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Mental Illness: Breaking down the barriers

NickysMumMum by NickysMumMum Talking Back(February 2007) (rank 105th)
As an advocate for anyone on Minti who suffers or has family who suffers mental illness I would like to clear up a few things. Firstly there is a stigma surrounding mental illness which perpetuates and causes the illness to be more severe than it needs to be. I believe that
people don't understand about the causes of mental illness and fear it for this reason. Many people also don't understand the treatments therefore they don't know that having a mental illness is not a 'death sentence'. Mental illness does not have to limit you for life. As such, I would like to explain a few things about the causes of mental illness, beginning with the complexities of the brain.

Mental illness takes so many different forms:
  • anxiety
  • depression
  • bi-polar or manic depression
  • schizophrenia
  • ADHD
  • epilepsy
  • autism and aspergers
  • personality disorder
  • cerebral palsy
and countless other ailments. In short mental illness can be described as any deviation from normal brain functioning (I apologise to anyone who feels resentful towards me for putting people with cerebral palsy, ADHD, epilepsy and autism into this category - I know some people would disagree. My definition of mental illness is any form of brain malfunction). The human brain is extraordinarily complex. It's made up of white and grey matter which is convoluted into many folds. Different regions of the brain control different behaviours and bodily functions. There are centres for
  • emotion,
  • personality,
  • intelligence,
  • movement,
  • all of your senses (vision, hearing, smell, touch and taste),
  • autonomic systems such as your heart, lung and digestive system
Basically, the brain is the control centre for everything that goes on with the body. Imagine the brain to be like a computer existing of hardware (the brain and all it's made up of) and software (the connections between brain cells created by experience and learning). Within each region of the brain, there are nerve cells or neurons which communicate with one another via electrochemical messengers called neurotransmitters. Mental illnesses such as cerebral palsy and epilepsy occur when there is a lesion within the brain. Lesions or damaged parts of the brain affect the behaviour contolled by the place where the lesion occurs. Mental illness can also be caused by imbalances in neurotransmitters thereby causing errors in communication between brain cells. The neurotransmitters serotonin and dopamine feature big with illnesses such as anxiety, depression, bi-polar, and schizophrenia. Serotonin is an exciter and dopamine is an inhibitor. The nerves either fire too much or too little. Medications can stabilise these imbalances. More drastic treatments such as electric shock therapy can re-stimulate parts of the brain to fire.

The reason why I thought it might be important to address this is that so many of us are loath to accept that what goes wrong with our behaviour could be caused by problems with our hardwiring. Because the brain is so complex, isn't it amazing that anyone is perfect? Is there such a thing? I myself once believed in "mind over matter", that because you are strong in mind you can be impervious to mental illness.  I found out the hard way that this is not true. . It's cause is 'biological' and neurological along with situational. That is traumatic experiences can also cause mental illness just as easy as a car crash can sever a person's spinal cord rendering them quadriplegic. Stress is traumatic and may arise from any number of things. Loss of a loved one, having a baby, having an accident, marital separation, abuse, so many things in our lives cause stress. Stress leads to another increasingly common and very real illness, depression. Depression is much more than just a social disease. it's not just an excuse for having a bad or sad day. Depression affects the way we look after ourselves and decreases motivation. People with depression lose the motivation to eat properly and in turn have difficulty sleeping. The body becomes deprived of sleep and energy. Medication and counseling can help sufferers get their lives back on track as they begin to look after themselves again.  

As a sufferer, I would like to ensure that people learn and understand about mental illness so that other sufferers don't continue to feel so 'abnormal'. It's okay to have something wrong with your body physically therefore it should be okay to have something wrong with your brain. There is treatment available and people requiring treatment should not feel weak, abnormal, or crazy for seeking help and accepting it. This goes for any form of mental illness, whether that be ADHD, depression, PND, anxiety, bi-polar and so on. Likewise, parents whose children need to take medications should not need to defend their actions. ADHD and autism do arise from communication problems in the brain that can be treated with medication. Treatment of any mental illness involves some medications in conjunction with therapies to assist learning. Only with treatment can many sufferers lead successful and fulfilling lives. No mental illness is a life limiter given the right treatment. Had I continued to fight against psychiatrists who offered me help I would still be psychotic today. I accepted treatment and six months later was weaned off my medication and continue to see a psychiatrist today. I know which life I would prefer.
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emmie
October 2007 | emmie
Re: Mental Illness: Breaking down the barriers

Brilliant article and very well written

cheers 

emz



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | llmunchkin
This is really great advice!
This is such a well thought out, well written article.  I have always thought the same about how the brain works (and doesn't work), however I would never have been able to write it or explain it so eloquently.  You make a confusing, scary, often taboo subject much simpler to understand, and show that clearly it is not something to be ashamed of.

