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The Sugar Issue - How much is too much?

StephinSydney by StephinSydney Talking(March 2007) (rank 500+)
I have to confess - my god, I do a lot of soul baring on this website - that I am a foodie, although perhaps not in a traditional gain/binge process - I don't overeat, I just enjoy what I eat. I also love diets (ugh, scratch that, I just really
enjoy food.) I have read all the books on diets from the 90's hit book, The Zone, to the most recent craze, The South Beach Diet which ironically did not include any of those fabulous drinks with umbrellas in them, go figure (I felt cheated). My fascination with new eating processes is a strange attraction really, I get more turned on by news of trans fats than I do about Posh's new Bob haircut or Kylie's Cargo pants. (I need special care!)
    Being a lover of food and watching the information flow across mediums like the telly and internet, I am really intrigued by the sugar debate. I have a 1 year old son, Constantine-Antonio, with whom I am very actively involved in his nutrition and eating habits. Although he has a daily carer, I supervise his meals and work with her on everything that goes into that little angel's mouth.
    The Ribena confession (which didn't shock me) and the threads about water and sugar make me really wonder how much is too much and where does it end. My eternal quest for knowledge led me today to the Huggies Australia Website, and into the little nutrition section. I was happily clicking my way to enlightenment when I can across a recipe for stewed fruit which was recommend for kids under the age of 1. The first ingredient was...you guessed it...white sugar! I clutched the pearls and with mouth agape began frantically looking for the truth on whether we should be adding sugar (other than what is found in nature) to our children's food?
    My reading tells me that sugar is enemy number one in a healthy body only seconded to bad fats. It raises insulin levels, causes serious diseases, behavior problems (just check out a kids birthday party after a lolly bag session - it's insane!), cravings and rots teeth. My upbringing was old-school. My parents were just coming out of the 60s and the fog was clearing and sugar was given/allowed on special, not daily, occasions like birthday cakes and special company. Desserts were not a daily happening, and sugar was NOT a part of the food pyramid. Now, I watch parents stopping at the servo with for an after school snack and I am horrified with what these kids are coming out with. They aren't eating apples and milk. And guess who is paying for it literally and eventually - the parents, in probably more ways then they imagine.
    Obesity is expensive not just unhealthy. The cost of treating obese kids, dental bills, time off from work to take them for treatments, the self esteem issues around it - it all adds up in places we don't even acknowledge. I appreciate that we are all going to die someday of something, but are we doing our kids a dis-service by not giving them the best choices and not saying no to sugar. How much is too much and how much (other than what comes naturally in our food that doesn't have added sugar - like apples) do we really need? This is the point that perplexes me today. My son gets 2 serves of fruit a day - usually a banana with his breakfast and an apple in the afternoon for snack. I don't dress it up with anything other than its natural state. I know that as he gets older, he will get influenced by marketing geniuses that put messages all over every eye surface available, but I believe that palates are trained devices, and if I can keep him loving fresh, not processed foods, he will prefer them in the future, but I would love some feedback from others who try to live "with no added sugar". For anyone who would like weaning tips or child nutrition info for healthy eating, email me for my free newsletter or click on to www.stagescookbook.com.
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StephinSydney
June 2007 | StephinSydney
Re: The Sugar Issue - How much is too much?
For Single Mum -
Grandparents are a tricky subject. Bunny has Greek in laws and they give no regard to anything that I set forth as our policy and practice with MY Child. My son showed an early allergy to honey after the age of one, and Greeks bake sweets with honey. 
It is tricky, but you might approach it with them as "new information" about the impact of sugar in children.  Something like "Hey Mum, did you know that too much sugar, especially the processed stuff, has been proven not to be good for kids and certain types of lollies are just plain wrong?..." It might start a conversation that you can interject your personal thoughts. Allowing them to live/act with new information makes them feel smarter rather than wrong.
Or, you can take a less diplomatic approach and just say, "I would prefer that you do not give these treats to my children", and offer another suggestion as the preferred treat/reward. Sometime grandparents are in a habit or pattern and they don't know any better.

Hope that helps.

Steph


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mumof2b
April 2007 | mumof2b
Sugar Issue!
Great article and great idea to write a kids cookbook as most on the market don't promote healthy eating.  I love the way you write, not too serious and dull but you get your point across.


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SingleMumOfOne
April 2007 | SingleMumOfOne
Good Question
How much is too much.  I use small books (such as the Mr Men series), those $2 rides at the shops, and activities like playdough and cooking as rewards for my son instead of sugary food.  It really shits me off though to find my son covered in sickly sticky sweet jellybean goo when I pick him up from his Grandma's house.  Is it ok for Grandparents to load them up on sugar?  How do you broach the subject without making them feel bad?


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yasmin78
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | yasmin78
A little bit of everything...
AND NOT TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING is our basic philosophy on food. However I do not limit the amount of fresh fruit or vegies that the kids want. When I hear "I'm hungry" my first response is "grab an apple" or "have a carrot."  On the occassion  I'm met with resistance to this they can have a cheese and tomato sandwich or somthing like that. Twice a week they get a treat of a lolly or packet of chips (for eg) but I am more concerned about artificial colours, flavours, sweeteners and MSG than natural sugar. The artificial additives are usually the culprits of kids being hypo after a party (especially yellow colouring), but most parents blame sugar alone.  I'd let my kids eat raw sugar before I'd let them gorge on artificial lollies or snacks (not that I'd ever actually do that of course, they just wouldn't be allowed the artificial stuff....)   


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Sugar

So did you find anywhere that suggested what is the right amount?

And by the way, I think your writing is hysterical!



