Crying

                              My second born was a very unsettled baby ……..lots of crying, feeling stressed and tired.

                              When our babies cry

n      They could be hungry-new borns need frequent feeds, even if you just fed them,  a top up may be necessary

n      Comfort could play a major role in them crying eg; nappy change, are they to hot to cold are they happy in their surroundings

n      Tummy upsets; wind is also very common

n      Baby could just need a cuddle and some comfort, we all need that sometimes

n      Baby could be sick

                               As a parent we eventually learn to pick up the different cries of our baby, it can be very hard and stressful at the beginning. Remember one important thing, we can not spoil our babies when we are attending to their needs, our babies need to feel safe.

                             All babies are different and some will cry more than other, after having 4 I have learned that. When your baby is upset and crying you could try a range of methods to soothe them, for example;

n      Rocking

n      Wrapping or swaddling

n      Walking

n      Frequent feeding

n      Dummy (pacifier)

n      Massage

n      Music

n      Baby slings, they offer great comfort and contact

n      Change room environment

n      A drive in the car

                  I am sure that there are lots more, feel free to add……….

                             It becomes very hard on us as parents when our babies are constantly crying. Do not be scared to ask for help, you may need a brake away from your baby, we all need this at times and it’s not wrong. If at the present time when you are feeling very stressed because your child will not stop crying, make sure your baby is safe, then walk outside to the furthest spot in you garden were you cannot hear the crying, take a few deep breaths and try and relax, when you feel you are up to it again, return to your baby and try to settle again. I found this worked for me with my second born , there were days that whatever I did he would not stop crying, this helped me recharge, ready for the next round. Remember that you must also look after yourself and get plenty of rest. If the situation is becoming to much please make sure you speak to your Doctor or a health professional.

                              One important point to remember, if your baby’s cry is different to normal and there are other signs that they may be unwell, make sure you have them checked by your Doctor, symptoms can progress very quickly in small babies.

                              I hope this helps…………….