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Stranger Danger

Raychie by Raychie Walking(August 2007) (rank 449th)

We have been teaching our daughter the past year about Stranger Danger. Something i believe all children should be taught about. As soon as we started we came across so many different ways of talking to our children about it. some of which we tried and failed at. We have told her.. Do not talk to strangers. Do not take anything off strangers.. Do not let strangers in the house, or better yet do not open the door to them. As we told people that we were teaching her these things we had alot of people tell us that she was to young to learn (4 years), and as time went on i also started to believe that she may have been to young. But we kept on, telling her that you never play in the front yard alone, if some one pops there head over the fence to talk to her, to just walk straight inside and let mum or dad know, if someone comes to the front door to let us know.. she made us very proud the other week and has continued to do so since. My partner had both our girls out shopping for the day. He parked the car on the side of the road walked the 10 steps to the atm leaving both girls happily playing in the backseat. He noticed a man standing outside a takeaway, put his atm card into the machine turned to check on the girls, to find the man looking in the drivers window talking to our daughter, who screamed at the top of her lungs "leave me alone" which made every one look at him, my partner ran to the car screaming "what are you doing"  this man then ran away as fast as he could. If we hadnt told our daughter all those times what to do something horrible just may have happened. I was never told about stranger danger as a child and i would have opened the door to anyone. These days it needs to be done. I felt like a broken down record saying it over and over again. I have also found that the more i tell this story to people the more people i find that havent taught there children, they have told them but not enough for it to stick. we repeat it everyday. If i go shopping, i will tell my daughter before we get in there "remember not to talk to strangers". There is never a day when i havent said something to her about stranger danger . Even to the point now where she says to me "yes mum i know". My daughter has now started to tell me about stranger danger, if i talk to someone we dont know she will repeat my words right in front of them.

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nell18-3
August 2007 | nell18-3
Re: Stranger Danger
Thankyou for sharing, how scary for you all
Good on you and your daughter for this valuable lesson you taught and she remembered
xxx


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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | mumof2b
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It's never too early........we teach our Pre-school kid's (2.5 - 5 yr olds) about stranger danger every few months. We teach them about what a stranger is, how to act if a stranger comes up to you, is it okay to go with a  stranger even if they say that Mummy or Daddy said it's okay to go with them!! We teach them it's okay to say "NO" in a big loud voice. We also teach them that if they get separated from the grown up they are with they need to find someone they can trust to help them; like a shop asisstant, Police, Teacher.

The more you teach your children about it the more chances there are that they will what to do if they ever find themselves in that situation.

Amanda xxxxx



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llmunchkin
August 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Stranger Danger
I totally agree that is very important for kids to be aware of stranger danger... I bet you are glad that your little girl listened to you.  On the flip side, it is also very important to teach them about what people are most likely to be the safest for them to approach if they are lost, or separated from you as well.  Just in case. Like the police, or other mum's with kids, etc.

Here is a link to some info I saw on tv about things that you can do to educate your children in personal safety, it is pretty interesting.


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meggles
August 2007 | meggles
Re: Stranger Danger
how scary. I have really rammed stranger danger down my son's throat too. ended up at minti advice buying a great book called the berenstain bears learn about strangers by stan and jan berenstain which helped heaps. I watched an oprah show years ago and they got a group of kids whose parents were adamant their kids knew about stranger danger and each child not only spoke to the stranger (actor) but also some accepted lollies. It is hard to teach our babies but this is the only way we have any hope in protecting them. When my stepdaughter was about 10 we showed her the oprah show (as too scary for someone too little) it freaked her out but she always remembered even had a thing about walking on a footpath towards traffic so if a car stopped they had to turn around to chase you. if put in a boot pulled out the head light wires so police had more chance of pulling car over and heaps more... its a sad world but whatever can be done to save our babies we do eh My sons school is teaching stranger danger which I am very pleased about. I bet you are so proud of your babies!


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Kellzacar
August 2007 | Kellzacar
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Hi there,

Thanks for sharing your story. You must be really proud of your daughters .  . .

Sadly they don't teach this much at school anymore and it frightens me that many kids don't know to steer away from strangers. We have spent a lot of time teaching our kids about strangers BUT sadly the message doesn't seem to be getting through to the 8 yr old. She is way too trusting and this really frightens me.

Thanks so much for reminding others about the importance of STRANGER DANGER

Cheers Kellz


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belinda03
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | belinda03
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good advice

i try to tell my two yrold but she just talks to anyone and i am trying to get her out of it

but i will keep reminding her

be;l



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cazza
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EXCELLENT ADVISE,.. I also say to my kids that the people that work at the shops may be strangers, but if they get lost go to a lady or man with a tag on, and give them mummy or daddys name...Besides all that, my kids are very awars of stranger danger....


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Ngairi
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Glad it all worked out for you. I agree that they are never too young to learn. L


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