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A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5

cazza by cazza Young Parent(July 2007) (rank 2nd)

The following checklist may help you to decide whether you have the qualities to foster for Foster Care and other agencies that deal with children in care that need foster carers ....

  • You genuinely like children and can remain enthusiastic even when things are difficult.

  • You appreciate that fostering will have an impact on your own children and wider family.

  • You do not expect children to be grateful for the care you show and may take time to respond.

  • You can accept a child who may reject or strongly disagree with your views and feelings.

  • You can understand that children may lie, steal or display sexualised behaviour.

  • You can accept and deal with anger from children.

  • You have a good sense of humour.

  • Your marriage, partnership or support network of friends and family can withstand the pressures associated with fostering.

  • You can, when necessary, reach out to others for support.

  • You can accept failure in yourself and others.

  • You can be pleased with small steps of progress.

  • You can accept that things in your house might be messed up, moved or broken.

 These are the sort of questions you will be asked before you are accredited as a foster carer, as its so viable for the children to feel safe and secure when they enter your house..
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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | ellamia
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
Good ideas there. Fostering is such a big thing.

Love Kelly


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georgiepar
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | georgiepar
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5

good check list hunni

georgie



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mumofjtcb
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | mumofjtcb
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
really good advice. but you have written it all twice.


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
lol yes i just realised haha... its all good..


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August88
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | August88
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
Was the repeating for effect. Ha ha.


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      cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
just to get the message across and i had to edit it a bit as well.

Does all look the same but they are defiently all diffrent...


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samantha
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | samantha
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
wow thats great cazza. but why is everything repeated twice?


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
WTG Cazza,

These article were GREAT . . . .  Good on you . . . .

Cheers Kellz


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | hermy
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
great tips ......wow there is heaps involved in this, isn't there........as i have said to you before it takes a special person and obviously a special family......thanks for sharing all this with us.....regards Sandra xxx


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jd2
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | jd2
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
Well we'll be havin these chats i thik but the house needs attention for now but will keep all in mind and will return to print when not so dusty...lol thanx cazza jo xxx


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: A Checklist to help you decide whether you would like to be a foster parent- part 5
This list is great, there are a lot of things to consider before taking on such a huge responsibility.  It is definitely not a decision to take lightly - this information about foster parenting that you have provided is really thought provoking and informative. 

Excellent stuff Cazza!


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