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Shaking a baby

ellamia by ellamia Talking Back(September 2007) (rank 51st)
Never shake a baby. There is no such thing as a perfect parent and parenting isnt a easy thing. Off course we all get stressed but the best thing to do if your baby keeps crying and you have done all you can do is put the baby in a safe
place like their bed and walk off somewhere else in the house for 5 to 15 minutes or as much as you need as the baby cannot harm themselves.

When you shake a baby its head goes back and forth and this sort of motion can cause bleeding in the head and may cause the babies brain to fall apart inside. If your only do it for a couple of seconds it can injure that little baby for life. Shaking a baby can cause serious harm to a baby's brain. It can make a baby unconscious or have fits, and sometimes the injury can cause problems that last forever, such as:
  • Brain damage
  • Speach difficulties
  • Death & so on

The reason why SBS (Shaken Baby Syndrome) happens is because parents can get frustrated when the baby is crying and you have done all the necessary things you can think off. If you do happen to shake your baby please take it to the hospital straight away, as it might be able to be helped. And if you need advice because your baby is crying and you cant deal with it please seek it.

I hope this helps

Kelly
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ClayCook
February 2008 | ClayCook
Re: Shaking a baby

good advice, every parent should know this as common sense but it is worth reminding people.

it just shocks me to think that some people do shake their baby :(



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emmie
February 2008 | emmie
Re: Shaking a baby

great advice kell

thanks for sharing

Emz xx



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toosh
November 2007 | toosh
Re: Shaking a baby
Great advice Kell! It's good to have this here to remind people it's ok to put bub in the cot and walk away for a few minutes if you need to - much better to do that than something you will regret and that may cause permanent damage!

Teshia xxoo


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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | winja
Re: Shaking a baby
positive self talk can help considerably with lessening the risk of shaking a child, i was told about and taught positive self talk when chloe was little as i was a very young mum and it was great. thansk for reminding us what a terrible thing this is and the risks hun good job


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | ellamia
Re: Shaking a baby
preventchildabuse.com/shaken.htm

This is a link where is states about the brain.

Love Kelly


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | llmunchkin
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Shaking your baby violently certainly can have numerous detrimental short term and long term side effects occasioning in death.  This is due to the fact that until roughly 2 years old babies have very heavy heads in comparison to their bodies and relatively weak necks.

Whilst I haven't heard of a baby's brain 'falling apart inside' common injuries caused by this include swelling, ruptured blood vessels and bleeding in the brain.

There are a variety of symptoms that a baby may exhibit that could mean that it has been shaken also - these are listed in this advice that is already on minti (they are also cut and pasted from this website which has even more information).


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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Shaking a baby
Oops here is the website that shows you the information as outlined in the other advice - about the symptoms of shaken babies etc.


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sebcanatalay
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | sebcanatalay
Re: Shaking a baby

Hi Kelly, this is very good what you point out. In Turkey people are shaking babies not just because of anger also to show their sympathie or try to make baby lough. I always telling them not to do. I read an article about this in NZ Herald when I was in New Zealand.  I reffered your article one of my friend in Turkey. Thanks for that, excellent.

Seb



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bertiethebee
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | bertiethebee
Re: Shaking a baby
I think this a great reminder of the damage that can be done! Thank you for sharing.


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | ellamia
Re: Shaking a baby
EXTENDED


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Shaking a baby

Kelly, this is very important advice but I think you could expand on this quite a bit. 

Angela



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cazza
4.92 (Excellent) | September 2007 | cazza
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THIS IS GREAT, except for the locking of the door part,... and i recall going down to the end of my driveway and having time for me when my kids were babies, or i used to put them in the pram and take them for a walk or we go visiting.....

take care
love cazza


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jenlemen
4.92 (Excellent) | September 2007 | jenlemen
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oh i totally agree, that it's so much better to take a little break (while baby/child is somewhere safe like the crib) while you cool off.  i did this often when my kids are small and recommend it highly.


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | ellamia
Re: Shaking a baby
Exellent thanks for all oppions. I have changed the article.

Thanks. I shouldnt write things when im tired :)


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      merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | merlin0903
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thanks kelly

hugs and kisses



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hannahbear
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | hannahbear
Re: Shaking a baby
Yes I agree that any advice highlighting this issue is good. Just a few quick breaths in another room can bring the stress levels down a notch.


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MelodyS
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | MelodyS
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As a foster mom and advocate for abused children, I witnessed several babies who were literally in comatose states for the rest of their lives due to shaken baby syndrome.  Any article spotlighting this problem gets a vote from me.


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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | merlin0903
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thanks for sharing your ideas with us, but, i do how ever feel that locking up the house isn't a good advice for anyone, i agree with both Jess and Helen, may be you could change it to say sit out side or something, but otherwise it was good

hugs and kisses



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | Jessgore
Re: Shaking a baby
I would not lock up and leave the house for a few minutes, but I know I could walk away for a few moments to collect my thoughts and start over with a fresh mind...


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | nell18-3
Re: Shaking a baby
I'm with you Jess
i could never leave the house locked or otherwise but I did sit outside and take some deep breaths, better to let the baby cry until you are calm again then handle your child when you are about to lose your mind!!!!
xx


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