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StephinSydney
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | StephinSydney
The Sugar Issue
I agree with the resounding voices that making anything 'the resident evil' will only encourage rebellion and opposite than desired outcomes. My ponderings were about the adding of sugar to our kids diets and whether or not that is necessary. I believe in yummy food and that encompasses both technically what is referred to as 'sweet and savory' items. Muffins made with apple juice or apple sauce are just as nice as a sugary pastry from the cafe, and using apple sauce is an inclusion of good fibre. Fresh fruit salad (strawberries, blueberries, passion fruit, melon balls, etc) with shredded fresh mint and tossed in a few spoonfuls of orange or apple juice and and a dollop of thickened cream on waffles or pancakes sounds much healthy than maple or corn syrups.
    I went to the library to research what material was out there on cooking for children. The information was dated, and very limited. I have decided to write a cookbook for children called Stages offered recipes for the various life-stages of a child, and my aim is to make yummy tasty food that does not include lots of pre-packaged processed ingredients or added sugars. If you have a winning recipe I would love a copy to include. I think first time parents would really find this useful. Buen Provecho! (Spanish for good eating!)


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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MadMel
No added sugar
Hey there,
Great advice there :) But I think a treat every now and then is healthy and good.

My boys wake up and have 2 weetbix and a banana. Snack is a bunch of grapes. Lunch is usually a sandwich with ham and cheese or cheese toastie. Arvo snack is an apple or pack of sultanas. Then they have tea which is usually meat and 3 veg. They drink only water during the day and they have a glass of soy milk with breakfast and occasionally half a glass at bed time.

But that being said they also are allowed a treat occasionally. We go shopping and I will sometimes buy them something that is not so healthy. An icecream, chocolate, pop top juice, chocolate soy milk, something like that (I dont agree with giving little kids soft drinks). I dont think its bad to give them treats occasionally as long as its part of a healthy balanced diet.

When we restrict sweets and things like that to never they will sneak it when they are older. I know... cos i did it. I wasn't allowed bubble gum or soft drinks and I used to sneak it and feel ashamed for liking it.


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | exquisite-flower
No added sugar
We have treats, but have stopped using food treats as rewards as it became an expectation and now it is better to get a flower stem for her vase or a colouring book or a trip to the park depending on what we are rewarding. 

Sugar is something i found a losing battle because people snuck her sweets behind my back when she was younger, and so i had to face it that if I couldnt fight them I had to join them, but by joining them I got more power over what they couldnt give her because i was able to limit it more easier or insist that if it were given to me I could hare it with her at a meal time instead of random snacks all through the day. 

Thankfully we no longer struggle with this and she has always loved fruit and water.  I am so lucky to have her for my first
Peace
EF.x 


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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MummaBear
I drive daycare nuts!

I am a strict mum. I admit, maybe I go overboard.  My daughter's daycare provides a main meal each day for lunch and the parents take along something to share for morning tea and afternoon tea (usually 2 serves of fruit but can be anything really).  On the door is a sign that says "What to bring each day" and lists everything like changes of clothes, sheets, shoes, a hat, 2 pieces of fruit or similar, and a pack of biscuits each week.  I think that with my daughter being one of 24 children in that room daily, that's a lot of biscuits. I have told them no to biscuits, no to some of the desserts they provide, and no to fruit juice when they provide it with lunch.  If it was only on occasion like the flavoured drinks are (maybe once a term if the kids are lucky) I would probably allow it, but it's at least twice a week.

I think being strict now will pay off in the longrun.  You have to watch though that if you restrict something completely they may want it more to the point that they make themselves sick when they do have it. While lollies, etc make no appearance in our house, if she goes to a birthday party which is on average once a month she is allowed to eat lollies while there. I'm lucky that my friends are like me and try to make even party foods healthy! I do believe in healthy diets but I also believe in having a break from them once in a while. Not completely, but at parties if she has a few lollies and chips it won't kill her if that's the only place she has them.

My girl is 3.5 years now and her favourite food is salmon and avocado sushi, which is fantastic. She doesn't like that flavoured water that's on the market that I accidentally bought her once, as she has never been given cordial or softdrinks, and rarely had fruit juice which is watered-down when she does have it.  I have also rarely bought muesli bars, etc.  The only time I've bought those packaged lunch-box treats was on holidays when we took the train to have snacks down and back and when we had outings to all the theme parks.  I would say that they don't need any added sugar, they don't need any drinks other than water except small children who need milk, but it won't hurt if you make it a rare treat and it will also be more of an excitement when they do get it if they don't have it often and they will enjoy it more than if they have it often too.



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      MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MadMel
I drive daycare nuts!
im the same. The boys drink water and 1 glass of milk a day. They dont have sugary things often and their favourite food is Tuna and Avocado Sushi. Jaidans favourite breakfast is weetbix!
I think its good that you are strict but I also think a treat every now and then is great. The boys get a treat every week. It might be a freddo frog, couple of oreo bikkies or a lunch of maccas or KFC... I think its good to let them have some unhealthy things sometimes.


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youngmumof2
4.65 (Excellent) | March 2007 | youngmumof2
less sugar
Great article. The only thing i have to add is that it is a bit hard on the eyes to read in one big paragraph. Try splitting it up a bit. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Very helpfull.


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madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | madchanny
less sugar
i have noticed that my son has become a hyper-nut, i dont give him anything like lollies/sweets, but i heard on the news that fruit juice contains more sugar than a fizzy drink! I have now cut his juice down to about 1 part juice, 9 parts water, he still enjoys it and its much more healthier in the long run, i have also scrapped the frut bars, muesli bars and other snacks and replaced them with good, healthy fruit and veg.

great article,
xx channy


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