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How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

cazza by cazza Young Parent(July 2007) (rank 2nd)
How can I help my child when you put them in Respite/Temcare.

There are lots of ways you can help your child cope with being away from you, and in a
strange place.
The most important things for you child to know are that you love them and that going
into foster care is not a punishment.

Make sure your child has things that are important to him or her eg favourite clothes,
the toy he or she takes to bed, a photo of the family.

It can be hard to let these things go, but they will help your child when they need comfort.
Tell the Caseworker or carer about your child’s likes, and dislikes eg favourite foods, bedtime
routine, and about any special medical needs eg allergies, medicine.
Try to stay calm when talking to your child about what is happening. They will be scared
and upset too. Ask for help if you don’t know how to answer their questions.
Try not to make promises if you aren’t sure that you can keep them.
Children find it harder to cope with broken promises, than
with not being sure about what will happen
next.

So this helps all children regardless what care you have requested for,  also some parents can contact the carers by phone, and talk to their carer and child....

Hope this info helps other mum/parents..

Thankyou...
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annagoddess
June 12th | annagoddess
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

Thanks for the tips.  As a single mum with no family I always worry what would happen should I need to go to hospital etc.  Great advice.



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | winja
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare
great advice thank goodness ive never needed respite but its good to know that carers like you are out there to help mums and dads that need help.


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | ellamia
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare
Great tips there. my daughter has a teddy called teddy lol. Great article.
Love Kelly


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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | blackwidowkate
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare
Hi
Good to know that my kid will be well cared for in respite
Can you come up here so I can put them in
Luv Deb


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | nell18-3
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare
Great advice Cazza
xxx


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Ngairi
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

Can I send you my kids for a holiday?? For 6 months? Just joking (I think)

 Love this advice, it puts a lot of things in perspective. I deal with a lot of kids in foster care at school, but never really looked at it from the foster carers position before.

Leisa



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | mumof2b
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

Well done Cazza.........I'm loving your fostering advice......

Amanda xxxxx



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | janicepovey
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

It's nice to read your advice tips, of making a child feel loved & that  fostering is not a punishment. As are all the other tips you described. Well done!

Regards Jance



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Shellshell
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Shellshell
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare

Great advice Cazza

 Shelley



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | hermy
Re: How can i help when you put your child in respite/temcare
well done cazza.......it's great to be able to see the other side of fostering.........thanks for sharing....regards Sandra xxx


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