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Tips for Breastfeeding in Public

gillygirl by gillygirl Speaking(April 2007) (rank 500+)

Even though breastfeeding education has come along way many mums still feel uncomfortable about breastfeeding in public due to a perception that it is unacceptable. New mums can also feel a bit self-conscious about feeding in front of others and it is one of the reasons the women stop breastfeeding

early.  However with a few tips and clever tricks, breastfeeding in public is possible and no longer a reason to feel stuck at home with your baby.  

It’s a wrap  

A large muslin wrap, shawl or baby blanket wrapped around your shoulder and back is an easy way to give you more privacy while breastfeeding. It’s easy, portable and will keep baby nice and cosy, especially in winter.  

Breastfeeding Clothes  

Breastfeeding clothes – also known as nursing wear – really have come a long way and are fantastic for discreet feeding in public. With clever built-in nursing access you can quickly latch baby on without anyone noticing or having your breasts on display. Breastfeeding tops today look like the latest fashion, so they help you to look and feel good as well.  

Baby Slings and carriers  

Many baby slings allow you to carry your baby and also breastfeed your baby at the same time without anyone even knowing. Make sure you wear clothing that allows you easy feeding access for your baby.  

Nursing Rooms   

Many large shopping centres and public places offer modern and comfortable parenting rooms that allow you to breastfeed your baby with privacy and a little quiet too. This can be great if you are a new mum and a bit self-conscious as a bit of space allows you to concentrate. Can also be handy if you have a toddler to manage as some have playpens to keep bigger brothers and sisters amused.  

Plan ahead  

If possible try to plan ahead and give a feed just before leaving on an outing or going shopping so you can limit the number of feeds while you are out. As you can see with a bit of practise breastfeeding in public is possible and also convenient, as you don’t have to carry or heat up bottles. With more women breastfeeding in public it will also become more socially acceptable and viewed as a normal part of mothering.

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MumKim
August 2007 | MumKim
Re: Tips for Breastfeeding in Public
I fed in public all the time. When she was smaller I even fed her while walking down the street pushing her stroller. I have  a few maternity singlets I wear under other clothes but sometimes I just wear a maternity bra under my t-shirt. She is now 8 months and so far I have not had any negative comments. I breastfeed discretely but refuse to hide under a wrap.
I think it is important to breastfeed in public. I even fed at my nephews kindy when Natalya needed a feed once when I was dropping him off. When mat time started the I started getting up to leave so I wouldn't be in the way but the teacher assured me it was fine to stay where I was until baby was finished. Given my nephew had asked me "Auntie Kim where's the bottle?" the first time he saw me feeding I figured I was actually helping to give the kids a chance to see breast feeding as a natural thing. Not something to be hidden away.


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | hermy
Great advice...
i wish i had of read something like this before.....i am one of those women who just couln't do in public.....thanks for the tipa.......


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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MadMel
Hehe!
I was never uncomfortable or embarassed. I just popped it out wherever I was. Once I was pushing a trolley doing the shopping when Chase got hungry so i fed him while shopping. A lot of people said "wow how can you do that?" I had one lady say "You shouldn't do that here!" I told her Woolworths was upstairs and to leave if she didn't like it lol


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | cazza
Hehe!

thats the way, when bubs hungry, they don''t undersatnd the meaning of wait a minute....

Well done to the mum who wrote this article as well, as you are absolutely spot on, as its part of nature, why be embrassed about it.



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sealsista72
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | sealsista72
Great information
I am thinking of breastfeeding this time, and I don't particularly like feeding in public. I fed my second son for six months and it was difficult as their father would bring home VERY rude friends who would just stare!!!

I think the muslin wraps are a great idea, they are inexpensive and give plenty of privacy.  I have four sons, and I don't want them to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, even though it is natural.

Thanks for the great article


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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | mum2four
breast feeding in public
I used to feed my babies in public and yes there many discreit ways of doing so.I used to use a cloth nappy to cover by throwing over my shoulder and by wearing appropriate clothing.Breast feeding is a natural and wonderful experience  and is best for baby especially in the 1st 6 weeks of a babies life ,but yes some women just dont care and let the whole lot hang out and that to me is not natural and especially by what Mummabear said about the women she witnessed in  public it is disgusting and certainly not natural and especially at 3 yrs or older.These are the type of women that make it harder for breast feeding mothers.


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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MummaBear
Breastfeeding in public
I never stopped breastfeeding in public. Even when she older, if she wanted milk I gave her milk. She was 2.5 when she weaned herself, and not once did I tell her she couldn't have a drink because we were in public.  If anyone said anything to me I would say something back at them.  The only time I was annoyed with some lady breastfeeding in public was when she was sitting there with a little baby on one side, the other side of the shirt was up, she had no bra on and was screaming at this child who was about 3 to "Come have tit! I'm putting away soon" and I thought that wasn't in very good taste.  She was a larger lady in a little skirt with her legs spread apart too so the whole picture was very off-putting and I think that's what sparked the debate in the newspaper about a week or so later.  It didn't matter if i fed her at home, she would still ask for it out. Not as much so I tried to feed her at home, but sometimes it just didn't matter.


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Breastfeeding...

Well written.  Very informative.  I am still breastfeeding my 14 month old.  I don't do it in public any more because he is too distracted to feed.  If he was interested, I would feed him in public.

I love my nursing tops.  I wear them still even though I don't feed in public.  They are worth their weight in gold for a breastfeeding mother!  I have few that are fairly basic that can be worn with most things.  I would recommend to anyone!

Just do a google search for nursing/breastfeeding clothing.  Also check out maternity shops, they often have breastfeeding wear.

I have a ton of online shops, email me if you want more info...



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