minti, powered by parents Powered by Parents
First Visit?     Register     Login
 

This site gets better with user participation. Please participate... Some of the main things you can do is rate this advice, add comments to this advice, add links to and from this advice, and/or write your own advice.

  email  print
  report   
Like this topic?
Write Advice
Add to Favorites
Advice that links to this one
ADVICE RATING
 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) 4.67 (Highly recommend) from 11 votes (40 Visits)

One on One

sonk by sonk Talking(May 2007) (rank 146th)
As parents with lots to do during the day (and our own problems)  I have come to realize that if we do not make it a point to kiss, hug or say we love our children we end up not doing this. I have two boys and I allocate 30mins
to each child everyday.  I do this mainly in the evening just before their bedtime. During this time each child is able to tell me what happened at school and how the day went. I also use this time to settle any issues between the two of them. I always try to explain to the eldest who is six that he has to be patient with his kid brother who always starts the fight. Although I play with both of them during the day this time is enjoyed so much by them that we all look forward to it.
Any contributed content above is the subjective opinion of that member or external author, and not of Minti.com Pty Ltd. If you are searching for health related advice we strongly suggest you seek professional medical support. View our Terms of Service for more details.

Related Content:

Bookmarks:

ADVICE RATING
 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) 4.67 (Highly recommend) from 11 votes
Report

Thankyou for your vote (you can change your vote at any time). Please leave some helpful comments about this advice using the box below.

ExcellentExcellentExcellentExcellentExcellent
GoodGoodGoodGoodGood
AverageAverageAverageAverageAverage
PoorPoorPoorPoorPoor
Very PoorVery PoorVery PoorVery PoorVery Poor

Voting help


 
Add a comment on this article.

 

mumof2b
May 2007 | mumof2b
One on One

I'm a huge believer in One on One time. I tell my boys constantly that I love them and they never get sick of hearing it.

Amanda



Reply Reply Report
Libby24
May 2007 | Libby24
one on one
i also try to do this with my kids. we do alot of mum and kids suff like reading where i get them to read to me. gotta love picture books.

but i make a point to tell both my kids and hubby that i love them when ever i see them. (my biggest fear is that i will lose them and not of said to them that i love them)


Reply Reply Report
jenaya04
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | jenaya04
one on one
Yes, you are quite right. I have been lucky. I have a large age gap between my 2 kids and have found it great as I have been able to spend lots of one on one time with each of them. I understand that it must be harder trying to find the time when you have a larger family with all of the daily stresses we all endure. A well written piece, thanx


Reply Reply Report
Brian49
May 2007 | Brian49
One on One
Yes you have to tell your kids you love them,I give my 2 young children a kiss and cuddle every morning before they go to school and also tell them i love them. My eldest son 22 years old always gives me a cuddle when i take him home. I did the same with my father until i was 32 years old, when he died he was my father my mate and my best friend. And at the age of nearly 50 i still cry at his grave side, love never ends.


Reply Reply Report
crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | crystalmoon
I am such
a strong advocate of the one on one system........I also find this time helps de-stress (sometimes distress lol) me as well.Top article regards Crystal


Reply Reply Report
hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | hermy
One on One
that is such a good idea......it would get a little hard if you have lots of kids......great idea none the less....thank you for sharing this with us......xxx.


Reply Reply Report
nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | nell18-3
100% agree
Everychild needs to know they can have some one on one time
we as parents need it too so we can stay in touch with our child and their lives
xxx


Reply Reply Report

Know someone who would like this site? Refer a friend