The more society accepts and understands people who suffer from any sort of mental illness - be it temporarily because of a trauma, or permanently because of an accident or genetics, the better off we will all be.  It is so common, and so many people hide it and don't get the care they need - which causes those who love them to suffer too.  Good on you for sharing this with us.


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OzBinky
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | OzBinky
Mental illness

Top article Hayley!!

Thank you for writing it...

Cheers

Lavinia



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Raine
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Raine
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This is a REALLY Excellent well written article. Thank you for sharing as it is important for people to get a clearer picture of mental illness. Mental illness affects many more people than we could ever imagine. Thankfully  breakthroughs in both medication & treatment allow suffers to lead near normal daily lives with those around them non-the-wiser unless they are unlucky enough to have an 'episode' which gives the game away. Sufferers should get our encouragement & support as they breakthrough some of the horrendous barriers before them. Instead they have had to deal with the stigma attached to the box MENTAL ILLNESS. It's not fun being in classed in this category as labels stick with you though out your life... But today there is HOPE... there's light at the end of the tunnel & the outside world is beginning to see that many of us who have experienced a journey on this path are not hopeless cases but have indeed got awesome destinies before us... We're just wired differently & need to be taught how to handle our unique remote controls. Whats that old saying 'it's not me, but the world whose crazy'.


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giftid3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | giftid3
Well informed

Your advice is awesome.  I wish when I was growing up I had someone around like you to help me understand that I was not a looney tune.  I still have bouts of depression but at least now I understand what is happening to me.  In those younger years I thought I would be locked up if anyone knew and so learned to hide it very well.  As I got older though, it became harder.  As for your comment regarding epilepsy and the like,  I do not take offense to this analogy for my son became an epileptic after being hit about the head when he was 14 by other boys at school.  He was regarded as a mental case, and had people treat him like a leper.  But it was not his fault, but a wiring fault in his brain.  He could not control it and neither could anyone else.  The medication he takes keeps him living a normal balanced life but it is still something we must watch for.  Thanks for putting this on the web for others to read and learn from.

 



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      NickysMumMum
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | NickysMumMum
Well informed
Thankyou so much for your feedback. I'm glad that I can help. Also thankyou for sharing, it can be difficult to come out and admit you have lived with depression for the same reason as you kept it a secret. It's time everyone sat up and realised that having depression or some other mental illness doesn't make you a 'loony tune'. "Crazy is as crazy does". People need to realise that it's the stronger ones who seek and accept help. Getting help is half of the cure.

I really hate when anyone treats people with epilepsy like your son was treated. It's unbelievable how little some people respect the humanity of others. Again it was likely the case that he was misunderstood and feared for that reason. Thankfully, now people are a bit more aware of the causes and effects of epilepsy. I hope people have let up on him now. You're doing a great job. To deal with depression and your son having epilepsy is a real trial of life. Keep up the good work. Well done!!
Hayley xxx


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
Depression
This is really good and informative.
I am still living with my depression, I am one of the lucky ones though as my depression was a reactive depression following treatment in my marriage. I am hoping that when I feel able to stop the medication I will not have a re occurance. But all the myths I had on depression are completely blown away. It is such a terrible terrible thing, people should not be embarrassed and ashamed of the stigma of depression it is a serious affliction and out of out control to handle or cope with. Anyone who is still under the illusion that depression is just having a sad day, you could not be further from the truth. One day during my marriage, I had not eaten or kept food down for several weeks and I woke up feeling so week I was fainting, i said to my ex I'm not well I need to eat something, he told me he had been neglected enough and needed a cuddle, I was so out of it that I was stunned, I held my ground and went to get some toast, groping all around the kitchen as I had no balance due to the light headedness,  he kept stopping me and saying at least give me a hug, then telling the boys look mate mum doesn't love me she won't give me a hug, the boys now so used to the arguements kept quiet. I eventually got my toast as I was about to bite it, he interrupted and asked me to sign a cheque, I said I would after eating my toast, he got cross insisting he would be in trouble if I didn't get the cheque sent off, by then I had had it, i threw my toast across the room and started screaming (I am so ashamed of what this did to my boys) I collapsed in a heap screaming, he was tapping me with his foot saying I was scaring the boys, the boys ran to the phone and rang my parents who came right over, my daughter got woken by my screams and the boys kept saying I don't know what happened its all about some toast!!!!!! Anyway after I calmed down my parents were furious when I told them the whole story and my ex was very apologetic and said how much he loved me and he acted wrong....... Eventually I felt sorry for him and I gave him a hug he hugged me back and said something really telling "See its strange but I like it when you're like this, after an episode you give me a nice hug!!!!!!!!!" I was 100% convinced at the time I was having a breakdown. I now know it was severe reactive depression. It is one of the most alienating, scary and under rated medical problem I have ever personally come across


