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4.83 (Highly recommend) from 14 votes (363 Visits)

Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

by emmie

(August 2007) (rank 32nd)

After daddy finnished work today our dog accidently stood on my partners penisand my step daughter got confussed and was asking how the dog could have stood in daddys fairy she doesnt stand in mine andmummys fairy so shere is how i dealt with the situation whie daddy sat there embarrassed lol.

First off i tried explaining how that we have a fairy because we are girls and that also when she gets a real big girl she will also have boobs like mummy i said to heer have a look at daddys chest does he have boobs like mummy she said no i said that is because daddy is a boy she brought that .

i went on to explain that daddy is a boy so daddy does not have boobs but daddy also doesent have a fairy instead daddy has a penis which is very differant to our fairy daddy penis hangs down this makes him a boy

Next was another question but mummy what does daddys penis look like can i see?

I said no but i tell you what me and you will do the dishes while daddy finds us a penis and fairy on mummys computer she agreed to this so we did and we sat at the computer after and i explained both the pictures to her and then finally she understood after her words were so daddys hurts because his penis is on the outside and heboy and mine yours and chloes is little on the inside .

I was finally happy she understood what i was telling her and i just agreed yes darling thats right and she thanked me for helping her .

I hope this works for others too

cheers

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4.83 (Highly recommend) from 14 votes

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| September 2007 \| Arna

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Great way to deal with it. Kids appreciate honesty and you did a fantastic job! Hmmm, mine already understand some of the differences, like Mummy has the baby and daddy catches! lol.

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	November 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

cheers hun

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| hermy

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

well done on the explanation emz......PMSL.....thanks for sharing regards Sandra xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

cheers sandra i thought it was something she need not be confussed about

cheers xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| taniagirly

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Hehe I can't stop laughing at this one! I love the name 'fairy' very cute. We call a penis 'winky' in our family. Bryn saw me getting dressed a few months back and asked 'where's your winky gone?' Hehe. He also occasionally tries to squeeze my nipples to get the milk out when I'm feeding carden-very painful! Not too worried though-glad their generation won't have any hang-ups ad body issues!

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

i found it hilarious too my youngest like to pull on my boobs too and sometimes even tries squeezing milk out even though she aint had it in ages hehe

cheers xx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| llmunchkin

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Oh poor Barry - but look at the service his pain has provided to the rest of us... Good on you for getting online to show her the difference, I am glad that she gets it. Jaydee was eying us in a suss way the other day when we were running around getting ready. I kept saying you and Daddy are boys - Mummy is a girl, see you have a penis, I have boobs and a vagina... Well now he is all obsessed with pressing my boobs and when we were out, he was pretending to play with the writing on my friends t-shirt, however he was getting a good squeeze in and laughing his head off. Little rat bag!

I know you will be getting round to it in time - but now I feel guilty for call you fairy princess Emz all the time! LOL.

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

hey there gorgeous champ ,

I thought she did have the right to know and best before she starts big school in september anyway and she sees the boys getting changed the embarrassment wont be on the teacher ,chloe seems to be going through another stage of liking boobs too ecspecially when i put her on the floor she will grab hold of my boobs hoping to go for a little swing hehehehe

u dont have to feel guilty

loadsa love fairy princess emz xxxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| magsta

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

hahahahahahahaha lucky for me dean has to do that with jack but when crystal rose is old enougthi will have to not for along time yet

p.s u should of called it daddys little man hahaha

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

hehe u should have seen barrys face u would of laughed i did hehehehe crystal is going to be beautiful lol

love emz xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| blackwidowkate

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Hi
I still remember the first day that Megan saw her dads penis
We were lying in bed and she came in and the sheet fell off.
Her father quickly covered himself and she wanted to look
Knowing her curious mind and what she would do i told her father to let her see
She giggled pointed and said Daddys got a diddle and walked of
Later on he had his undies on and she grabbed me and pointed at him and said
look daddys done a poo in his undies at the front
I was laughing my head off
But her curiousity was satisfied and she never worried about it again.
If Jalan sees her dad naked she points and laughs and goes peni peni (penis)
Tell Barry we feel for him....
Only one thing i can say though is teach her vagina as God forbid anything should happen to her and she has to be questioned by Docs or the police she has to know the correct term not a pet name
Good on you for showing her pictures though...
Teach them correctly and it saves a lot of hassle in later life
Luv Deb

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Hey deb ,

cheers for sharing that heeh i think i would have laughed too , iwill be teaching her vagina but due to a few probs we are taking 1 step at a time with kylie

cheers hunni xx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| belinda03

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

hey em

well handled .. poor barry ..

luve bel xx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

cheers hunni xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| merlin0903

Re: Explaining the difference between mummy and daddy to your child .

poor Barry, but bravo emmie well done nicely handled too, and in the mean time you have yet another get advice piece and some great tips too.

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the difference between mummy and daddy to your child .

cheers xx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| Kellzacar

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Hi Em,

Well done - You handled this situation well . . . Although I am curious as to why you haven't use real instead of fake ones . . . Why is a girl vagina a fairy and yet dad has a penis??? Sorry if you think I'm out of place just curious . . . .

Cheers Kellz

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

i used the word fairy to her because if i ever tell her it her vagina she will correct me and say its a fairy but i thought as she does not know any words for penis it was sensible to use that , we all have the right to be curious

cheers kellz xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| Kellzacar

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

That's is so true . . . lol

cheers Kellz

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| AZMom

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Good on you Emz for explaining it so well and for not ignoring the issue. I hope Barry is ok (poor fella!!)

Lorna x

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

cheers lorna it was both painful and embarrassing 4 him lmao xx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| cazza

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

that is so adorable and welldone emmie for explaining this to your daughter....

there is some great ideas there,,,, and Ouch i havnt got a male genes that woukld have hurt, and i hate to be drod on hehe....

take care
love cazza

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

i found it funny but for some reason he never but i felt she had the right to know and i dont want her confussed and now she knows and wont be suprised when she sees it at school or on a boy

cheers cazza xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| jd2

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

Aww hunni I would have freaked out but you were honest and still kept it safe and made a child so young understand well done you! and barry bless did you blush?...lol

Thanks for sharing wish our son would understand even we inside bits standing on boobs owwwcha

Hugs Jo xxx

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	5.00 (Excellent) \| August 2007 \| emmie

Re: Explaining the differance between mummy and daddy to your child .

hey hunni ,

i was more shocked than anything yet i felt it needed to beexplained rather than her b confussed

cheers jo xx

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