Talking About Puberty To Your Teens & Tweens By A Teen

Ok well sometimes us kids are a bit well embaressed confused uncomfrtoable talking about some things with our parents. Like the big thing is Puberty and the brids & the bees. Well you may not like the method i suggest but it keeps out the uncomfrtobleness.

1.  your our parents
2.  your not a teen/tween/pre-teen like us
3.  we rather here about it from school classes or researching it out selves

Those are just some resons why its weird to talk about it with you parents. I personaly find it disturbing discussing any of this with my parents. Some kids may find that an easy solution out of having to talk about any of these personal things is to avoid it. Pretend your to busy. Or you got to be somewere that moment. Hiding is a possible thing actualy.

Now i bet you want to talk to your kids about some of this stuff right? If you didnt why are you reading this? Best way to talk about it is not talk to us about it upfront unless you ahve a strong bond with your kid or they ask you about it.  Now if you dont have the bond or they dindt ask you got 1 simple method with steps i have provided

• Youve noticed some changes in your child. Deeper voice for the guys or figures coming for the girls. Now you want to talk about these changes with them. But you dont have a strong bond and they never bothered to ask you about it. So you must consider 1 thing first off. Wich is.....is school telling your kdis about any of this.
• If Yes thats great theyll understand it a lot more when you do these steps.
• If No then this will be so new to them

1. Get a normal brown grocery bag
2. Go to a store and buy quality shampoo and conditiionr for your child becasue there hair is bond to get smelly and greasy now. (For shampoo i recomend fructis)
3. Buy good soup like safegaurd. Safegaurd is a good soup for clening a teens body.  (stay aaway from body wash i hear its no good)
4. Buy a book explaining the birds & the bees
5. Buy a book explaining puberty.
6. Buy a book explaing what to expect in your teenage years like pear pressure and stuff
7. Buy a book ecplaing proper gromming and hygene for that age.
8. Buy deoderant for them. Secret for the girls and Axe or Tag deoadernt for the guys.
9. Cologne and perfume. Only good ones not cheap stuff becasue its no good. Your child has to learn to be hygenic.
10. Bras for girls. Taking them along is weird for them most of the time when buying the trainer bra. Buy one first and if your faughter saids anything like its to tight or it feels weird tell her if she would like to come along to buy them or if shed perfer to be measured at home so you could go get them. if she doesnt talk to you  about that ask her how it is and suggest it if there a flaw in it Usualy this is a big no no to talk about but its a nmsut must truth be told.
11. Face CLeansers. Acne cleaners. Buy quality stuff. Dont buy patches or pills. ANd yes proactive may be for guys and girls but it doesnt work for all. If it doesnt work for your it may casue peeling.
12. Write a note saying its time for a new warddrboe a haircut. Unkess you like your haircut or wardbrobe now. If not we could change it since your odler now but nothing to weird. (Im not saying let them have pony tails for guys or take them to stores that will make them dress gothic or gangster but nice stores. Unless you want them to dress like that then its fine)
13. Put this all in the bag and leave it on there bed with there name written on the front with a marker.  Your child will most deinftly look whats inside.

• Hint -  If you find a book with steps 4 - 7 in 1 thats great only buy 1.
• Hint -  Brand Name clothe are nice but quite expensive. Not necesary to shop there. You can if you want to. Personaly i like them. But i aslo like normal clothes too without the brands on them.
• Hint - For step 12 most parents would say no way. But someitmes the kdis feel theyve outgrown there little kid clothes and haircut. Let them choose but also let them show you it first and have you approve. Keep an open mind when deciding.