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Starting exercise again after having kids

KyAquarius by KyAquarius Talking(April 2007) (rank 482nd)

I’m currently studying to become a fitness instructor and have been involved in sport and/or fitness in some way nearly all my life. So its easy for me to say exercising is easy!

But I know its not like this for everyone.

Even I went through a

stage where I fell into a ‘no exercise trap’ after I fell pregnant and gave birth. Besides walking, I hadn’t been to a gym or played sport (things I’d done all my life) for just over two years! I kept telling myself "Now I’m a Mum I don’t have time for that anymore." But of course I still had a passion for sport and fitness and wanting to be involved in it again. I wanted to get fit again.

So I finally snapped out of it and rediscovered my passion for actively participating in sport and fitness in November last year. I haven’t looked back since then.

So I thought I would share some tips with all you Mums/Dads thinking about starting an exercise routine again:

Take the first step.

Believe me, the hardest part is just starting. Once you do and get into a routine, you’ll most likely find it easier to carry it on.

Pace yourself.

Start off slowly. This is something I’ve only just learned to do when I started going back to the gym last year. (Otherwise if I ever had a break in the earlier days, I’d come back and start training again at the same intensity that I was before my break and burn myself out completely!) After my two year ‘break’, I started off going to the gym twice a week. If I’d started by going every day, I would have worn myself out and probably injured myself. So just start at a couple of sessions a week and build it from there.

Find support.

Tell your family and friends that you want to start exercising again. Ask your partner if they won’t mind looking after the kids a couple of nights a week while you go off to your aerobics class. They’re more than likely going to support you improving your health! Or find a local Mothers/Parents Group that goes walking/jogging/exercising with the little ones in the strollers once a week. You might even find a gym/leisure centre within the area that offers a creche where they’ll look after the kids while your exercising.

Find a friend.

Talk to people who are in the same situation as you. Whether it be a friend, a relative, a friend of a friend, another Mum who’s wanting to start exercise after giving birth, anyone who’s keen to start doing some sort of exercise again and see if they want to join you. Sometimes exercising with someone else who’s on the same level as you can increase your motivation.

Make a plan.

Plan your exercise routine for the week ahead. You’re more likely to stick to it if you have a plan set out in front of you with goals you want to acheive.

Exercise with your kids!

Sometimes when my daughter wants to go play outside, I run around out there with her! Or nearly every time she wants to walk up the street, I make sure I take her. (She’s only 20mths so can’t walk by herself of course!) And when I take her to the park, I follow her around and do most of the acitivites with her. So if you’re kids aren’t too embarrassed by you, join in their activities!

Do exercise you enjoy.

If sweating it out on the cardio machines isn’t enjoyable for you, then don’t make a major part of your exercise routine. Try out different aerobics classes, outdoor exercise groups, social sports etc to find the ones you like.

Variety is the key.

Doing a variety of different exercises means you’re more likely to enjoy your exercise routine more rather than if you’re doing the exact same thing every day. Doing different exercises works different parts of your body too, so you’re more likely to get a well balanced level of fitness.

Avoid being obsessive.

As the saying goes ‘everything in moderation’. If you’re trying to exercise every spare minute you get (and us parents definitely don’t have much of that anyway!), you’re going to burn out and make yourself prone to getting injuries. Allow your body to recover in between sessions. You will reach your goals, you just need to be patient.

Incidental exercise counts!

That 20min walk to the shops and back you do a few times a week does count! If there are certain errands you can do each week that are within walking distance, than opt to walk rather than taking the car. Every little bit counts!

 Drink plenty of water and eat well!

We’ve all heard this a million times but its so true! Fad diets don’t work. Remember if you want to lose weight, your energy output must exceed your energy intake. So its a matter of eating healthy foods, without over-indulging, and exercising consistently to get you there. Cutting out food groups through dieting will only deprive your body of the nutrients it needs to function properly each day.

