dont judge anyone who has there kids in child care

*huge hugs* It is YOUR choice. Noone but you and your loved ones do know the exact reasons you choose child care. Please ignore these silly insensitive people as they are ignorant of the many benefits of child care for the child and the Mum.

Take Care,

Lavendalady

Hey there, I agree with oyu it is no-one elses business but yours and Kennys. It does not hurt children to go to day care as this helps socialise with others and therefore also helps with kinder,playgroups and readiness for school too. All my children went to day care before they were old enough for kinder. This enabled them to detatch from me and make new friendships before kinder. When they went to kinder they made more friends and then school even more. Do people criticise parents when they send their children to kinder? No. Do they critisice when they go to school? No so why should people judge and make horrible comments when it comes to a parent making a choice to place their children in day care?? So what if a parent does not work day care can actually help that child to socialize especially when there a one parent family. Maybe parents also do it for medical reasons as i do too! I have been judged also for this saying i do not deserve to have my children ion care as since i do not work i am taking up places that parents that work need. Big deal my carer would never give up my children for any others and that is what she has said to me. So please do not judge or make horrible  comments we as parents give our children whatever they need to help them for their future no matter what others may think of us!! Hugs Bel i am with you all the way! Hugs Michelle

I to have Charlie in day care 2 days a week and coped shit from the family (chris's) cause i dont do anything but charlie needed the extra stimulation from somewhere else and i needed time away from the kids. I am so looking forward to next year when she is at school

Hi Bel,

I can't believe that some-one could be so RUDE towards you about childcare . . . .

No-one has the right to judge you for your choices, especially when it comes to wise and sensible ones for our children. My youngest is 1 and she really needs to go to childcare and start mixing with our little ones. However it's me that is holding back as she has so many food allergies that I am frightened to let her go.

Cheers Kellz
xoxoxox

I can't believe anyone would be so cruel to you!!!

I think it is a hard decision for any parent to make, I am lucky enough to be a stay at home mom, and I never take that for granted. However, I am now facing the prospect of returning to work and I really hate the thought of putting James in childcare. This is just personal choice for me!

You should not be judged, you are a mother who is doing the best for her children/family, ignore anyone that tells you otherwise!!! I am sure your girls love the interaction with others.

thanks cazza your a great  friend

chat latter bel

 

SORRY BEL, that you feel this way, and everyone has their views, and we always going to be all diffrent on how we raise our kids, as the saying goes there is no such thing as a perfect parent, as there is no such thing as a perfect child,, so as we raise our kids its really important to remember that what you do for your kids on a daily basis is what you know best, as you are their mum and know you and your children...

I never let anyone tell me that chloe shouldnt be here or there, as they not the ones paying for her, and they dont need to be worried how i raise her either,....

So always look for the positive things in why you have your child in childcare, and forget and dont llten to the negatives on what you hear whats best for you and your family...

take care
love cazza