Many parents tend to limit their family activities to those that are solely fit for kids. That certainly makes good sense and is probably a good idea most of the time but many grown-up activities can be fun for the kids as well.

It’s important to give children

a variety of experiences to navigate and explore, even when they are young. The common trips to parks, beaches, kid’s movies, and playgrounds are all fantastic ways to spend time with your child but consider the less obvious activities and mix up your daily routine from time to time. Plus, it’s always nice to squeeze in something that you’d enjoy as well!

Try some of these ideas--

Take your child to a play or performance that YOU’D like to see- There are many types of performances offered in many cities, whether through high-schools, libraries, performing art centers, or city programs. Taking your child to a live show teaches them to sit and watch the show, laugh, interact, have fun all while having to follow the protocol of a grown-up play. Even if you have to leave early, these experiences will prepare them for more mature settings and will make taking your children to “quiet” places an easier transition.

Take your child to YOUR favorite sporting event- Again, they will learn the proper etiquette for each event and learn that having a good time doesn’t always mean getting to climb all over play equipment. Kids love to cheer for their favorite teams (even at young ages) and clapping, cheering, and getting into the spirit of the sport can be really enjoyable for children as well as their parents. And the concession snacks don’t hurt either.

Enroll your child in a class that YOU would like to take too- Something theme oriented with some structure will be fun for the both of you. Something less childlike than “edible art” is the point. Perhaps a true cooking class or a yoga class is a great way to teach kids alternative and often practical ways of having fun and learning new things.

Take your child to a Museum- This may seem like a bad idea at first, but it’s actually a wonderful place to visit with your child. Even if you only stay for a while, exposing your child to art work in a museum atmosphere is very good for children. Learning how to conduct themselves under some of the stricter rules of museums is a good lesson. And I can speak for myself to say I know I enjoy it so it’s fun to bring my kids with me. There are plenty of kid friendly exhibits and areas at many museums that offer family friendly activities so don’t be fooled into thinking it’s all rules and no play!

Take your child to a concert of someone YOU’D like to see perform- Music is wonderful for all-ages, just be sure to start with a show that is appropriate for kids. You’ll set yourself up for disappointment if the hours are too late or the show is too long. Consider something acoustic at a local coffee house or an in-store performance of your favorite singer/band to start when the kids are young. Outdoor venues and “fairs” are another great place to catch musical acts in an atmosphere your whole family can enjoy. You might take your kids a pair of earplugs (just in case).

Just because you’re a parent doesn’t mean you should have to give up all the things you enjoyed before you had kids.  Quite often, our children really like the things that we like when we give them a chance. To be sure to make it the best it can be, don’t expect too much from your child at first. Limit the “sitting still” time to something they can handle and allow for potty breaks and snacks. Pack books/small toys and food/drinks for restless minds and bodies. Plan the activities around your children’s naps (don’t tempt fate) but don’t underestimate your kids either—they can quite often rise to the occasion of your planned outing. So, the next time you take your child somewhere new and different, with new sights and sounds, smells and snacks, don’t be surprised if you all have a wonderful experience!