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Traffic knowledge

nell18-3 by nell18-3 Young Parent(February 2007) (rank 1st)
I'm trying to teach my puppy about :
Dangers of traffic and Crossing the Roads etc

The thought struck to me
To My Horror and Shame.......

I Don't Remember Putting so much time into teaching the children this


Did I really expect each
of my child to come equipped with a sense of danger for themselves or did I just expect them to live in their buggies forever or did I just expect to always be there on hand to protect them ?

What should I have done ?

AWARENESS
With the puppy whenever we talk near traffic, I put her on a shorter lead and I talk gently to her, praise her for when she is walking nicely alongside me and keep her on the inside of me
Even when your child is still in their buggy, talk about the traffic,  "Look that car/bus is coming!" Watch baby's reaction to the traffic, calm them if they are frightened if a particularly noisy truck passes. If your teaching a toddler, keep them walking beside you on the inside, explain why, be alert at all times, If you cannot trust your childs reactions use childrens reigns or hold their hand. Teach them to be on the lookout for all vehicles.

FOLLOW SET PATTERN
With Puppy she is slowly realising that when I am about to cross the road I expect her to come to the edge of the path, sit and wait until I say its ok
Teach your child the correct way to cross the road, teach them to always wait even if they cannot hear anything they must still stop and check over and over with their eyes. Teach your child to wait for you to give them the go ahead to cross. As the child gets older encourage them to look for the traffic themselves and tell you when they think it is safe to cross

BE ON FULL ALERT
Was walking with my puppy when it spotted my son with his gran across the road, it took quick reactions to stop puppy forgetting all the rules and running across
Be watchful, there is always going to be an occasion when the child is in too much of a rush to cross, they may be desperate for the sweet/toy shop, see someone they know etc. always be ready and alert enough to grab them and hold them back if they forget all the safety measures you have taught them

SETTING AN EXAMPLE
When walking with puppy, I take no chances, no dashing across the road last minute, we follow the same rules and structure so Puppy always knows what to do
With our child always cross in a safe area, make a point of explaining why you are doing this, its because you have a better sight or its because there is a pedestrian crossing etc  Don't be tempted no matter how late you are for something if you have your child with you NEVER cross in a risky fashion as in slow moving traffic and you know you can make it, no real view of traffic approaching, the child will learn from you that if you're in a rush its ok to take chances.
WE ALL KNOW THATS NOT TRUE

Children are our most precious gifts, even the most well behaved child though will have lapses when they forget the rules.
If they do make a mistake on the roads, don't shout at them or scare them.
Just make sure they are safe then find a place to sit and tell them right away what they did wrong and question them as to what they should have done.

Remember it is better to be late getting somewhere then to never make it all

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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | exquisite-flower
E is my toy pet
I have always maintained that E was my pet toy, and this is proof,all those things you say I do!  LOL
I take her for a walk each day and a run at the park on special occasions or a treat.  i talk to her constantly and we do traffic watch together and chat about how fast things are moving,or how big they are their colour and so on.  She has very good road sense, although when she drops something in the street as we cross the road she does prefer to pick it up straight away.  But we are slowly changing this habit/instinct. 
Peace
EF.x 


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      nell18-3
February 2007 | nell18-3
E is my toy pet
That is so cute
My children if I could compare them to pet dogs would be the kind you see dragging their owner behind straining at the leash
xxx


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youngmumof2
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | youngmumof2
Great advice
Well written. We have started to teach our 2 1/2 year old how to cross the road properly.


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      nell18-3
February 2007 | nell18-3
Great advice
Good for you
You can never start too soon
xx


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cookclan
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | cookclan
well done
Wonderful advice as per usual matey.....
mwah
Angie


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
well done
Thanks Angie
Thought It funny I have a better trained puppy than children  LOL
xxx


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NickysMumMum
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | NickysMumMum
Very important!
This is such important info for all parents. Well done, very easy to read, clear and concise. I like the way you've structured the rules into clear steps. Take care with that gorgeous pup, such  a fun age for a dog but as with bubbys a crucial time to teach such things.
's Hayley xxx


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
Very important!
Thanks Hayley
My pup is my baby I swear she has saved my life in some ways, especially when I don't have boys with me.
Of my 4 children the one who is most likely to step onto the road is probably my dreamy daughter who is 19. She goes off into a world of her own. The other one would be the youngest ADHD isn' great for learning about stopping and thinking!!!! My 3rd son is probably the most responsible, he will never wander and is always more careful than me


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OzBinky
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | OzBinky
Great advice Nell

The thing with all children is they do suffer tunnle vision....they'll only really ever see the things that are infront of them...

Great idea for an article Helen...

Top Job

OB



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      nell18-3
February 2007 | nell18-3
Great advice Nell
I know
I have had to quickly grab the hood of their coat on many many an occasion LOL
Thanks Lavinia
xxx


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dcsmom
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | dcsmom
Good advise.

I've been keeping a running commentary about all the rules of the road with my son, most times when we go walking, even when he was in his stroller.

I want to make sure that all this information is just second nature.

Thanks for bringing attention to this issue.



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      nell18-3
February 2007 | nell18-3
Good advise.
Thankyou
Thats how I think it should be too. So they do the correct and safe thing every time
xxx


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