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I am concerned that my baby will have an increased risk of SIDS due to the fact that my mother is a smoker. She will want to be around the baby a lot and while she will not smoke around the baby or in the house or car, she will still be a smoker and we all know how cig smoke lingers on a person. Will this hurt my baby? How can I approach this issue with my mother who is easily offended? Any compromises in mind? Thanks..I appreciate all the help I can get on this one!
Well, from my personal experience (and I mean mine, because when I was a baby my dad was the biggest smoker ever) I have to tell you I've only recently heard about smoking being related to SIDS. Up to about two months ago, my dad smoked 3 packs of cigarretes a day, and during our whole childhood (mine and my two siblings') he smoked inside the house. Now, all of us lived through it, although I can think of other effects smoking can have: one, my brother suffered from asthma and smoke made him go into crisis and sent him right to the hospital; two, my sister developed this awful reaction to cigarrete smoke that makes her get a huge migraine every time she's near a lit cigarrette; and three, and most important, my brother and I both became smokers in our teens, because I strongly believe nicotine becomes an important part of your chemical balance, and as you start to spend less time around someone who smokes, you start to feel the need to smoke to get the "daily supply of nicotine" you're used to. These are the people who get to be the most avid smokers: I was smoking 2 packs of marlboro menthols when I started college. A little over a month ago, I quit smoking because of my pregnancy, but I'm pretty sure that if I hadn't goten pregnant I'd be smoking as we speak. So this is something you might want to consider and it might be something you want to tell your mom.
And on smoking and SIDS, here's a couple of articles:
http://sids-network.org/experts/smok.htm
http://kidshealth.org/parent/general/sleep/sids.html