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re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth

emmie by emmie Talking Back(June 2007) (rank 27th)
Re: explianing to toddlers why she cant be present at childbirth
Asked by scutts

Question:

Hi i am current 7 months pregnant, and i am going to give birth at home, how do i explain to my 2 and half year old that that

she cant be present at the birth, and cant stay at home with mummy and daddy, without making her feel rejected?

Please help thanks



My Advice:

never had a homebirth but when i was heavily pregnant obviously me and my step daughter needed to talk about what would be happening whwn mummy has the baby as she was used to being with me 100  per cent of the time i told her that she will be going to stay at grampys house and he would take her shopping for the day and then she would be going to grampys for dinner and wil be sleeping in grampys big bed and i promised she could take some toys and some videos to watch and when daddy arrives in the morning you can come and see mummy and your new baby sis/bro which to eaxh thing i told her i followed through on and she was happy with that and she stayed with grampy had a lovely time and was extremely happy and glad to finally see her baby sister and she brought her a teddy and me a big cuddle and everybody was happy . I hope your plan works out as well as mine did and i hope this helps .

emz

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emmie
August 2007 | emmie
Re: re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth
cheers lexi i thought i made the right choice


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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | lexiw
Re: re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth

my eldest was brought into the labour room before everything was cleaned up and she freaked out. I agree with your article totally great advice

 Lexi xxx



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Ngairi
Re: re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth
My two were given the option of attending even though they were older 9 & 10. They couldn't run the other way fast enough so I didn't have to worry about it. Leisa


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Rachall
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Rachall
Re: re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth

I am glad I did not have to explain to my son why he could not be with me when I had no2

Rachael



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jmrmumstheword
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | jmrmumstheword
Re: re explaining to toddlers why she cant be present at birth
great advice hun when it comes time to have additional children it can be quite hard to know what to tell a child why they cant be there and what is going to happen if you choose to go that far with the explanation and the way you have explained it is great girl
hopefully this helps that women in her time of need as most of us know how hard it can be to explain it to someone so little
great work hun mwah xx


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      jmrmumstheword
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | jmrmumstheword
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sorry hun it wont let me vote on my comment but you know i give you 5 stars anyway lol
love ya


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      emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | emmie
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thanx babe


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