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Boys have a Penis and Girls have a Vagina...The real names and why... |
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by cookclan (June 2007) (rank 11th) |
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When our kids are little we teach them alot of things...Numbers, Letters, Colours, about nature and body parts...We teach them their nose...By touching it and saying it well thats how i did it...We teach them all the names of their body parts and for some reason alot of us find the
need to find a Nikname for their genitals...I know they might sound nicer than the proper names for them but here is what I have now taught all of my kids...
Boys have a Penis and Girls have a Vagina...The real names and why...
My eldest was interferred with when he was younger and he told me of what happened...While we were in the interview with the police officer in charge of the investigation he asked him to tell him what he did...My sons answer to him was "He touched my Johhny George" The police officer looked at me and then he said to my son and "What is your Johnny George mate" My sons reply was "You know your Johnny George" He then had to go into detail with him to find out what he meant by Johnny George...He asked him to show him and he could but still this in a court room can be misconstrued in so many ways...
After the interview with my son was finished The police officer spoke to me and talked to me about using nik names for my childrens genitals...He told me not to do it..He said fair enough if after you have taught them the correct name for thier genitals you want to give them a nik name but ALWAYS teach them the correct name to start with...
It makes sense really when you think about it because just say we gave other parts of our bodies nik names like your arm...How would anyone else apart from you know what your child was talking about if they hurt it or there was pain in it?
So this is my advice to you...Teach your child all the correct words for their body parts from the beginning...God forbid that anything like what happened to my son will happen to your child...But is it not better to be safe than sorry...
Just wanted to share my expeirience with you all and something I learnt...
Have a great day
Cheers
Angie