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Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

tlex by tlex Walking(August 2007) (rank 500+)

First of all I would like to point out the numerous benefits of breast feeding for your child and yourself.

For Yourself:

  1. Immediately after child birth, breastfeeding helps contract the uterus back to it's normal size and reduces bleeding, therefore resulting in a smaller
    tummy and eventually returning to the normal size before the pregnancy. (Although, this can only be achieved with exercising as well. In some cases, some women who are very small exercise rarely and their stomache returns to normal).
  2. It delays your ovulation which can increase the time between pregnancies.
  3. It is way more convienient and easier than formula feeding because it does not require preparing the formula and warming it up, where as the breastmilk is just there. 
  4. Helps keep your bones strong and prevent against oteoporosis.
  5. It reduces the risk of cancer in the breasts and ovaries.
  6. The skin contact and bond with your child is probably thebest benefit of all.
  7. You save a TON of money. Formula is very expensive where as breastmlik is free.

For Your Baby:

  1. Formula increases your baby's risk for allergies and diseases such as diabetes, Chron's disease, ulcerative colitis and lymphoma.
  2. Babies who are breastfed have less of a chance of dieing from SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome).
  3. Babies who are not breast fed tend to be more colicky and experience symptoms such as crying, gas and constipation.
  4. Formula can even lead to ear, lung, bowel and urinary tract infections.

My Experience with Breastfeeding:

Breastfeeding can be difficult and a lot of new mothers who have never done it before or have had difficulty with it, will easily give up rather than persist. It is hard. As a breastfeeding mother, I know personally that it can be very difficult. But, I know how good it is for my son and I kept at it. In the hospital, when he was born, it was very tough and I was struggling because my breasts and nipples hurt SO bad! I thought I was doing something wrong and I was stubborn and didn't tell the nurses it hurt. Then I almost gave up. My baby was losing weight rapidly, even though he was born 8 pounds 9 ounces he was down to 8 pounds in 3 days! And, if they lost more than 10 % of their birthweight, it's not good. So, I switched to the formula one time because I had barely any milk, my breasts were so sore and it hurt to feed but I wanted to do it sooo bad. My baby got all the colestrum, which is the first of your milk in the first 3 days which is the best for your child. If he or she gets the colestrum, it can protect against allergies, diseases, and cancer and alz heimers later on in life. But anyways,  I almost gave up. Then I found out my milk wasn't supposed to come in til day 3 or maybe more! Finally the 3rd night I was there my breasts started leaking like crazy and my milk started coming in like cream. I had no difficulties with my son latching on, but the pain  was the difficult part. But, I pursued and I am still breast feeding to this day. It is very hard at first and even later on. At first, sometimes he or she won't latch or get enough or even overeat. Even later on, he or she may become distracted and look away and stop eating. But no matter what, persist and continue breastfeeding. If you're to the point where your nipples are falling off lol, well then I guess you should see a doctor. But do NOT give up! Breast milk is the BEST! It cannot be argued. Even if your milk isn't coming in as much as you'd like it to, keep feeding. Because, the constant sucking motion will help your milk flow and stimulate it's production!

What I think about women who choose not to breastfeed

Well apparently I can't express my opinion on what I think about women who don't breastfeed because last time my article was disabled. Watever.

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Burfordwife
September 16th | Burfordwife
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

I COMPLETELY agree with this article! If you dont breastfeed for all the benefits.. think of the special bonding time you will have with your bundle. Wake up to a cuddle and a breastfeed in the morning! They are so soft, warm and cuddly!



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tunky
2.55 (Average) | February 2008 | tunky
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

This is the worst article ever. The information is biased, it is forcefully and offensively written.  Sorry luv, but FED is best! I have both breastfed and formula fed, both have their pros and cons.



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dannii17
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | dannii17
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

hi i just wanted to know if the facts you put in about what formula causes is a proven fact or something you have come up with or heard?im not being rude so please dont take this offensive.i just dont see why they would sell formula if it causes such bad ilnesses.



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      MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2008 | MumKim
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

Hi Danni.

