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Tips for Scary Movies and Your Kids

commonsensemedia by commonsensemedia Talking(July 2007) (rank 453rd)
 

From the Editors of Common Sense Media

May 3, 2007

Q: How can I really tell if a movie is too scary for my kids -- before I see it?

A: Every child is different, and only you know what's right for yours. Not all kids can distinguish between fantasy and reality -- even if you tell them "it's not real" -- as Joanne Cantor points out in her book, Mommy, I’m Scared: How TV and Movies Frighten Children and What We Can Do to Protect Them.

For so many parents, figuring out what's too scary for their kids is a frighteningly daunting task. Yes, frightening movies can be fun. But for younger and more sensitive viewers, movies with scary images, intense peril, loud noises, and, above all, blood and gore, can create all sorts of disturbances including anxiety, sleep disruption, and fears about certain situations.

So before you take your kids to the latest release or the latest spookfest thinking they just might be able to handle it, ask yourself if the film is age-appropriate. Our reviews can definitely provide you with some guidance. Getting scared can be fun -- if kids are truly mature enough to handle what's scaring them.

Check out a few additional tips below:

Ages 2-4: Nothing scarier than “boo” for this age unless you want nightmares.

Ages 5-7: Spooky cartoon situations with haunted houses and friendly ghosts are fine, but peril involving parents, siblings, or similar-aged kids is not. Kids at this age still can’t easily recognize situations as fantasy, so they will respond as if what they are seeing is real. Be very careful with monsters, skeletons, aliens, and zombies.

Ages 8-10: Some psychological suspense with happy endings is OK, as is physical jeopardy, ghoulish faces, and phantoms, as long as there's no blood or gore.

For the full article and tips for older kids and teens, please visit: http://www.commonsensemedia.org/parent_tips/commonsense_view/index.php?id=230 .

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Izzy
May 13th | Izzy
Re: Tips for Scary Movies and Your Kids

This is great advice. My son is 3 and though he can handle more than a "boo", we do need to be there with him to assure him that what everything is OK.  Scary looking people and creatures definitely are not OK. We rented Monster House once and that didn't sit well. The man was too scary and the house is just too much.



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FremantleDocker
January 8th | FremantleDocker
Re: Tips for Scary Movies and Your Kids
Thanks for the great tips. Very helpfull


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