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Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Domestic-warrior by Domestic-warrior Talking Back(July 2007) (rank 54th)

There's been a few questions lately about how to meet people after having a baby and leaving work.  I thought I'd reiterate  that Playgroups in Australia are an excellent way to do this.  Whether they be an informal group who go to the park once a week, to a

more organised group like the one that i'm in.

When i first went along i was dubious about them (you know, a bunch of women griping) but i soon got into it and really enjoyed it for myself and for my children.  In the time that i have been there i have made some beautiful friendships and found everyone to be kind and caring.  My Children have also made some close friends too, and  I am now co-ordinator for our group!

A few things you may consider when looking into a group for you and your child are:

*Is the area child friendly and free from hazards

*Is there a roster system that everyone participates in

*Do they have safety standards in place ie. first aid kits,list of emergency contacts

*Are memberships up to date - important for Public liability

*Mostly - do they have FUN!

Playgroup Motto is Excellence at Play.  Value Play and Have Fun,  Feel Safe and Secure, Participate and Share, Encourage not Discourage, Respect and Value Difference.

A general day at our Playgroup goes like this:

Someone opens up the hall and member help set up as they arrive

One person will do an activity with the kids be it craft or physical or music

A couple of people will bring morning tea to share, with everyone bringing fruit

Everyone helps pack up, one person stays till the end and closes.

We have a roster system, which everyone participates in.  We try to get every member to do a couple of jobs each quarter, but there is no pressure  to be there on your day (often people swap if they can't make it) or to do activities that people don't feel comfortable with!  It seems to work well, and the 'work load' is shared amongst the group.

I've really enjoyed my time at our Playgroup and it's as easy as contacting them on 1800 171 882 or www.playgroupaustralia.com.au .  They will be able to direct you to your nearest Playgroup or help you start up a new one.

Or, if anyone wants more info on them just minti mail me .

Julie

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Roomtogrow
October 19th | Roomtogrow
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

 Agree this is the best way to meet mums and dads my husband also attends playgroup with us!



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janicepovey
April 2009 | janicepovey
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

 Great article Julie and some pointers put forward for Mum's to look for.

Cheers Janice



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      Domestic-warrior
April 2009 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Cheers Janice



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winja
April 2009 | winja
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

great advice!

thats a great way to go about playgroup and similar to the mums group i had when i had chloe :)

i do several playgroups with tobias (different days so i pick one or two a week) and my favourite is set up in the kinder at chloes school for parents with toddlers babies and school aged kids at that school, we really enjoy it! we also do swimming with them!

playgroups great fun for the kids and although i dont consider myself much of a "joiner" i found i really liked it too and got along really well with all the mums.

i bet you would make an excellent group leader! well done on this advice DW!

 



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      Domestic-warrior
April 2009 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Lol, thank you...although i have to admit i have now relinquished my role as group Leader, after two years plus i thought it was someone else's turn!!



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jenroc
November 2008 | jenroc
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Just found this advice - thanks. Though I have never done the playgroup thing with my two littlies, a friend and I are in the process of starting up a specialised playgroup for children with autism and their siblings, so it is really helpful to get a general idea of how to run one. Love the motto/principles too.



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      Domestic-warrior
April 2009 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Thats a great idea, knowing some people with special needs kids i know it is hard and can make one feel isolated.  You could contact Playgroup Assn and ask if they have any pointers for you, they are extremely helpful.  You may even be able to get a grant.  Good luck with it all.



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Ravenheart
November 2008 | Ravenheart
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

great advice

xoxo



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      Domestic-warrior
November 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Thanks



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neets
November 2008 | neets
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

great advice, i have been meaning to join since Katelyn wasborn, but most of my time is taken up helping at school with Aaron.



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      Domestic-warrior
November 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Sounds like you are busy enough!  School can take up a lot of time, and they really need the help too.  Playgroup is not for everyone but great if you feel isolated or are new into an area.



