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PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part

Shellshell by Shellshell Talking(May 2007) (rank 166th)

Since Lachlan has been diagnosed with this disorder, PDD.

Things are looking up and he is getting the extra help he needs. He is doing really well with his reading, although he’s not at the normal standard he is improving in leaps and bounds. He makes me very

proud every time he accomplishes a very hard word. His writing is beautiful, but to think back 2 years ago, he couldn’t even write!  

He regularly attends The Attic, which is the Special Unit situated within his school. He also gets extra help in class, One on One, which he really needs as he seems to cope better this way.   He also has Speech Therapy through the school as well.  

The negative side to this is a lot of people don’t understand Lachlan until I explain his disability. It makes it very hard, as you cannot see his disability. So people think automatically that he is a NAUGHTY boy!  

He does not have that many friends, which through my eyes is so very sad and upsetting, but for Lachlan it’s just the norm and prefers to just play on his own.  

It’s hard for him to comprehend some things. The Guidance Officer told me his brain is like a filing cabinet, he looks for the answer in there, but has a lot of trouble finding what file he put it into.  

In the past 3 yrs, I felt a lot of emotions a mother could feel. Disappointment, failure as a parent, sadness, stress and fear of what is yet to come. I am scared for my Lachlan, and what he will have to endure in his life. By this I mean, people not understanding him, him being seen as stupid or arrogant and most of all him not being accepted. In my own words the best way I explain Lachlan is, he is JUST DIFFERENT!  

 It has been a long road….but I cannot change what has happened, but I CAN make it better. I will do everything in my power, to see he gets the extra help he needs. I will never let him feel stupid, isolated from others, misunderstood and most of all unloved.   I hope this has helped anyone out there, who may have a child with PDD OR knows a child with PDD.  

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exquisite-flower
September 2008 | exquisite-flower
Re: PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part

This is wonderful to read about.  Thank you for sharing your family and your life with us

Peace
EF.x



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suarze
September 2008 | suarze
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ive just been told by my 3 year olds pre school teacher that Justin needs a speech assesment. in all other areas of his development he excells, but he doesnt speak well. i am very apprehensive about what i will find out from the assesment. i thank you for sharing Lachlans tale, he looks to be a very happy boy, which gives me the hope that our story will also end in smiles.



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andi
May 2008 | andi
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My son was diagnosed on the autism spectrum when he was 3 and it was difficult to explain to people.  I appreciate you sharing your story with others.  It is always helpful to know that my son and my family are not the only ones dealing with this.  Thank you and God bless!



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Arna
April 2008 | Arna
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The trilogy has been read.  Sounds like you have made every effort to be supportive of your son and the school etc have been very supportive of you both.



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katierose
November 2007 | katierose
Re: PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part

I read all three articles and am so impressed by them! What a fantastic thing for your wonderful boy to have such amazing and supportive parents! Great information! So sad that many children with these disorders do NOT get diagnosed correctly.

Thanks!



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redterror
November 2007 | redterror
Re: PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part

mmm interesting, but what exactly is pdd,,, is it something like autism.

thankyou

redterror



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ellamia
October 2007 | ellamia
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Great article thanks for sharing :)

Love Kell


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lexiw
October 2007 | lexiw
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And every child is different . Your son is very lucky to have parents like you

 Lexi xxx



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frazzled1
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | frazzled1
Re: PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part
What a sad & beautiful story...kids who look normal, but are different on the inside have such a hard time with life.  People just can't 'see' the problem, and don't think there is one there.


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llmunchkin
June 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: PDD-Pervasive Developmental Disorder MY STORY 3rd & Final Part
It sounds to me as if Lachlan has the best possible chance to be as happy as he can be, because he has a super special, determined mum!  Thank you for sharing your story about your very special boy.


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cookclan
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | cookclan
Well PDD
You know Shelly...My eldest is as you call different from the normal and I like to think he is just special...This series had been great and they are very well written....I am sure they have given alot an insight into something they knew nothing about...Well done matey...
Mwah
Angie


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | nell18-3
PDD Part 3
Well done Shell
This has been a great series of articles on PDD
I know what you mean about your child being labelled "Naughty" It breaks my heart too when I see the same happening to my 9 year old.
xxx


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | hermy
PDD part3
great advice......once again i have to say he is a very lucky little boy for having you as a mum.....like the others i was not to aware of this disorder,but can now say i am a little better educated, thanks for that...regards Sandra  xxx


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lucky321
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | lucky321
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I nust say shelley  i didn't know about this disorder but thank you for sharing your story . At least now i know about it and can under stand  it . thank god your a loving mum .your son is so lucky having such a loving and caring family .

Its good to see that he has suport  at his school . i wish you and your family all the best



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | cazza
part 3 pdd
Wow now you have made me cry, as you are a amazing mum, and what a lucky boy to have a mum like you... I think its great that he gets the support at school and they are helping him to get a education..... Hope that it all works out for you all, and thankyou for sharing this with us, as i can only speak for myself and say i didnt know about this disorder and now undrstand what it is...


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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | winja
my story by shell
im sure alot of ppl will benifit from this story, not much more to say without giving u a big head, lol. u r amazing for gettin all 3 parts done in one night ! keep writing shell il always be here for ya if u need me.


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