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Ways to improve your child's speech

Flicka by Flicka Talking(September 2007) (rank 196th)

There are many ways to encourage your little one to talk and to improve the speech of your toddler or preschooler.

Singing:
Music is used to encourage speech, create atmospheres, and improve moods.  From an early age, singing and music are one of the first ways of communication with your child.  Lullabyes at sleep time, nursery rhymes at play time, musical toys for floor time.

The first songs were Hush Little Baby, Rockaby Baby, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.  Then we moved on to action songs like Speckled Frogs, 5 Little Ducks, Little Fishies, The Grand Old Duke Of York from around 4 months.  I would put do the actions with her and she had a great time.

Reading:
From the moment of birth, I was reading to my baby.  I read her a Winnie The Pooh Opposites book that afternoon.  When questioned by the nurses, my response was "I'm giving her a head-start on language and introducing the first stages of phonics" and no more questions were asked after this.  Reading books with repetitive words such as Possum in the House encourages the child's memory and can lead to the child saying the words that are repeated.  In Possum In The House, a line that's repeated on almost every page is "There's a possum in the house and he's hiding in the..." and this book had her saying "House" from 6 months and the words Possum and Hiding came around her first birthday.  Reading to children from a young age also introduces them to phonics and creates a relaxing environment for them to learn how to enjoy books for what they are.  Books open up the imagination and by introducing them early without forcing them upon the child you are opening up a whole new world for your child to learn from and explore.

Repetitive Speech
Saying the same word over and over again will encourage your child to learn to say that word.  For me, if I was giving her something or taking something away I would say "Ta" to her.  If I was sitting down having communications with her I would say "Mum" or "Mumma" or "Mummum" over and over to her.  If anyone ever saw her they would say "Boo" and "Hello there" so her first words were Boo, Mum, and Ta all by 7 months and Hello by her first birthday

Talking children through things
No matter what the age of your child, it's always positive to talk them through what you are doing.  For instance this morning I gave mine a run-down on the weekend.  That way she knows what we're doing.  She's at an age now where she is talking and understanding many things and has a great memory so talking her through it is more to prepare her for the weekend than encourage speech. But with young toddlers and babies it encourages talking if they are spoken to often.  You can tell a baby at 6 months what you are doing by saying "Mummy's going to put the clothes in the machine to wash them" you are not so much expecting they will know what you're on about, much less repeat the sentence, but babies are learning about communication at this age.  By being spoken to, he will know that it's ok to talk to you about anything he likes.  No matter how minor it is, talking to your young baby teaches him about communication.  As children get older, talking through things can get them ready and emotionally prepare them for what they are doing and it tells them what you expect of them.  For instance, if I tell my child we're going to be washing the all the sheets today she knows that she doesn't have to make her bed but she's to strip her bed instead.  By telling her that we are going away this weekend, she knows that we will not be home and it won't be a shock to her as it would if I suddenly packed our bags and put her in the car.  Good communication at this early age will set you up for better communication as your child becomes a teen and an adult.  That's not to say that you can expect your teenager to actually talk to you rather than grunt! They have their own language at that age but it will improve things if you have good communications early on with your child/ren.

Using Complete Sentences and Words
This is very important when children are learning to talk.  Instead of saying "Drink?" as a question, try saying "Would you like a drink of water?"

Correcting Speech
This is where I'm at right now with mine.  Unfortunately due to work, she does attend childcare.  Her teacher was saying "anythink" and "everythink" and "nothink" rather than using correct English.  My child began using those words and I've since corrected her and she says Anything, Everything, Nothing, etc now.  She had some trouble with the "R" sound and I've been correcting that, although she still says it like a "W" sound most of the time.  Every time I correct her she says it properly.

Note: Once children start talking, they tend to continue talking so watch out! I know mine talked once for the entire we were travelling, which was 2 hours in the car! I'm not sure what she was on about but I know when she ran out of things to say she would recite words from a book or sing a song.  So that's my warning but in the long-run it's better for them to be talking non-stop than not have the ability to talk no matter how much it drives us up the wall.

Don't get me wrong about childcare, it has its place and can also encourage a child to speak due to the amount of time they spend around children their own age.