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nabutters
November 2008 | nabutters
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

i need to start doing this, im at home all the time with myah and we both dont get to socialise.....

great advice sweets!!

na xoxox



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      Domestic-warrior
November 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

You can use those links to find out if there is one in your area.  I have made some great friends through Playgroup that will remain for life.  We also put on a mean morning tea too!!



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rcp-432
November 2008 | rcp-432
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

i go to 2 playgroup one for autism and one for mental health and me and my kids really enjoy them

 



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      Domestic-warrior
November 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Thats great that you can get together with other parents who have similar issues with their children.  It really helps to know you are not alone.



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kathryn-solaris
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | kathryn-solaris
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

be nice for rhiannon cept for every site i go to for playgroup listings never has any in my area. closest one i can find online is 35km away.



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      Domestic-warrior
May 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Sounds like a good enough excuse to start your own!!



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Rose24
February 2008 | Rose24
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

I have been going since my daughter was two, and now 5 years on my boys really enjoy it. I have recently become a group leader so that I can help more mothers see what a great social outing it is for their children and themselves. Great article!



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      Domestic-warrior
May 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

Thats great that you have now become Group Leader, i'm sure you'll be good at it.  I'm Group Leader for ours but we all have an input, although everyone is just like yeah whatever...lol...they are all pretty casual and everyone is agreeable!



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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | kseers
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
Hi Julie - great article.  i joined a playgroup when my son was about 15months old - don't know why we waited so long!  Now we love it and I am treasurer for the 2nd year running.  We have made great friends and now that my daughter is growing up she is making her own friends too.  More than that it has been a lifeline for me at times!


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      Domestic-warrior
May 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

It's a good way to meet people and get out especially if you are feeling isolated.  It's not the only thing to do but it is a start and especailly if you are in a small community where activities are limited. Thanks for reading.



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | hermy
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
great advice Julie......thanks for sharing.......regards Sandra xxx


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | emmie
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
great advice cheers


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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | merlin0903
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane

great advice and thanks for sharing,  i have been trying to get into a mothers group or play group since i had charlie but there doesn't seem to be any near me, or they are all full and not wanting to take new members or the mothers groups are happy with the number that they have in them, i have been trying to set up my own mothers group so that charlie has that social interaction with other kids, but since he got sick we have now been told that he can't do anything like that until he has his immune system test to see if he could cope with it, since finding this out i have been in contact with some of the hospitals to see if they do a playgroup or a mothers group and still no luck, oh well i guess i will just wait and see what happens

but great advice well done



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      Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
You may find that if they are full their books will be closed but often at the end of the year peoples kids move on to school etc and they'll be looking for new members.  Maybe Playgroup Assn can let you know when a Playgroup near you is looking again.  Just a thought not sure if they do this.  Good luck. Hope the tests are OK too.  Julie


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | cazza
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
great advise and yes so true.... I went to a playgroup with all my children and i have 3 ... I started there whe n brodie was 2 and caitlyn was 6 months old..I then had 3 years off and fell pregnant with chloe and so we started her there as well,..... Well a few weeks back after being part of this group and watched most of the mums kids go through, i decided to pull chloe out of there, as we got a few mums that were very clicky and very bitchy and thought that they could tell my daughter and me what to do,.... Thats not what i loved about playgroup and decided as chloe was distressed over it, i would resign me and chloe from there....

We attend the school playgroup and we both love it and the mums are great.....


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      Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
Yeah, have heard of this bitchyness and even at the one i go to it happened before i started.  Luckily it's not like that now we have a great bunch of mums and dads.


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angieh
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | angieh
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
There are also local play groups - the one in my suburb is actually in the local library and is run by either a volunteer mum or maybe one of the library staff (I'm not sure). But either way it can get noisy from lots of excited kids playing around, and I agree - it is a good way to meet new people and bond over having children. And you can set play dates with other mums too!


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      Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Playgroup - This is a great way to meet people, socialise your kids, feel sane
Thats right.  A lot are started by Mums who meet before baby, pregnancy yoga etc.  Most libraries have storytime and the Sate Library here in Brissie has a Kiddies Corner with activities on all the time. Jx


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