Minti is a parenting website
It is unique in this field
That is down to the clever planning that our creators put into the set up of Minti
We may not agree with every rule their is
But guess what????& #63;
IT DOESN"T MATTER
This site allows everyone a free will
This is how I am going to use mine
Why not join me..................
Its no secret that I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Minti
It helped me find myself again when I was an empty shell of a woman struggling with the aftermath of an abusive marriage break up
It gave me friends that I totally trust and adore
It gave me a place to heal through writing my experiences
It became a dictionary of information for whatever situation I was dealing with as a parent
It was the biggest support network of individuals I have ever experienced
Minti has been my rock!!!!!
But then every so often bad things happen here
People use their free will to express their opinion
Others use their free will to drown those opinions
Free Will is a wonderful gift we can all take for granted
Having been robbed of my free will for so long during my marriage
No one is ever taking my free will again!!!!
We all need to remember, that we were created as unique people
No two people are the same
Society allows us to all have different opinions on every topic there is going
Sometimes we totally believe ourselves to be 100% accurate, we may even have facts to prove it
Does that justify us pushing our point so hard that we can hurt other people who have a different take on things
Minti is a community
To me a community is all about pulling together and working together to keep everyone happy.
So this is how I will be using my free will here on Minti in the future
I am not going to publicly belittle any one else's opinion
If anyone wants to disagree with anything I write
Feel free to do so, there will be no comeback from me
As valid as my opinion may be
Your opinion will be equally valid
If I disagree with anything anyone else uses their free will to write
I am entitled to have a different opinion, but that does not make me right
I will not get dragged into any arguments on Minti
I will be using my free will to keep out of it and keep other parts of Minti still positive and upbeat
There are always going to be some "hot' topics that come along
But lets all use our free will in the way we express ourselves
We can all choose to not read the threads that we know will upset us, or we can choose to put our opinion on the thread but not get involved in any backlash from what we have written
Any that choose to write about these "hot' topics just so they can sit back and enjoy the fallout
Shame on You!!!!
Any of you that choose to write about the "hot" topics so they can genuinely get advice
Be prepared for strong opinions from both sides of the coin
Kindness and Respect for others opinions is an awesome quality
Lets all show some and see how powerful this site can become
Am I wrong???
Course I may be
Like I said I am just using my freewill to express my thoughts at the moment
What do we want from Minti???
I want a community of friends who know they can count on me to be there for them when they need me to be and likewise have the re assurance they are equally there for me
I want to be able to read and give advice on relevant topics without any offence to anyone else here
I want to learn from others experience and share my experiences
But most of all I want Minti to be the best parenting support group on the entire web
And do you know what.....
WE CAN DO IT!!!!
(July 2007) (
Txx