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Working with our children who have a language disorder.

FremantleDocker by FremantleDocker Talking Back(August 2007) (rank 74th)

Hi there everyone. Cazza asked me if i would like to write an article on children with a speech problem. It's called dyxpraxia. My 4 year old has it. It's not a disease or anything, it's just that the muscles around their mouth aren't as strong as other childrens are,

and so they can't move their mouths properly or as quickly as others.

The language disorder is totally different to a language delay. 2 seperate things. I will write up another article on dyxpraxia when i can find my notes which i recieved from the kindergarten my daughter goes to, but at the moment, i'll write about the language disorder which is also known as dyxpraxia.

The child can develop this disorder for a few reasons, such as the following

  • Cannot hear properly
  • By not doing enough mouth exercises

Some of the common characteristics of children with the disorder may have one or more of the following symptoms

  • Uses echolalia  -  the child will repeat words or phrases. This may be immediate or delayed reaction.
  • Uses jargon  -  the child will use nonsense words that don't make sense.
  • Avoids eye contact  -  where the child doesn't look at the person who she or he is speaking or listening too.
  • Eating difficulties  -  especially with crunch foods such as raw fruit or vegetables.
  • An interest in letter and numbers  -often demonstration an abouve average  ability to count, recognise letters and read signs

This is how to interact with a child with a language disorder.

  • Be aware they have a language problem
  • Be aware of the context and visual cues

and here are some more examples

  • Pointing to a place and either looking at or touching an object with facial expressions
  • Routine. things that are done on a daily basis, or done in the same way all the time.
  • Imitating other children.

From personal experience and observations from my own child, they are just that bit slower than the other children who are talking etc, but the speech problem children are also just as bright as the other children, it's just that they can't speak as well as the other children, and i found they're better at hands on things.

Having a dyxpraxic child isn't easy. It's a very tough job, as the child gets very frustrated easy, and you sit down with them trying to work out what they're trying to say, and go all teary and cry on you, and get upset, and when you figure out what they've said, they go all happy, and excited.

When you come across a speech problem child, don't push them to one side and say "OMG, they can't speak yet, and they're 4 years old. "  and have a laugh about it and call them stupid, or in disbelief, find out what the problem is with the child, and if you haven't heard of what the child has got, write it down on a piece of paper, look it up on the computer, and find out FULLY what the speech problem or what ever problem is as it's not the child's fault, as in most cases, it's getting sorted out.

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griz
November 28th | griz
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

Thanks, This is exactly what I was looking for. My now 13 yr old still has a problem with his speech. He had a severe  phonoligical disorder and dyspraxia was just a term thrown in on a sheet and I never really had it explained to me and when I googled it i found it confusing.

I can totally relate about the frustrated part. It is so hard I know. What used to hurt me most was adulds who couldn't understand him wouild just walk away rather than try to understand. I can still remember the hurt look on his face and it brought a tear to my eye on many occasions

Now that he is older he just doesnt bother talking to people. even teachers he is only just learning to approach.

All the best to your daughter



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      FremantleDocker
December 4th | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

I totally agree with getting frustrated with the adults who just walk away. So rude. Thanks with the vote of confidence and yeah, i know exactly what you're going through aswell.

I'm here if you ever need me. Minti mail. me if you need to ok.

Kerri



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Amerlinwinga
August 28th | Amerlinwinga
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

Thanks for sharing great article! Enjoyed reading this.

Tee



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      FremantleDocker
September 13th | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

Thankyou so much. Glad you enjoyed reading my article.

Kerri



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Arna
April 2008 | Arna
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

I think you have hit the nail on the head with my four year old!  She is very much like what is described here, but has made significant leaps with her language over the last few weeks (also with her potty training).  I'm going to pass this link onto Les to see if he agrees!

Thank You!!!!!!!



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      FremantleDocker
May 2008 | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

No problems there. I'm glad i could've helped. Hoping that yoru daughter's speech improves from now on. Thanks



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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Domestic-warrior
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

I have never heard of this before.  Great article, i'm sure it will be of help to parents of a child with this problem.

Julie



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.
thankyou. that is what im hoping for also. Thanks for your comment


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.
Hi there,

Great advice . . . My 8 yr old is totally deaf on one side and we are still in the process of finding our why . . .

cheers Kellz


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.
Hugs to you. I do hope that your child is alright, and that you do find out what the problem is with the ear, and he or she is deaf in one side, and the doctors can fix the problem.


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belinda03
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | belinda03
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

great advice

enjoyed reading it

luv bel xx



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.
Hi. Thanks for reading my article. I'm glad you enjoyed reading it.


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cazza
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.
Thankyou and these were some of the syptoms brodie had, and i was strong enough to say well this is what i think, and being that he is at your school what could they do for me... and there was no way was i backing down, and it worked.... and i never ever doubted my son, or call him names.... as i was as frustrated and upset as he was,, but it was about him not me....

and as i said in my article he is fine, and does well,. and he is going to be 10 in a fortnight...

Hope that your little man can achieve the same....

take care
love cazza


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Working with our children who have a language disorder.

No problems there cazza. I didn't mind doing it. No trouble at all. Just want to make people aware of this problem.

Great stuff that you didn't back down. He is your child, and i totally agree that you will do anything for your child on situations on anything, especially like this one.

Yeah, my daughter has improved so much since being on the speech programme. Has come a long way. thanks heaps for suggesting this article for me to do. Now i have got dyxpraxia notes somewhere, i just have to find them.

Have a great day.



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