Remind yourself of your goals!

You obviously want to start exercising again to improve your health in some way. So set yourself the goals you want to acheive and remind yourself of them every day! Write your goals down, look at a photo of yourself back in your fitter days, whatever it takes to keep you on track.

Often being a parent means putting everyone else first besides yourself. I believe you do need your own time and you do need to look after yourself properly before you can ‘give yourself back’ to everyone else around you. If you’re thinking about exercising again, then definitely go for it! Whether its to lose weight, get fit or just improve your life all round (because believe me it will!), it will have a positive effect on your life in some way.

Good luck!

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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | lexiw
Re: Starting exercise again after having kids

I agree my son is now two and I have packed on the kilos so I have started to go to the gym and I am loving it

 Lexi xxx



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | nell18-3
Cross trainer
Thats what I use
I find its one of those things that I look at and think UGH but once I am on it I get such a great feeling of achievement and I'm so pleased with myself when I'm done
xxx


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | llmunchkin
I thought I was the only one!
I had 2years of doing nothing too... I felt so guilty, and angry, and lazy, and fat.   Then for some unknown reason (risking injury and all stupidly), I decided to rock up to a game of rugby union last week with my friend.  I had done no training except 2 workouts on our own gym downstairs over a month ago.  I thought I would play for 10mins if I was lucky.  The warm up nearly killed me, and I was so uncoordinated... Then I ended up playing a full 80minutes & I loved it!  I don't know why I waited so long, and I am lucky that I didn't hurt myself.

Maybe it is lack of confidence?  Maybe it is everyone telling you what you should do?  Maybe it just seems to hard with bubs & a household to look after?  This is great advice, especially because you did do nothing for a long time, unlike most other people who write fitness advice because they are super fit and got straight into it after birth. 

I can't explain what took me so long to get back into it - however I will never let it happen again.  If you haven't got moving yet, just think of that feeling of exhilaration you used to get - it is 10 times better after having a baby, because you really appreciate the adrenalin rush, and the feeling of being strong, and feeling good about yourself.   I swear, I have lost 5kg in 2 weeks, and I am eating non-stop!  It's awesome, get moving, get outside, breath some fresh air and discover who you are.


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      KyAquarius
April 2007 | KyAquarius
I thought I was the only one!

Well done on getting in there and having a go! Yes it is the biggest rush when you finally decide to exercise again huh?! You sound exactly like I did when I first when to the gym and played touch footy again! You think "Man I was crazy to ever stop doing this!" Well done on playing Rugby Union! Its a tough sport! You must have more strength than you know! Playing for 80mins is a big effort! I also surprised myself playing a full game of touch footy the first time I played again! Well done on never letting it happen again – that is going for so long without exercise. I know I won’t ever let it happen again either! And losing 5kg in 2wks, wow it’s doing great benefits for you too! Keep it up, great work!



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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Great Advice!

I think it is so important for parents to be good role models and exercise is one area many parents forget!

Another suggestion is a stroller walking group.  Join one or start one.  I go to a stroller exercise class once a week and it is great!  We walk, run, do stairs, and other exercises that incorportate your child if he/she is getting cranky in the stroller.

Thanks for your advice!



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      KyAquarius
April 2007 | KyAquarius
Great Advice!

Sounds like you’re part of a great stroller exercise group! Great idea to incorporate other things with them if they get cranky! Its a great way to exercise with out kids while they’re young.



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lightbee
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | lightbee
Great advice

This is very close to my heart at the moment.  I was talking to my 4 year old about us needing to be more active and exercise more.  She has made me workout with her at least twice in the last 24 hours!  She's got me doing star jumps and push ups - and I tell you its hard work for me!  LOL!

But great advice - well done!



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      KyAquarius
April 2007 | KyAquarius
Great advice

Good luck with getting into a good routine with your exercise! That’s great your 4yr old is motivating you lol! Your own little personal trainer!



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