You asked why they would still sell formula if it causes such bad illnesses. The reason they do is that it is still the best alternative when a mother can't breastfeed or no other  donor breastmilk is available. The alternatives are giving the baby watered down milk or evaporated milk which cause even more problems than formula or even worse letting a baby starve to death.

Formula companies make a lot of money from selling their product so be careful of any information that you get from them about breastfeeding. It is actually in their best interests for mothers not to be able to breastfeed.

Breastfeeding can be easy for some people but others of us have to work at it. I really wish that I had found out more information about "how" to breastfeed before my daughter was born. I knew why I wanted to do it but I hadn't really looked at information on how to breastfeed. The ABA Australian Breastfeeding Association has lots of information on their website and they have free email and phone counselling 24 hours a day to help mothers. They also have a forum you may like to check out too.

If you are interested in more information on the risks of formula (also known as artificial baby milk (abm) in some articles) have a look at these articles

 

 

 

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cheers

Kim



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symmaron-rose
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | symmaron-rose
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
I have to say that in my opinion breastfeeding should be up to the individual to decide. I don't think telling anyone what they should and shouldn't do in regards to breastfeeding is very good advice at all. 


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Jessgore
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
Breast feeding is fantastic yes for those that can.. But I have to say that when I stopped breast feeding for me personally it was also amazing.. I gained back so much energy and was able to do so much more. I was not as tired as I was when breast feeding.

I enjoyed breast feeding up to the point where my son had teeth. Then he went cold turkey onto the bottle.  Now while I enjoyed the breast feeding to a point, I also enjoyed stopping.  I really became myself again (if anyone understands exactly what I mean).  I had no idea just how much energy breast feeding took from me. And I lost a lot of weight to the point that my family thought I was sick.  But once I stopped it came back (ok that is a bummer but hey I can still see my hips now) but I really was able to stay awake longer, I was happier to play with my son because I was not always trying to keep my eyes open.

Anyway that is just me.. I enjoyed it while it lasted, and I was happy when I stopped.


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      Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Arna
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
I agree.  Either way you feed them, they get cuddles.  Just because a feed comes from a bottle doesn't mean they are missing out on anything.  actually, they can see our faces better and don't seem to wriggle as much. lol

I want to breastfeed as long as possible this time, but it is bubs who dictates the success, not me!


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meggles
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | meggles
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
Please don't feel you cannot have an opinion. Some of these subjects are quite touchy. Think of something you are touchy about. If you saw an article about it you may react too. We are all human and sometimes can react more than we should. If I contributed to you feeling attacked I am sorry. For me I was shattered I could not breast feed but in the end it saved my boy from getting golden staff.


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DarkenedAngel
3.40 (Average) | August 2007 | DarkenedAngel
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
I forgot to mention, my now ex-hubby used to bottle feed my kids - with expressed breastmilk 99% of the time, couldn't afford formula most of the time then anyway, to give me a break. There is some association with colic and bottle feeding, but there are bottles available now that are specially designed to reduce that problem. I've just gone and bought some for my baby on the way, as although I intend to breastfeed again, bubbies still need a bit of water now and then, as they get older they also need juice, and it's always good to have a break and give bubs to someone else to feed expressed milk now and then. The only problem is it means washing bottles, so I try to avoid it. Hence why I only bought 3 bottles of different sizes and 2 of each sized teet to last bubs until s/he's drinking out of cups as they won't get used much. The more they are used the more often I have to wash them ya see. LOL


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      Arna
4.57 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Arna
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
The new bottles are great.  We have wide neck ones with special peristaltic teats that are supposed to give best sucking motion for a baby and help to support breastfeeding as well as reduce the amount of air swallowed.(I tried to find an article supporting this, but it was on the tag of the bottle and got recycled.  I could spend hours searching and still find nothing!)
Oh, and as for washing them?  My partner does that! lol.  Hey, kitchen is his domain and laundry is mine!


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rdw206
4.17 (Good) | August 2007 | rdw206
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
you should not have titled it breast feeding why you SHOULD do it.no body should be told to do something if they don`t want to.and some people might want to but due to health issues can`t.and some people just might prefer not to breast feed for other reasons.yes write the article about the benefits of breast feeding but don`t try to make it seem like it should be done.


