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A-Z: Children Need in their lives

rachelcook by rachelcook Minti Founder(February 2006) (rank 37th)

Sometimes, for me it is good to sometimes just have a reminder of the positive things you do each day with your family, especially the impact you have on your growing kids.

A fun, heart felt creed for Parents...
I read this every now and then. This creed sits on Codi's wall as you enter his room. It just reminds me that I am a good parent and instantly makes me feel happy to BE a parent. It's like a self pat on the back for the times when it's great to be reminded. Sometimes, just stopping for a moment to reflect after a really busy day, is energizing.

Have a read below...

CHILDREN NEED

Appreciation, for all they bring into our lives.
 
Balance, somewhere between too little and too much.
 
Commitment, it's the little things we do each day that matter.
 
Dreams, to touch the future.
 
Empathy, remember what it was like to be a child.
 
Family and friends, everyone needs someone to love.
 
Guidance, actions speak louder than words.
 
Healthy Habits, to nurture body, mind and spirit.
 
Inspiration, to explore beauty, wonder and mystery.
 
Joy, sprinkle laughter and happiness daily.
 
Kindness, to learn to care for others as they are cared for.
 
Limits, set boundaries and consequences together.
 
Mentors, to give wings to their aspirations.
 
Nature, to delight in rainbow butterflies and shooting stars.
 
Opportunities, to discover what truly makes their hearts sing.
 
Play, the 'work' of childhood.
 
Quiet time, to recharge your batteries.
 
Responsibilities, to build self-esteem and self-confidence.
 
Security, feeling safe is essential for growth.
 
Traditions, keep the family tree alive and sprout new branches.
 
Unconditional Love, for who they are, not for what they do.
 
Values, live yours and encourage them to find theirs.
 
Words of encouragement, 'you can do it, I believe in you'.
 
xoxoxo's, hug and kiss them each and every day.
 
zzzzzzz's, a good night's sleep.

--Source by Meiji Stewart --

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exquisite-flower
May 2007 | exquisite-flower
I like this
What a poetic way to remember the simple things in life.
Thank you for sharing Rachel
Peace
EF.x 


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classyashy
3.83 (Good) | June 2006 | classyashy
how sweet
this is such a sweet list...i'll have to print this out and hang it up somewhere so I can see it when I get distraught and wonder why on earth I decided to have a child..lol


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      rachelcook
2.33 (Poor) | June 2006 | rachelcook
Re: how sweet
thanks! it does give me an uplift every now and then


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Anonymous Member
4.77 (Excellent) | February 2006 | anonymous  
Being grateful
It is definitely good to remind ourselves about the positive things in life. Because being a mum can be over-whelming with all the new responsibilities and new learning experiences about your child so much so that you have no room in your mind to reflect on the positive things. My husband makes sure that I set aside sometime to reflect on the positive, being grateful and appreciative that we are blessed to have such a beautiful boy. He is now nearly 19 months old and everyday he is getting more and more challenging but I have learnt to take it easy and laugh it off. Otherwise, it can really be very stressful. Having other mums around really helps too because you know that you are not alone. Mums that I am close to are very encouraging and very supportive and I feel so blessed to have such positive and encouraging friends.


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      ClayCook
4.09 (Good) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Being grateful
Keep thinking about the positive. I believe all things in life that are worth doing well, are hard to set up, however once you have you the benefits far outweigh the costs in setting it up initially. I believe this also applies to children and families.


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      rachelcook
3.90 (Good) | February 2006 | rachelcook
Re: Being grateful
Thank you for your wonderful comments.


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