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Encourage Your Toddler to Ask for Things

pfallerj by pfallerj Proud Parent(April 2007) (rank 95th)

About a month or so ago, my son became a real person. Before, he’d make sounds and gestures pretty indiscriminately. He could imitate us, but it felt like he was living in his own alternate reality.

But then one day he started pointing at things. He started asking

“What’s that?” He still makes lots of babble talk, but there’s a flow and rhythm to it. You can talk back to him, he’ll think a moment, and then say “blah da ma!”

He’s also learning to ask for things by reaching out his hands and whining.  At this stage, how you interact with your toddler is key for helping them learn associations between words and objects in the real world.

When your toddler asks for something, encourage them to say the name of it. When my son reaches for some of my pasta, we say “Would you like some pasta?” The response is usually “Mas-tah” or something even further from the word. But like I wrote before, mispronounciations are O.K.

They’ll quickly learn that to get something they want, they need to ask for that object. And toddlers seem to want everything, so he’ll learn tons of words just by being himself.

Encourage your toddler to use his words rather than just letting him point and whine. It’ll do wonders for his vocabulary.

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emmie
February 2008 | emmie
Re: Encourage Your Toddler to Ask for Things

great advice

thanks for sharing

Emz



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SavvyMummy
February 2008 | SavvyMummy
Re: Encourage Your Toddler to Ask for Things

Yeah my 29-mth-old boy is both amazing and amusing us nowadays as he speaks more and more! It truly surprises us and makes us realise how much we underestimate these little minds! This week he suddenly started asking questions like 'Joyce, are you hungry?' and 'Mummy, what's that?' and 'Mummy, where's Marco?' I definitely agree that we should encourage our  toddlers who are beginning to have explosive speech to speak more and continue to ask questions. We should try as much as possible to respond to their statements and questions even though sometimes they go on and on like a  broken record hahaha.

We must not stifle their keenness to ask questions even very small & insignificant ones.  It can be rather testing especially in the midst of our busyness. They do not feel any shame to ask what comes to their mind but I think adults' responses will determine how far they will go. Positive affirmation certainly will build their confidence to speak more and increase their inquisitiveness. This will make them keen to learn more. My boy loves looking at supermarket catalogues which we get in our mail. He will point to words on featured products and ask me 'Mummy, what's that?' In the beginning, I thought hey, all these words are redundant and he neednt learn them. But, I realised that I should not stifle his inquisitiveness. I should tell him! So I went 'Oh, that's Loreal...that's Garnier... that's Safeway'...It is amazing how much they can learn just from catalogues! Save a little money on educational books haha!

People talk about the Terrible Twos. Yeah, two-year-olds are self-centred and cannot share very well.  They do throw tantrums here and there.  But, I think their inquisitiveness and explosive speech really melt our hearts!



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MelodyS
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | MelodyS
Encourage speech
Definitely.  As mom to a child with CP/autism spectrum who spoke very late due to many issues, his speech therapist said we should not give him anything unless he made some sound, any sound, at an attempt to speak.  Pointing and crying not accepted.  With a child such as he, it often seemed cruel, but it was best for him and, dang, now he asks for everything. :)


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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | Deborahsc2203
VERY TRUE
THATS THE ONLY WAY THEY WILL LEARN HOW TO SAY THINGS THAT THEY WANT IS US TO KEEP REPEATING THINGS TO THEM ,, THEY WILL GET IT IN TIME ,, MY SON WAKES UP NOW IN HIS COT AND YELLS OUT MUMMY WAKE UP COME AND GET ME HAAAAAA HES JUST 2


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