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How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....

cazza by cazza Young Parent(August 2007) (rank 2nd)
* What if my children want things that i cant afford? This question we asks ourselves nearly every day

 Well heres some tips that i use so my children understand that we are not that lucky  to have a money tree growing in our backyard.


And its okay to say 'no' to your children when they ask for things

Children really want our time and know we care about them.

Now with my tips to help you save money with your children and have fun.

1. Plan activities in advance, so you can take advantage of low-cost or no-cost events- check with your local council or your local paper for free events in your area.

2.Do things with your relatives- like going to the beach in summer, have bbqs, and having picnics.

3.Use the local library for books, toys,Cds, and Dvds.. Your children from the age of 2 should be able to be able to have a library card, issued under your name to borrow these items.

4..Take a walk around the block or to the local shop----any outing can be a adventure especially for young children.
  Make a list and draw some pics on what you need at the shop, and explain thats all you need for that pecuiler day.

5. Plant a garden or grow something in a pot plant

6.Visit a charity shop and allow them one toy to choose.

7.Play board games and cards- You could even make them. go to your local reject shop for materials.

8.Take lunches instead of buying food when out. Get your children to help you pack the picnic.

9.Cook together- Children love eating what they make.

10.Do a craft activity at home- such as painting..

11. Ask your child if they like a friend over to play..
 
12.Become involved in a local sport- most clubs allow you to pay instalments on any fees and there are usually a lot of secondhand gear to buy,

13.Help them with their homework,or get involved with their school activities.

 So next time you feel guilty and think we can not afford to do anything remember money is''nt everything and we can enjoy doings things without opening our wallets or purses straight away.

Have fun and enjoy your children and lifestyles...

love cazza
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whome
5.00 (Excellent) | February 20th | whome
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....

lol this is just what i need to learn im so soft haha thanks now iv got learn lolxxxshar



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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | ellamia
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
Great tips there thank you. Im glad mine dont ask yet hehe.

Love Kelly


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | nell18-3
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
Great Cazza
At least my boys are beginning to realise its pointless asking!!!!!!
xxx


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | emmie
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....

grat advice cazzA have to bear this in mind

cheers luv emz xxx



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belinda03
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | belinda03
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....

hey cazza

thanks for all the ideas caitlin keeps begging to go to the libaray

great advice

thanks for sharing it

luv bel xx



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natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | natelz1
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
Thanks cazza this is great! My son is developing the phrase, can i have money for..., and this is going to save my pocket, my guilt, and my guiltyness.


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      natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | natelz1
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
hahaha whoops. guiltyness???


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           cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cazza
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
lol, and thats cool... and its guiltiness i think. thats how u spell it..

HELP we need a dictionery...........


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                natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | natelz1
Re: How to not feel guilty when our Children ask for Money....
haha, i wasnt awarr it was a word. but i do feel REALLY guilty knowing we can't afford all the things he deserves, but he is a very good boy and just accepts it, i guess thats why i feel even worse. Why cant he throw tantrums then i dont care cause hes been so naughty lol..


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