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Pregnant women - don't ignore anything!!

madmadmummy by madmadmummy Talking(February 2007) (rank 399th)
I was just looking back on pictures of Charley when she was born - she was 11 weeks early born at 29 weeks weighing 1 kilo, because I had severe pre-eclampsia, and didn't realise it until it was too late.

My ankles swelled beyond recognition at 20 weeks and
my blood pressure went through the roof. I felt completely off, but as it was my first pregnancy, so I just assumed that it was all apart of being pregnant. I was seeing the midwives every four weeks or so, but in the time between appointments, the pre-eclampsia had blown so far out of proportion that I went in for my appointment, and didn't come out. They basically said to me that my baby would be born within the week.

So my advice to any pregnant woman is not to ignore anything. Don't put anything down to being pregnant. If you are worried, seek medical advice. Even if it seems silly. It's not. It could be your baby's life at stake. And if a doctor says you are fine and you are still worried, seek another opinion. I got lucky in that I now have a healthy two-year-old, but it could just have easily gone the other way. But if I had my time again, I would have never ignored anything.
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tina72
November 2008 | tina72
Re: Pregnant women - don't ignore anything!!

Thank you for sharing your birth story! And you are very right to advise that we should always seek medical advice as soon as possible if there is anything that is causing concern.

While I was pregnant with my children I had to be careful because I was a Blood type 'O' negative and all of my kids were "A" positive. A few times during my nine months, I fell down while looking after my goats and I sheepishly rang my midwife to see if I should come in. The response was YES! After going into the Hospital and having my babies heart monitored and then being given an injection to guard against me building any antibodies, the midwife told me to always ring if I had any concerns, even if you are feeling a bit silly ! It is always better to be reassured that all is okay!

kind regards,

Tina



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gecko-baby
November 2008 | gecko-baby
Re: Pregnant women - don't ignore anything!!

 

great advice thank you for sharing this with us, it is so important to ask questions when you are worried about something especially when your pregnant.



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roo-joey
November 2008 | roo-joey
Re: Pregnant women - don't ignore anything!!

 Good advice. We should remember that asking questions isn't being 'trouble' it's looking after yourself and your child.



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Sylv
February 2007 | Sylv
Good advice
This is my 3rd pregnancy and I have only seen the midwife 3 times plus dr once.  This was due to the fact that midwife was ill or on holiday and not enough midwives to go around :o(  Plus not all my bloods were taken the first time around.

This pregnancy is the worse one and due to being giddy if standing for too long and I too get out of breath no matter what I do.  I am also having a discharge which when looking up info says it is natural to have one with a pregnancy but yesterday I decided to look up on NHS direct online and it says that it could be an infecdtion.  I am due to see the consultant tomorrow so now I am worried that maybe I have left it too long but will be mentioning to him about it.

No two pregnancies are the same so please new and old mums alike listen to this good advice.

Sylv


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anon16
February 2007 | anon16
hi
hi were you scared about becoming pregnant


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bubba76
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | bubba76
Great article
lm glad to read this as l never knew until now, thanks for writing this article


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ohmygodimamum
February 2007 | ohmygodimamum
Good article

This time i will be more careful, i did put alot of things down to just pregnancy last time.



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MikiBC
February 2007 | MikiBC
Pregnancy & side effects
I am glad I read this. I am 3rd time preg - have 2 beautiful girls. Thia time around I find it so difficult to breath and walk and do anything. Will go to the doctor. Thanks


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mandymum3
February 2007 | mandymum3
Too true
well written, very good advice, dont ignore anything


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Aaliyah
February 2007 | Aaliyah
Pregnancy and signs
Yes, you must be so careful when being pregnant.  And chalking it up as just something because we are pregnant can be very detrimental.  I was always calling my doctor because I felt things were just not right and they did not mind at all.  During my second pregnancy I kept getting cramps and when I was checked up in Africa the doctor I had there said that I needed to return to the states as soon as possible.  My cervix was apparently week and I spent the rest of that pregnancy virtually on bed rest.  I did ignore the doctors because I so wanted to get my degree finished and I ended up making the problem worse.  For my third pregnancy I listened and everything went well.  You can never be too sure what is a normal feeling of being pregnant and what is not since every pregnancy is different.  Don't feel shy to go see the doctor when you feel something is off and never hesitate to just call them and ask.  It is better to go in and it was nothing at all then to ignore it and it turn out to be something serious.  I am happy your situation turned out well and your advice is so utterly important and I hope that other moms and dads out there will listen to it and take it to heart.


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Jillofalltrades
February 2007 | Jillofalltrades
Absolutely

This is very sound advice, and taking note of whats happening to you is very important.  If I hadn't,  I would have lost my eldest at 19weeks, but because I thought something wasn't right I went and had a check up and they operated on me that day.

So heed this advice and take note it might not only save bubbys life but it might just save yours too.

Loves and hugs xxxxxxxxxx



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
Pregnant Women
I was a regular beer barrel when I was pregnant with my first, my best mate used to walk behind me quacking as she said I walked like a duck!!!
Great advice though, too often it can be dismissed as routine and doesnt get picked up till its dangerous for you or the baby
xx


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OzBinky
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | OzBinky
Good advice...
how right you are....nothing should be taken for granted.... Cheers Lavinia


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cookclan
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | cookclan
Great idea
Never ignore anything when it comes to your pregnancy could not agree more
Cheers
Angie


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franni
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | franni
great point

i have been telling my doctor and midwife for 2 weeks now that somethink is wrong with me.they seem to think iam ok. what were your symtoms of preeclampsia.

i have constant headaches,feet and hands are swollen mostly my right foot. i have blured vision wne i read or consentrate on somethink and it take like a min to get back to focous, constant abdomanal pains. i tell this to the doctor i have seen a few of them and they seem to think im fine. i have only a 12 days to go.



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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Kristen
Such a great point
Sometimes the things that we think are just "normal" really aren't.  And what might be normal for one person might not be for another.  I'm so glad you ended up with a healthy baby.  Thanks for reminding us to stay on our toes when pregnant.


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youngmumof2
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | youngmumof2
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for sharing your story with us. This might well help others in their pregnancies read into their symptoms more.


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threecooks
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | threecooks
great advice
when i was preggers with aiden i constantly told my midwife something was wrong with my baby, and her response was "how many children have you had?" my answer was this is my first, she made me feel so stupid, but being a stubborn person that i am i complained and demanded to see a doctor long story short my placenta shut down  and my son was being fed, as well as having no fluid in my womb the doctor very quickly induced labour and my beutiful son was born 3 weeks early, so pregnant women listen to your bodies and don't let anyone make you feel stupid because only you know your body:) 


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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | exquisite-flower
Sound advice
This is so important.  Pregnancy is not a breeze, but everything has a reason for happening, and it is always better safe than sorry to get things checked out.  Great simple clear advice.
Well done!
Peace
EF.x 


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