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trouble breastfeeding?

goodie by goodie Talking(August 2007) (rank 152nd)

When I found out that I was pregnant the thing I was looking forwards to was being able to bond with my baby through breastfeeding. So it was my request that as soon as he was born that I would breastfeed him straight away. And thats what happened except that 

I was trying but he was too tired from the long birth that he couldn't get it. Or so we thought.

Anyway I tried and tried while I was in hospital to breastfeed my baby, but he wasn't attaching properly (so the mid wives told me). They kept telling me that I wasn't doin it properly and that I was to take him off and try again because he was making noises. I stayed in hospital for 5 days and was getting very upset that I couldn't do what I thought was such a simple thing (I was wrong).

The same day that my son was born my nipples became very tender and the midwives told me that this was normal as I hadn't done it before and that I wasn't attaching him properly. So I was getting very upset and sore. After a while of all this I realised that my nipples were too short to get back to the soft palette of his mouth. And that is why we were having troubles, not that I wasn't trying hard enough or attaching him proplery, but that he couldn't have attached properly no matter how hard we tried.

So after 5 days of tears and very sore cracked and bleeding nipples, I was very upset when he would cry and all I was thinking was please don't be hungry. I went home even though we were still having trouble as I thought i'd be more comfortable at home. But anyway my mum was talking to our friend about all the troubles that I was having and she suggested that I try nipple guards/sheilds. Neither of us had heard of these before but I would have tryed anything at this point. So we bought some and they were the best $10 I have ever spent. I would deffinately reccomend them to anyone who has the same problem with breastfeeding.

They are very good to use while your nipples heal or as I have to for evey feed. I was told that my nipples would come out further with time but they never did, but thats ok with me now that I have these lil beauties I no longer have to worry about him not being able to get the milk out.

I hope it didn't sound like I was bagging the midwives becasue that was not my intention. They were wonderful, but they didn't tell me about nipple guards and if they had maybe my first weeks of mothehood wouldn't have been go painful and upsetting. But I still think midwives do a great job its just that they are told how to do things one way and thats how they do it but thats ok.

Anyway I hope that this info can help anyone else. Nipple guards are deffinately a bargain. My son is nearly 4 months old and I am still using them for every feed, I wouldn't be without them.

thanx

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cassaustin
January 2008 | cassaustin
Re: trouble breastfeeding?

Thanks for the link here. I remember reading about them while i was pregnant, but so far i have had a pretty easy breastfeeding ride. But now that he is biting i think i need some help.

 



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PHOENIX
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | PHOENIX
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I too found nipple shields to be a life saver. I was told about them AFTER I had endured 7weeks of cracked nipples and undergone breast abscess draining from mastitis. I also used them with my second child also.
I did learn some valuable information however about them. Luckily this didn't apply to me but I always tell anyone who is considering using nipple shields.
The use of nipple shields can reduce your supply and can also make cracked nipples worse(rubbing and friction). They should be used under consultation with a Lactation Consultant or Breastfeeding Counsellor (this is what I did second time round) and only as a temporary measure unless there is an underlying reason for long term use (like inverted nipples). Of course it doesn't always happen but I think it's worth knowing the possible negative effects of anything so you can look out for problems.
I loved them they saved my BF relationship but I do know of people that have used them and not had good outcomes. Some midwives are totally against them but luckily most LC's are open to try them.
Ps loved the article!!!


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Marlena
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Marlena
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That is some really good information.  I have never heard of those nipple shields, but I am having a bay in 13 days so I will keep that in mind if I have trouble. I too have trouble with breast feeding and often times mothers these days just give up so quickly but really it is common to get it the first time or two.  Remember that it is new to you and baby and it takes time.  Great advice. 


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BigBearLittleBear
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | BigBearLittleBear
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I had sore cracked and bleeding nipples after a few days of feeding mine.  For me though it was an attachment problem and easy enough to fix.  The problem was that by that time I had very sore nipples and tried using the nipple guards to help them heal as she was feeding for up to 45 minutes, having 15 minutes off then back on again so it was pretty intense for the first 3 or 4 weeks.  After that she reduced her feeds to 20 to 30 minute feeds every 1.5 to 2 hours.  She refused to feed with them on so I just had to suffer through it for a few weeks while the nipples healed.  It was hell and I can understand how people could give up but I don't give up on things easily and was not going to give breastfeeding away.  As I said, it was poor attachment and once that was worked out there wasn't a problem.  Mastitis wasn't fun though.


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MumKim
4.73 (Excellent) | August 2007 | MumKim
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I had to use nipple shields at the start too. After several weeks I eventually weaned her off them. She will be 8 months old on Thursday and is still being breastfed.
I think it is great you found something that works for you.


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Kellzacar
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Hi there - I loved 'nipple guards', like you they were my saviour. My eldest was born with a tooth and my poor nipples were so very sore. I was lucky enough to have a great midwife who took pity on me and smuggled some into the hospital for me.

16 years ago a lot of midwifes frowned upon them and blamed them for making lazy feeders. This simply isn't the case as bub still has to work to get the milk . . . GREAT article

Cheers Kellz


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      goodie
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | goodie
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definately agree that they dont make bubs lazy feeders, they still have to work for it to get it out of the nipple not like bottles where they can just squeeze it and the milk comes out!


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HarrisonsMommy
4.92 (Excellent) | August 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
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Wow, I didn't realize that nipple guards helped to feed as well!  I knew they were good for protection for sore nipples.  Glad you found something that worked for you!  And that you are able to continue to breastfeed your baby. 

Have you tried to feed him without the nipple shields on now that you both know what is going on?  Would be interesting to see if your baby would even go for it.  My son rejected me when I tried to feed with shields on, but this was later on during teething so he was well and truely into the feeding.

Good job-Angela



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      goodie
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | goodie
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i do try to feed him without the gaurds on and he can sort of get it but not really he trys very hard then gets all frustrated because he can't get the nippl efar enough back. but its not a problem to use the guards for me i just have to remember to take them with me everywhere. now thats a challenge. coz i have a memory like a seive.



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