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      lonely28
3.95 (Good) | August 2007 | lonely28
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
Very well put............

fi xoxo


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cheekymonkey
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cheekymonkey
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

Opinions are exactly that opinions.

There are many reasons why ladies choose or are unable to breatfeed, or choose to formula feed. I personally don't care which method any parent chooses to use as long as the child recieves the care and nurturing they need.

I was most upset when I discovered that at 2 days old my child had not been getting any milk from me. I had a very traumatic birth experience and my body was basically in shock. It's devastating to think that you can't breastfeed when really really wanted too. But at day four it cames in and it was great. But although I was really upset by the first thinking I couldn't feed him, I was reassurred by friends and family that this happens and not to feel bad about it. Everyones body is different and everyone feels different about thier body and what it should do. Some women simply cannot stand to have thier breasts touched, so the thought of a baby feeding from them is quite repulsive for them. Others just don't want to. Who I am to judge.? If the child is healthy, happy and content, then that's fantastic.

When we are pregnant and after child birth, we have so much advise and opinions thrown at us, that it is overwhelming and plays havoc on our self esteem. After a while I stopped taking everyone's lectures to heart and decided that I would do what suited me and my child. And you know what.....that's what works best for us.

Breastfeeding is a very touchy subject and one should not impose thier opinion upon others as gospel.



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      mumof2b
3.89 (Good) | August 2007 | mumof2b
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

Beautifully said cheekymonkey...........

 



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DarkenedAngel
3.00 (Average) | August 2007 | DarkenedAngel
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

Okay, I didn't read the unrevised version, but from what I've heard this is a bit better.

Please be aware that not all mothers can breastfeed, and some can't do it for genuine medical reasons. I breastfed mine until they weaned themselves and never had any problems. But I will not judge any other mother for her choice as I may not know all the circumstances behind that choice.  Many women just never recieve the adequate learning and support. Breastfeeding DOES NOT come naturally, it is something that does need to be taught. If you feel so strongly about it, join the breastfeeding association and provide that support to mothers by teaching them how to do it.

As for why I chose to breastfeed, it was simple really. Bugger all the health reasons, I'm too lazy to wash and sterilize bottles and stuff, don't have the temperament to tolerate a screaming baby while I make and heat up formula, and I'm a lousy planner and I tend to forget to take things with me if I go out, and as it's totally portable and available 24/7 I don't have to worry about making sure I remember to carry supplies with me everywhere incase I don't make it home in time! See, being a breastfeeding mother doesn't necessarily mean you're a good mother, it can mean you're a lazy, impatient, forgetful poor time manager like me! LOL



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      MumKim
4.46 (Good) | August 2007 | MumKim
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
I am a lazy breast feeding mum too.


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      cheekymonkey
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cheekymonkey
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
hehehe!! Count me in too! But I had to do it when I went back to work, and wasn't that fun. Thank goodness for dishwashers and milton.


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      HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

Love the suggestion of joining the breastfeeding association!  What  a great idea.  Not only will Lexy learn, but she can then teach others.  Marvelous idea!

Excellent comment.
Angela



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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Deborahsc2203
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it

to be alot more helpful with others that are experiencing breastfeeding problems ,, be more constructive with your experiences .

on how you got your milk back, how you over come this ?how  did you overcome the pain of breastfeeding ,how long did it last for ?

ie ,, what did you do ?what you actually went through etc,,, who did you go and see what did they suggest ? what worked for you ?what didnt ?

as in writing this way will benifit mums a whole lot more and will also offer advice through your trials and errors .after all are we not writing articles to help one another ?



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Deborahsc2203
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Deborahsc2203
Breastfed babies also get colic

Why are some babies colicky?
Colic is one of the great mysteries of baby life. About 20 percent of babies become colicky. The condition is equally common among firstborn and later-born, boys and girls, breastfed and formula-fed. No one knows why some babies are more prone to it than others, but theories abound. And there may well be more than one cause.

