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"Husbands and Partners" do remember them to. |
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Anonymous Author (March 2007) |
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I thought I hadn't read or seen anything, apart from "the Forgoten half" I think its called, to do with Partners and Husbands so I thought I'd try and write a few things down. Let me know what you think and If you have anything to add (email me and
i will add it with your name if wanted).
Ok the lazy one in most cases rarely gets off the couch after work, or in my case of the pc or playstation. But what can we as wives do to help them with out the nagging??????
I have tried so many its not funny. From no sex as a punishment (which was more a punishment to me i think)and sex as a reward, to not doing anything about the house and making my job even harder. Not washing his work stuff cos it wasn't in the wash, still doesn't work either. So what can we do??
Well I try to get the whole family to cook, clean and even do the washing. so far it works ok. we have a one day a week where we all do the cleaning together, yeah the kids complain a bit and so does hubby but it gets done a lot quicker and in the end the kids have fun.
now the fun bit..........
now i will admit i don't have a perfect marriage. no way at all. we have our huge differences in music to food to religion and up bringing. so make sure you take time to be with your partner. try and get a babysitter or if all your kids are at school call in a sickie and send some day time together without kids. Find something you can do together, in my case we do singstar together as we both can't sing. lol but do be careful as sometimes this does result into new little members of the family.
www.minti.com/groups/38357/The-Forgotten-Other-Half/ 
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