Hi there

In reply to your msg, someone once told me that even if i have to spend a few nights on the floor myself, then thats what i should do. dont give up yet. put your child's favourite things there, spend time there, anything that keeps the child's attention , in order for him/her to get used to the idea of using the new space , that belongs to him.

maybe the toddler bed will be too small for the both of you. use a few thick blankets over a thin baby mattress. after a week or so, reduce the size of the bed and only lay with him till he falls asleep. keep assuring your child that mommy is here, and wont leave you.

i hope it gets easier for you.

all the best

B

Hi Lavinia

THanks for the comment. yes, i was also so tired of having her feet end up in my mouth, and my neck was sore from being pushed to sleep half on the pedastal. sounds crazy i know. but i had to think of something.when i put her on the floor, i acted all excited about this new space that was now just for her and her teddies.at first i had to lay with her till she slept , now its just a breeze. its amazing, she's only 15 months but she understands so well that that is where she belongs.

B