The Unconditional Love of a Mother.....

This is a bit of advice about the love and the bond that is shared between a mother and her child....This can also apply with fathers and their children too....so don't let the title rev you up!

From the time your child is born....you will be filled with many emotions. The main emotions felt are love and happiness.
Babies are wonderful little humans... They laugh, they cry, they smile and they bond....They do everything that an older human being would do....but until they are older can not control some things that they do or that Happen.

When your baby is born you are filled with such happiness and Love...a love that will never end. THis is why the love is unconditional - because it never ends.

In the first 12 months of your baby's life it is the most vital time for bonding - as your child needs to learn about its surroundings and who to be able to call for (mum or dad, nan or pop).
It is important that you establish a strong bond with your child and show affection - by playing, cuddling, kissing cheek or just talking to her and telling that you love her.
It is good also, for a child to suffer from separation anxiety - as it proves and shows that the bond you have with your child is strong.
If a child does not suffer it can be a sign that mother and baby have not connected as much....though this is not the case for every one!

I am a stay at home mum and the bond i share with my daughter is strong. We laugh together, we play lots of games together, we have bonding time of a morning where we just lay in bed and have a nice little snuggle.

Recently i felt what it was like to have my daughter tell me she loves me - and that i am pretty! It made my day and i nearly cried!!
I was just telling her as i do every 5 seconds (well not that often...maybe every 20 min) that i love her....and to my surprise she just turned around and said
" love you too honey" stroked my face and said i was pretty!

This made me feel extra special....as i know that through the way i have showed her affection and love, she has learnt to be loving and to love!

So please....show your child whether it be 2months old or 2 yrs old - just what a mothers love is like and feel the same happiness as i have!

Cheers.

Love Kayla.