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5 reasons to choose a non-boring baby name

littlebundle by littlebundle Talking(February 2007) (rank 169th)

There are plenty of baby naming tips that warn against naming your baby something too trendy, unpronounceable or difficult to spell.  Trusted rules include stick to the classics, check the initials and make sure the name fits with the surname.  And most importantly, avoid anything that will later embarrass

or shame your child.

Although, I understand such reasoning, it can also seem a bit too safe and boring.  Why not be more creative?  Why not be a little different?  No offence to the classic baby names of this world, but here is a counter argument - 5 reasons to name your baby something more unusual than usual.

1. Your baby is unique and so is her name

If a baby name is popular, there are many children out there with the same name.  Choosing a name that doesn’t top the popularity stakes, carves a niche for your child.  People may need to listen harder, repeat or spell out the name, but by doing so, they are less likely to forget it.

2. Celebrities do it, so why can’t I?

Apple.  Suri.  Cruz.  Maddox.  Who would have thought you could name your baby after a piece of fruit?  Well you can!  Celebrities do.  And celebrities set trends.  Why not set your own trend by naming your baby after a feeling or planet or a dessert?  Crème caramel anyone?

3. Creative creation

Conceiving a baby is a truly creative act.  So why shouldn’t choosing a baby name be just as creative?  Visited a memorable place?  Admired a certain quality?  Always loved a certain song?  There are many ways to discover your baby’s name apart from scouring the baby name books.  Babies are incredibly creative. Honour that with a creative name. 

4. Self-esteem by any other name

A child’s self-esteem is not name-dependent.  Babies with popular or classic names do not avoid embarrassment, awkwardness or humiliation growing up.  Unfortunately, most of us experience these feelings some time in our life.  We boost our kids’ self-esteem by loving, encouraging and listening to them, not by giving them a bubble-proof name.

5. Change

Even classic names can be loathed by your darling little baby when he becomes a full blown teenager.  Whether his name is traditional or triumphantly different, if he really hates it, he can always change it!

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mcm
November 2008 | mcm
Re: 5 reasons to choose a non-boring baby name

My kids have unusual names. Though far from boring it can be annoying when you have to repeat the name for people and of course spell it!

But my kids are unique so are their names.



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lightbee
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | lightbee
But...

You make some good points here - especially the one about self esteem - but from personal experience at having an unusual name, it does not make it easier for people to remember it!  At best they'll remember it's something unusual, but until someone gets to know you well or has heard of the name before, there is not a chance of them remembering it.

I would also argue against saying if your child doesn't like their name they can "just change it".  A name gives you an identity.  To change your name - however much you loathe it - involves being willing to change your identity.  How people identify you and how you identify yourself.  That makes it a lot bigger deal to change a name than if it were just a word that you put on and took off at will.  Though, of course, it is possible to do so.



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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | exquisite-flower
Good ideas
I like these ideas.  I read a piece of advice the other day about finding the meaning of the name and then going to choose the actual name as a result of that - apparently there is a website that does this.  i think it is a great idea.  Shall combine these and work out something cool should i ever have the honour of naming another child.
Peace
EF.x 


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cookclan
4.33 (Good) | February 2007 | cookclan
Good article
Great for a different perspective........Thanks for putting this out here....
Cheers
Angie


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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | MadMel
Interesting but ill pass
on the creme caramel... thanks tho :)


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breannababy
4.71 (Excellent) | February 2007 | breannababy
WE CAN
but try to give  our bubs a name they will be proud of good article regards Merle


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