Ive spoken to great understanding people on minti that have been though what i may be going though at the time and they understand that so means alot to me to know im not alone ,,
mintis is all about life experience some have gone though it others are
going though it and the rest it may be yet to come ,,
other than talking to doctors its a great place to know your NOT alone and it gives me comfort to know this ..
advice for some may not work for all people and for others it does ,I think voteing anyone down cause it didnt work for them is silly cause we are all differnt and maybe later on in life the origional advice just might be the right time for them to read it again and try it again .People are very passionate at what has worked for them cause they care about everyone thats going though hard times and help people know more what they can try to do , does their advice make it wrong cause someone has tried it once ( No)
do we not go to our doctor and ask for help with things and cause the antibiotic didnt work str8 away does that make the medication wrong ( NO) you have to gives things a little time for them to work like everything .
.It takes time to be able to write anything up and people do this i beleive not for stars anyway .
but cause they have a great idea or that they care enough for people to read their own experience and like to help others that are also going though a hard time ,,
imagion if no one wrote anything ,, this place would be empty and we would be back to where we all started without minti and the people here with their experiences ,wondering what to do all over again ,
with peoples advice I am learning something new everyday ,,even if its not relivent to me at the time its still good to read ..knowledge is a powerful thing .
with answering anyones questions i write what has worked for me if i have been in that spot before .the more help thats there and the more advice that anyone does get is more power to us as mothers and fathers ,, everything in life is trial and error .
and its also great to read what men are going though and their experiences as fathers.
Im finding new friends on here all the time that i can either relate to or help or even just have a chat to at times all driffernt ages , minti and its members are an important asset to our lives an extra hand to reach out to in times of need .
And my door is always open for anyone ...even if i dont know how to help i can be there just to lend an ear or have a great laugh with them.
Ive had a minti member call me up when i was feeling low cause they care , who in life rings up a stranger they have never met .A mother a friend a lady with a huge heart
( thankyou for doing this ANGIE your a wonderful lady that reached out and held my hand )
and a few others also have been a rock for me ,that have given up their own time for me Thankyou ...Nell also
And i am there also for them if they need me .
No one should be putting anyone down for things on here
we are all here for the same reason HELP and ADVICE and Friendship and Knowledge....And even a good laugh .
(June 2007) (
Lexi xxx
Thanks.
