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What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition

cazza by cazza Young Parent(July 2007) (rank 2nd)

What makes a good foster carer

 People with a variety of life experiences and from all religious, ethnic and cultural backgrounds can become successful foster carers. To be a foster carer you'll need:
  • patience and an understanding of the needs of children in foster care
  • experience of looking after children
  • time and energy to care for children who may have complex needs.
You'll also need to be able to understand and accept the child's background and be willing to work with family members as well as health, social services and education workers to promote the all round care of the children. You don't need to be married or own your home to be a foster carer but you do need to be committed to supporting children and young people to enable them to reach their full potential. Overall the role of a foster carer is to help children to feel settled, confident and happy whilst also being supportive of their family relationships.

We decided that as parents of 3 , that we had all those to offer and have felt so good to be able to provide a loving home to these children..

So mick and my role is more respite but we are on  call 24 hours a day 7 days a week, and usually take children in for weekends...... Our children love how there are extra children in the house hold, and we dont take on any child that is older then brodie, as we want to be able for him to be able to understand what he is feeling before we take that huge step in taken some one older the him...

Financial support

Foster carers are paid:

  • a weekly allowance to help with the day to day expense of looking after the child plus
  • a fee for each child which varies depending on their age.
Higher fees are payable for some fostering schemes to recognise the extra work involved.

Now as we are temcare- respite carers the payments are diffrent to the department as the parents pay as a childcare payment..

Now when we done our training we were asked before the support worker was to contuie speaking who was there for fiancial reasons,. as any one that cares for children for money isnt worth looking after chuildren, now that may be a bit harsh, but what we all need to understand is some of these children dont choose to come into care, so they need some consideration whown to them, its like having one of your own, you wouldnt go out and have a baby for the money... So if you are considering that you have what it takes to be a carer, please contact your nearest child / family services...

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ellamia
October 2007 | ellamia
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
This is awsome cazza, great advice and well written.

Thanks

Love Kelly


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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Libby24
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
this is excellent advice.
once my kids have left home and i am better financially this is what i plan on doing. There are so many kids out there that need help.

well done cazza


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
thank you.........


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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | blackwidowkate
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
Hi
If you are in it for the money you are sadly dillusional
Half the time they forget to pay you
The other half they pay you in about 4 weeks time lol
The children usually come to you with nothing especially emergency care and you have to provide everything
Money...what money
Luv Deb


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
i absolutely agree, and also the way i look at it, we dont have our children for money, so why have others then.........

I love just seeing their smile when they walk out my front door, thats worth more then money.............


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      sealsista72
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | sealsista72
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
Deb, I agree with you 110% Sounds like foster care money works the same as child support money.  I "think" I have been paid my what they call, "minimum entitlement" today, but it's not even worth bothering about...$26.67 a month for FOUR boys...doesn't even pay for McDonald's by the time I have to pay for the bus fares or taxi fare to get there!!!  To make things worse, I am getting it payed fortnightly, so I barely even notice it's there...


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           cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
she is so spot on for sure our debbie..........


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georgiepar
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | georgiepar
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition

yes these kids do need love and time spent with them

georgie

ps now i'm up to date hehe



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August88
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | August88
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
This wouldn't be a walk in the park I am sure so I couldn't imagine anyone doing this for the money and I would have thought you would need to have some kind of security behind you. Great articles so far.


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jimannakateen
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | jimannakateen
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition

Yeah i will in about 5 years time.I would prefer my kids to be a bit older and understand a little more. I wouldnt  do respite i will be looking for short or long term placements. My mum has 3 as you already know but it funny going out with them as they look at you real funny bec they are asian, well 2 of them are. They have to be the nicest kids i have met. The other one is a hand full and has some disblty but we have managed.  Great article and a great plug. Well done

 Tee



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jd2
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | jd2
Re: What makes a good foster carer-edited Part 2 edition
Great advice im lovin this ...mwah jo xxxx


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cookclan
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cookclan
Re: What makes a good foster carer
This is a lovely piece of advice...i have met a few foster carers and it really is a hard job....Doing it for the money is just a waste of time I think....These kids need love and time as all kids do not just to be a meal ticket for someone....Your amazing cazza....
Mwah
Angie


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: What makes a good foster carer

You are so right.  The money should be the last thing one thinks about!

Angela



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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Deborahsc2203
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your a very special woman with a kind heart and alot to give to other children I truely admire what you do for others xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer
thank you and im just a normal mum that is able to what i feel is good for those children, and as u know  i have my days with my kids as well..


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | hermy
Re: What makes a good foster carer
i think it takes a really special person to do this....YOU are that person......great article, and thanks for sharing......regards Sandra xxx


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer
thank you sandra and yes i think u are great as well..


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: What makes a good foster carer
This is great Cazza, I hope that we are in a position to do this in the future too.  I really like the attitude your kids have toward the extra kids in the household too - they would definitely have got that from you guys - well done, and well written.  A nice positive vibe going down the cyper lines to zap you from me!


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer
that would be great if you and your family feel that u could help, it is a special thing to do, and so rewarding to see those children walk out our door smiling..


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lisasmith140483
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | lisasmith140483
Re: What makes a good foster carer
great article again cazza


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Shellshell
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Shellshell
Re: What makes a good foster carer

 Great advice Cazza

I think it takes someone special to be a foster carer. Good on you!

 Shelley



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: What makes a good foster carer
Hi Cazza,

you forgot the most important thing that us careers need - a sense of humour!!!! As without it we'd lose sight of the bigger picture . .  ha ha

Great article mate . . Cheers Kellz


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer
yes defiently, and i was getting there haha, i  want to cover little bits each day hopefully, as the states need more carers, and what better way is to shared our stories on here,..

Thanx alana for that  input...


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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | mumof2b
Re: What makes a good foster carer

You are one special person Cazza.........this is great information for anyone thinking about foster care.

Amanda xxxx



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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: What makes a good foster carer
thank you amanda...


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