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Family Dinner

Anonymous Author (July 2006)
As a mother of 2, I really enjoy having family dinner every night. That is the time that we spend time together. We talked about all the activities we had done during the day.

Family dinner is not just about the foods that are prepared on the table but
it also the time for bonding to each other. Sometime, my son and my husband like to have the television on, but I prefer to have it off. With that we create more active conversations. We may have a little bit music on as the background, creating more cozy dinner time. My husband and I always try not to bring up any negative things on dinner table. We always talk about the good story, the good things that my children have been done during the day. We thought the bad thing such as if the kids had been doing silly all day that could be talked after dinner. Why? because I don't like the bad feeling or language ruin the good family time and the rest of the night. So far, we pretty good with it.

I suppose each family have their own way to serve their dinner. In our family, we prefer to serve a dish or two that all members will enjoy. I do not cook a special dish for each person (fyi. my family do not have any food allergic reactions). We believe by sharing the same menu we teach the children to share what we have. It is also save time for me as a cook. Instead of speding time long in the kitchen to cook too many dishes, I rather to spend time more on the table enjoying the meal and the conversation with my children and my husband. I do sometimes cook more than one dish, but still all the foods are the foods that all family members enjoy. I feel so happy when I see them enjoying the family dinner. I feel like my efforts all day have been paid.
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missnickley
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | missnickley
Re: Family Dinner

Family dinner is done at our house too. It is great, we get to catch up on our days and since we started eating earlier to include our daughter she has started eating so much more dinner, and she was more interested in using her spoon herself as well!!
I also cook just the one meal, my mum always did as well.
Great article!



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missnickley
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | missnickley
Re: Family Dinner
We always have family dinners, my daughter eats more


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missnickley
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | missnickley
Re: Family Dinner
We always have family dinners, my daughter eats


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missnickley
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | missnickley
Re: Family Dinner
We always have family dinners, my daughter eats


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rkcrtbrown
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | rkcrtbrown
Family dinners
We always had family dinners when i was growing up. The kids and i sit together every night during the week. My husband works alot of hours during the week. We make sure that all 5 of us sit down to dinner as much as possible on the weekends. i think that sitting down and eating dinner with your kids teaches the kids  good etiquette at the table also.


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Family dinners
It's true. If your kids get use to good manner at the table at home, I'm sure whenever you take them out to restaurant or other people house, they'd do the same thing as well.


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Frontier
4.75 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Frontier
Family Dinner
When I was in my management career I would drive past this house every night and see this family sitting down to dinner while I knew I would miss mine. I longed to be able to share evenings with my family.
Two years ago we role swapped and now we watch other people drive past our house as we sit down to dinner at 6pm every night.
We have show and tell which the boys love as they take it in turns to tell us about their days.
i think it is the most important time of the day for our family.


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      wildrose
October 2006 | wildrose
Family Dinner
I'm glad you and your family enjoy the family dinner. I always thought it's really made my day. The good feeling to bring to finish the day.


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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | MumKim
Great advice! I think it is really important to turn the telly off during a family dinner
Great advice. I think it is really important to turn the telly off during a family dinner.
I wonder what the divorce rate would be if more families took the time to sit down to dinner together. My husband often works and afternoon shift 1pm -9:30pm, so we treasure meal times together.


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Jessgore
4.00 (Good) | September 2006 | Jessgore
Family dinners are great....
My step daughter loves it when I break out the candles. She is always asking for a candle light supper.. How can I say no....  And conversations are always a plenty when she is with us....  And my son who can't talk yet, always makes us laughs he tries to join the conversation and we listen and pretend we know exactly what he is saying which gets every one laughing.... It is a fantastic time....  Unfortuanatly they usually only happen when our step daughter is with us for the weekend as my hubby gets home to late to eat with with us most of the time... Francis eats at 5.30 and the hubby gets home between 6- 6,30pm. But with enough time to play and bath Francis before bed time....


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gr8est
3.80 (Good) | August 2006 | gr8est
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I will actually talk at the dinner table about my day ask Q's about their day etc.. no tv is allowed no toys and no fighting!!!


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mewannaboy
3.00 (Average) | August 2006 | mewannaboy
dinner time
I wish dinner was that meaningful in my house. Dinner is a yelling match between me and the kids why they all argue about what they are and aren't going to eat. i cook spaghetti, they wanted pies, if i cooked pies they would want chops. I have 4 children and if I leave the choice to just me there would be too much disapointment.I do know that all my children love veges( THANK HEAVENS)so thats why every meal has at least three veg. Hence my reasons for asking for some vege recipies.


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      wildrose
August 2006 | wildrose
dinner time
Have you try give them menu schedule? Let say day 1 you'll cook child A's fav food, day 2 cook child B's fav food, and so on. At least each kid have their fav food cooked one day a week. I grew up in big family and my parent always taught us to appreciate what we had on table. I teach my son that too. We told him to eat what I cook and told him that he's lucky to have such food, cause lot of people out there that fighting to have just a bite of food.


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wildrose
1.00 (Very Poor) | July 2006 | wildrose
Oops wrong button
Nothing change in the article. I pressed the wrong button accidentally. Sorry.


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Izzy
4.46 (Good) | July 2006 | Izzy
Excellent!

A family dinner is essential, because this is often the only time the whole family are in the house at the same time.

Here's an interesting research I read once (though I can't remember where I read it ), the family unit benefits when it's important for the parents to sit down on meals together vs. those who don't put importance in it. The research said that this is true regardless of how many meals a week the family DOES actually get to eat together. This is very interesting, isn't it?



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lindterbean
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2006 | lindterbean
family dinner
This is a great habit to get into. I put my foot down on this when the girls were very small and my husband was working late all the time. As the kids get older and go off to their own activities, it is often the only time we can all sit down together and focus our attention on each other. Cooking yummy food helps too (and a variety) I find the kids tend to schedule things so that they usually eat at home, and lately even if they do eat somewhere else, they will still sit down with us afterward and have a little snack, if only just to try what's on the table.


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2006 | wildrose
family dinner
Yeah sometime I put fun on it like cooking Tacos where I put all the filling on the table and let ourself fix our own tacos. Or like make some indian foods with papadams and raita. Luckily I have kids that like eat anything.


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