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
Depression
BTW
Before anyone tell me I deserved it for not getting away from him sooner, you have no idea of the power these men have over you, it is like your under hynotism and you in some pathetic way feel safer with them then away from them!!


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           NickysMumMum
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | NickysMumMum
Depression
Thankyou so much for telling your story. Talking it out helps us to heal and understand why we are the way we are. It's great that you could understand the cause of your depression. A lot of depression is situational. Relationships can be a huge cause of stress.  Firstly you feel neglected and then we neglect ourselves. Unfortunately when we feel this way we don't take proper care of ourselves. Eating, sleeping and relaxing are out of the question at these times. This leads to lack of energy and tiredness (comfort eating is a different issue of depression and becomes a cycle). This depression is very real. As we stop looking after ourselves we lose the motivation to continue. For some it can get so low that self harm and suicidal thoughts enter, giving up all hope.

Situational depression does not necessarily have neurological causes but can create imbalances in the brain as people deprive themselves of sleep and food. Therefore medication is required to stabilise the brain and allow people to get their life back on track and relearn some basic things in looking after themselves. It's a perfectly normal treatment and okay to get some help while getting your life in order again.

Thanks again Helen for sharing, I hope others can learn too that this is dealing with it. This is the bridge into life hereafter.
's Hayley xx


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jaxsycam
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | jaxsycam
depression

i have had depression a few years before my son was born my mums death when i was 18 triggered it as i tried to keep the family together and every one happy but when i myself was never happy i took medication and was happier for it, i moved to new zealand met my husband and came back to australia pregnant i had weaned off the medication and was doing fantastic while in nz but as soon as i got back here with my family well things have just turned out the same, as im still breastfeeding i can't go on medication but have spoken to my doctor that i have depression again i tried to deny it and thought i could handel it but i need someone other than my family or friends to talk to so i'm going to see a counselor, as medication will affect the breast milk.

There are many people out there who do tell you to just get over it but they obviously haven't had to deal with it. thank you for being one of the rare people who don't look down on some one asking for help.

jax



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      NickysMumMum
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | NickysMumMum
depression
The feeling that people look down on you is the main reason for sufferers to not put their hand out for help. Help is always available. I hope that the stigma of mental illness will soon cease as people learn more about it allowing sufferers to gain the treatment they need. A life of untreated depression would be a pretty horrible life. It gets worse with time and can lead to suicide. Unfortunately people who haven't suffered depression don't realise how intrusive thoughts of suicide can take hold of sufferers and drag them down. Thankyou for telling your story. it helps to let others know that it's okay to accept treatment.


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breannababy
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | breannababy
Great article
Hayley this is a really good piece that will help people see the why's of a mental disorder.It is very easy for people to just sweep this issue under the carpet with the get over it mantra.Having lived with bipolar I too know the way people like to shrug this disorder off as a trendy excuse for a bad day.Thanks Merle


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      NickysMumMum
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | NickysMumMum
Great article
Thanks Merle, your encouragement really means the world to me. It's a hard knocks life for us but we're doing our best, eh? I hope others read this and understand how important this issue is to me. Especially considering that I've feared mental illness all my life and believed that I would never get it. We still don't have a term to put on what I have. It's not exactly PND, but having a post-partum psychosis was the scariest experience of my life. To be locked up and think that you will never be able to be with your baby and family again is the most horrible thing I could have ever dreamt. My nightmare was realised. Having had a mum with schizophrenia and manic depression (bi-polar) I knew the effects and expected to be torn from Nicholaus the way I was as a little girl. I was so frightened.

I now realise that new treatments and understanding about these illnesses allow people to lead normal lives. After everything I've been through, how could I not?

Fear is the biggest enemy when dealing with mental illness. Acceptance is paramount. Reassurance must come from friends and family as I'm sure you know.

I can only imagine what you've been through. Bi-polar can be a debilitating illness if untreated. I'm so glad for you that you have done the right thing by yourself and Breanna. Well done!! Keep up the fight!

's Hayley xx


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