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Be carefull in what you do around your child

FremantleDocker by FremantleDocker Talking Back(August 2007) (rank 76th)

Just be carefull of what you do and say around your child, as they absorb so much when they're little. If you do something, they'll mimic you and think it's ok for them to do it, but if you do something you're not suppose to do like not swear around them, and they won't pick up the bad habit, or swing on the clothes line, and they won't do it and just basically small things like this.

Even if you think you're children aren't watching you, they are. Children are smarter than you think. Just be carefull in not only what you say, but what you do aswell. Teach them the right and wrong things from the beginning. It'll save all hassles when they grow up. 

Even when they're teens, they still learn from you. It's still surprising that they still absorb so much from you with out you realising it. Be aware all the time. If you do something that you know that they will get told off for, tell them not to do it, and that you made a mistake in doing it, or showing someone what someone else did, and it's not ideal to do it.

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AEplus4
Tuesday | AEplus4
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

I always try and watch what I say around my kids.  My spouse though has had to work on it since the beginning with our first child.  The older kids know better and around me they do not repeat what they've heard.  I also remind them that if they use curse words at school that the teachers or someone else will eventually know and get back to us on their potty mouth.  I know growing up, I cursed like a sailor when I was in school and the minute one of my teachers heard me use it too much, she threatened to call my parents and at that minute I stopped doing it (around her anyways) but it helped.



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dad4life
August 14th | dad4life
Re: Be careful in what you do around your child

This is so true and good advice.  Many things from our childhood stay with us.  Some for good, some that are best challenged and changed, both for our own benefit and importantly for that of our children.



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VerasMomma
August 7th | VerasMomma
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

 My daughter is on the verge of saying her first word(s) and, unfortunately, I have somewhat of a potty mouth. Any suggestions on how to break the habit before it's too late??



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Libby24
April 19th | Libby24
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

i realised i swore alot when my kids started ssaying the same thing :(



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missnickley
April 19th | missnickley
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

Great article, it is so true and sometimes you do just need to be told to keep it in the front of your mind!

Thanks.



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | hermy
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
well done.......and very true......regards Sandra xxx


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      FremantleDocker
March 4th | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

thankyou again hermy. i appreciate your comment



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | mumof2b
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

I think we are all guilty of thinking before we speak, even in front of our kid's.....

Great article.

Amanda xxxx



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      FremantleDocker
March 4th | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

Yeah. It happens and sometimes we do forget don't we. I feel guilty sometimes also.



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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | nell18-3
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Great advice
Its typical of children to only hear what they shouldn't and only do what we would rather they didnt!!!
xxx


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Thankyou. Yeah, i totally agree.LOL. they always seem to hear the swear words and not others.


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AZMom
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | AZMom
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Great advice! Swearing is my downfall.. I so need to stop now before my lil one picks up on it!


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Thankyou. I think swearing is common these days.


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Ngairi
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Excellent advice, I agree wholeheartedly EXCEPT for the bit about the clothes line - I never swing on the clothes line and the kids have all done it. They hadn't seen anyone else do it but they did all the same LOL. I think that is something that all kids go through - at least I know boys do. Not having a go just got a laugh out of it - picturing my big a** swinging around on the washing line. Leisa


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
thankyou. Hey, you don't have to agree on everything, and it's ok not too. LOL. Yeah, i know what you mean.


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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | janicepovey
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

Excellent advice, well done....your so right....parents are teachers, for a very long time.

Cheers Janice



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Thankyou Janice. SO very true what you've said.


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | emmie
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

great advice kids listen to everything u say no matter what they doing and if i accidently swear my oldest will say not to say that word

cheers



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
thankyou. I agree, they can hear everything you say, as they've got great hearing.


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | ellamia
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
hey

awsome advice and i use that everyday its a good habbit


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Good on you for doing so. Well done


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Hi there,

Great advice mate . . .  Our kids are like huge suction caps - they take in EVERYTHING whether you are aware of it or not!

Cheers Kellz


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

Thankyou so much Kellzacar. Yeah, it's great your kids are like that. Means they're very bright, intelligent, and are always willing to learn.



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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | merlin0903
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

 

this is so true, one night i was crying and i had my hand over my mouth, now everytime charlie crys he does the same,

hugs and kisses



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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
They can sense things very easily can't they, especially if you're upset.


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | cazza
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child
Absolutely, kids are our mini shadows, and parrots i say, as you can guarantee soon as you say something or do something they will do it, and then you cant growl at them hehe...

take care
love cazza


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      FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Be carefull in what you do around your child

Exactly right. Parrots is a good word for it. i agree.



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