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Would you like a fun way to share your family values? Would you like your child's character to shine? Here's a fun way to share values and build character too.
The Special Connection between Character and Light:
"People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine 
when the sun is out but when darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within." - Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
Character is that light. You want your child's light to shine. You want to teach your values. But it's hard to find the time. Consider discussing dilemmas specifically crafted for kids at family meetings. It's fun, easy, and it lights the way to character.
Listen. As a teacher and counselor, I noticed how kids delight in discussing dilemmas that happen at school, in the neighborhood, and at home. The dilemmas didn't need to be true. They did need to be typical.
Parenting Skills - 3 Dilemmas to Discuss with Your Kids:
School Dilemma: The popular kids in your class make fun of your friend's cheap clothes. If you don't poke fun too, they'll make fun of you. What will you do and why?
Neighborhood Dilemma: You just moved into a new neighborhood and want two kids to like you. You're not supposed to have kids in the house when your parents aren't home. These same two kids beg to play your new video game. Will you let them in? Why or why not?
Home Dilemma: You promised your dad you would help clean the garage today. Your friend's mom is offering to take you and your friend swimming right now. Will you help your dad or beg to go to the pool? Why or Why not?
It's important get your kids to discuss dilemmas before they happen. When challenged to act, they'll be ready.
Parenting Skills - Discuss Dilemmas at Family Meetings:
Family meetings are ideal for discussing dilemmas. Round table discussions, where your children's ideas are valued, encourage them to participate. Don't be surprised when your kids ask, "When's the next meeting?"
One more thing, your kids will enjoy your attention, approval, and appreciation. By listening to their ideas, you are creating a loving bond with them. This bond is the key to helping their character shine from within. Start discussing dilemmas today. You'll love the results.
Treat your family to The Dilemma Discussion Kit with 51 dilemmas to discuss with your kids and our Free Parenting Newsletter at http://www.KidsDiscuss.com. When you subscribe, you'll also receive 80 fun Activities to share with your kids.
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