Your baby may have colic because his digestive system is a bit immature or sensitive. (In fact, the word colic comes from a Greek word, kolikos, which roughly translates to "colon.") A newborn's digestive tract contains very few of the enzymes and digestive juices needed to break down food, so processing the proteins in breast milk or formula can lead to painful gas.


Breastfeeding may lower your baby's risk of SIDS?????
There's no conclusive evidence that breastfeeding reduces your baby's risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) per se. Some studies have found a link between lowered rates of SIDS while others have not.

my first child ( rest in peace ) was a breast fed baby she passed away

I breastfed twins and pumped my milk for another mother for 6 months i was in deed blessed with milk .

they also had asthma and are slow learners still to this day. so  breastfeeding didnt help with any of their development and health problems at all .

last child hes two and a half now i was only able to breastfeed for 3 months  arround about

hes has a photographic  memory and is advanced in his years my milk dryed up fast no matter what i tried and i did try everything .so he was bottled fed after that .he had less breast milk then the twins

so my point is

we all love our babies and children and we as parents do our utmost to protect them nurture them and keep them safe healthy and happy , no one should ever be judged this way or belittled like this .we all have a story to tell .

its in no way an easy job and all parents should be supported in any way we can be there for eachother .whatever the situation is .what works for one may not work for another .thats why this site is soo good as it is very helpful to many in differnt ways . the more experience ( real life experiences) we go through the better off we might be able to help another but in no way put another mother or father down .as you may also need someones advice at some stage ,, we all go through trials an errors that how we grow as a mother father , doing what we can for our children loveing them and protecting them is what makes us all great parents .

does breast or bottle make either parents the better parent No i think not .

Its not that one can't express their oppion its the content of the writing that is a concern

and the constant sucking motion will help your milk flow and stimulate it's production.. that didnt work for me and i even painfuly did this through getting mastitis.



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      mumof2b
3.82 (Good) | August 2007 | mumof2b
Re: Breastfed babies also get colic

Wow......well said Deb. You've said it all much better and actually been unbiased. Two thumbs up and 5 stars from me........

Amanda xxxx



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           blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | blackwidowkate
Re: Breastfed babies also get colic
Hi
Must be something to do with the name hey Deb....aren't we jsut the best hahahaha
Luv Deb


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                mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | mumof2b
Re: Breastfed babies also get colic

Definately!!!  I think I'll change my name to Deb too, it might make me smarter.....

 



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mumof10
3.75 (Good) | August 2007 | mumof10
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
Hi there i am a mother of 10 gorgeous healthy children whom were all bottle fed. My choice no one elses. My children have had noo ill effects from being bottle fed. You can have youropinions on feeding wether breast or bottle. Your advice was written well but the ending was all wrong you made a judgement that has no medical evidence at all on those mothers whom choose to bottle feed for one reason or another. Some mothers just do not have the quality of milk supply or the quantity either. Not one of my children ever suffered with colic due to being bottle fed. I have actually honestly heard more breastfed babies that have had colic than bottlre fed babies. My children have had ear problems which is genetic their fathers side. Their surgeon also told me that the things we get as babies,young children or even adults is all in our make up our genes from our parents and their parents and so on down the generation trail. Their is no solid evidence for what you have said about the formula fed babies. I chose to bottle feed as i knew exactly how much they were getting and they were putting on weight my children all actually were very good babies they were content slept through the night from birth. Friends i know have breastfed and their babies suffered severe colic and bowel problems. In saying that not all babies have these problems unless of course in later yrs they get ulcerative colitis like my childrens father had about 13 yrs ago. He never had any problems when he was young. So does this mean that my children may get the same as him i am sure that it is a possabillity, but no-one can blame formula on this. It is like smoking they say makes babies birth weights lower i begger to differ as i smoked and my biggest was 8lb7oz. But this is not about smoking theere are people who will blame anything they can on something that to them is not normal. If formula was/is so bad then why is it available i ask.???? Can you answer that??


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      MummaBear
3.50 (Good) | August 2007 | MummaBear
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
http://www.babyzone.com/baby/feeding_nutrition/breastfeeding/a2349


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           cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cazza
Re: Breastfeeding(revised) - Why you should do it
Could you tell us what this link you have put up here is for please mummabear..

thankyou...


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