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Why Dolls & Stuffed Animals are Important

Vicki by Vicki Speaking(May 2007) (rank 500+)
I remember every detail of my favorite baby doll when I was growing up. Her name was Elizabeth (named after my favorite character on the Waltons). She had straight black hair, big brown eyes and a soft, cuddly body. She was my best and truest friend.

Elizabeth went with me everywhere: to the park, to friend's houses, on trips, and best of all...to sleep. Elizabeth knew every facet of my life. I told her secrets, shared my fears, my tears and my dreams. She was my most treasured possession.

Now, as a mother of 3 boisterous boys, I don't have many dolls in my life. Fischer has a stuffed Dalmatian named Pizza and Henry has a plush Beagle named Basketball. Every night I watch my boys wrap their arms around their best friends and hear them whisper the secrets of the day. I can't help but feel a tad bit jealous. And although I long to be part of these private conversations, I'm sure it's far more healthy that I'm not!

A favorite doll or stuffed animal not only teaches your child how to be a good friend and promote imaginative play but most importantly these toys make memories that last a lifetime. Are we ever too big (or old) to play with dolls?
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cookclan
May 2007 | cookclan
Rita her name is
And Now after so many kids I watch Nikita lie in her bed and tell Rita all about just about everything lol...Yes I am a hoarder and I have kept her hehe all the girls have cuddled her.....Well written mate..
Cheers
Angie


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | hermy
Why Dolls & Stuffed Animals are Important
i dont actually sleep with them but my bed once maid has several soft toy on it .......i have this thing with pigs and i have a few of the soft kind on my bed.......ryan has began to borrow one to take to bed with him,this is really nice cause till now he has not really wanted anything like that......great advice, thanks....xxx


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Kellzacar
stuffed toys
Hi there,

Stuffed toys are GREAT . . . My now 16 yr old had a homemade knitted bunny that she carried everywhere until she was 5 . . . poor bunny even had his very own burial as he was unrepairable and worn out.

My 7 year still has her knitted doll which she calls DD after her late great grandmother . .  DD had pride of position in her room and is loved and talked to everyday . . . 

My girls loved their stuffed toys and i'm hoping my baby girl will be the same . .  Great article

Cheers Kellz


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jenaya04
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | jenaya04
stuffed toys

Hi there, I work with the disabled who are also aged. Each one my residents have stuffed toys on their bed or have a favorite doll for comfort that they adore. When the big hob-nobs come round to assess us for funding ect, we have to run around hiding all of these toys as it is looked upon as not being age appropriate. They seem to forget that most of these residents have the mind set of a 6yr and what 6yr wouldn't like toys?? I still have my gollywog that was given to me by my grandfather 30yrs ago! Oh, and i still drag out the cabbage patch dolls to remember days long ago! Too old for stuffed toy??...NEVER!!!



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      sealsista72
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | sealsista72
stuffed toys
I know what you are talking about.  My autistic son is 13 and has the mental age of a three year old, and I tried for ages to stop him from taking them out in public, but after his age was assessed, I knew that it was unrealistic and also unfair to expect him to change - just because it doesn't look socially appropriate or acceptable.  People can stare at him all they like.  If he doesn't take them with him when he goes out, they will have more of  a reason to stare...!!!

I also have many favourite toys that I can't part with, including a HUGE collection of soft toy seals that I can't stop adding to...lol!!!


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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | Marglr
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All our guys had stuffed creatures of some type. I think they need it too! Plus it takes care of the issue of keeping your stuff were it's to be because they always want it near. So they willingly are responsible for the toy,doll or stuffed friend.


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