like rabbit correctly.. He had difficulty with 'r; words & would always say wabbit ...which is cute! I had to teach him to roll the r's which when you have an accent can be hard & was a good english language curve for me...And English is my natural language! She told me parents need to  correct these errors at a young age, but in a way that helped the child still be encouraged with their own efforts. Repeating the correct pronounciation in a sentence to them is spot on. I was also told that parents should NEVER use baby speak if they want their kids to talk properly.


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mamalobaloca
January 2007 | mamalobaloca
Right!

This is important to remember. I often have to remind my husband and his family that while it's very adorable the way my 2yo mispronounces words, repeating it back just reinforces the idea that it's correct. If she says "Tink you," don't say "Awww, tink you!" Just say "You're welcome" appreciatively, and make sure to say "Thank you" to her every time she does/gives something that gives you the opportunity. It works for me - over time, she always gets the right word.



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