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Izzy
December 2007 | Izzy
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech

Great article! 

One more thing I try to do is to always ask questions. My son is in preschool and when I pick him up, I ask him tons of questions about his day - what did you eat (although I know exactly what he eats since I pack his lunch), who he played with, what he played with, etc. In the beginning, he didn't say much of course. But as months went buy, he has gotten used to my questions and tells me quite a lot.



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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | ellamia
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Thank you for sharing. Its excellent advice.

Love Kelly


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech

Great advice, thanks for sharing.

Angela



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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | janicepovey
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech

Love it, what excellent advice! An article for all mum's, to read. I have always, believed that reading & books at an early age, is a solid stepping stone, for all children. And communication with your children, is so important, especially when they get to their teens. My son is 39 years old and still  loves reading books & his love of reading also got him through 9 years of self study, uni....for him to become a CPA.

Thumbs up for this one.

PS. I never sang to him though, it might have turned him off reading, hehe!

Cheers Janice



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | cazza
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
THIS is great and so important.. I notice when chloe and i are out and about in our social circle, how each child is so diffrent in their ability ,,.,.. Thankgod they have programs that work with young children now that help them in this area as well...

take care
love cazza


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sealsista72
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | sealsista72
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
It's great that someone agrees with me!!! Yay!!! I read to all of mine too from day one.  Unfortunately, the more you have, the less reading they get as you have to split your time between how many you have, but I did try my best. I tried to read to all of them together, but sometimes they weren't all interested at the same time.   I used to get a lot of stares too when I would read to my babies at an early age, but I believe it's why they managed to read so early.  They are all good readers even my eldest who is autistic.  I also believe that my reading to him made a big difference in his communication skills.  I had one doctor say, "well, if your child wasn't going to talk, he wouldn't have anyway, whether you read to him or not." Well, that's something I will never know, but I still believe I gave them all a good start by reading to them.

Great article.  Well done!!


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      Flicka
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | Flicka
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
That's right you'll never know, but you did them the right start.  A mother can smoke during pregnancy and have a child with asthma.  He may have had it even if she didn't smoke, but by not smoking she'd be giving her kids the better start.  There's lots of things you can say but the fact is, you did read to them, they did talk and they are good readers so well done to you.


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | nell18-3
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Well done
This is a really great article
xxx


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FremantleDocker
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Fantastic article. So true and it all does work. Great to read.


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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | mumof2b
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech

I agree with Jess........This is fantastic advice.  Very well set out and well researched......Well done

Amanda xxxxx 



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | Jessgore
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
This is fantastic advice... My only problem is my son is learning to speak two languages...  And although I can hold a great fantastic conversation I still get things mixed up..   Some people correct me and some don't.. I prefer they do as it helps me learn.. I mean really why does furniture need to be male of female?????  Anyway correcting my sons French is not an easy task.. So I let the hubby do that... 

But really this is fantastic advice well written well done..


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Excellent advice, it makes so much sense and you can never start too young - invitro even.  As you know, newborns do recognise their mum's and sometimes both parent's voices when they are born.  I have found this to be even more effective in developing their skills in comprehension.

I always talked to Jaydee as if he was an adult and pretty much gave him the low down and a running commentary in regard to everything we were doing, our environment - you name it.  While I emphasized specific key words and signed them, we always spoke in adult sentences and were adamant that everyone in his life do the same - it has paid off immensely.

One day when he was about 11mths old, I said as a joke, 'can you please go and get that pen off the floor, bring it to mummy to get the lid, then take it in to Daddy in the bedroom?'  He did it straight away - I had never even asked him to do a simple task with 1 command before let alone something that involved 3 tasks.  Poor wee man, ever since then he has been my right hand helper with everything.


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anon
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | anon
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Great article. I try reading to my son as often as I can, but sometimes it's a bit hard to read every day or as often as I would like. We do have music going a lot and at 15 months old he is following simple instructions like where is your drink and funny things like wash your hair. Which came from me telling which part of his body I was washing, which I had been doing for a while. Or where is your elmo and kiss elmo.  (so cute to see). Talking with your child from an early age is very important I agree but unfortunately not everyone I know shares this view or follows through.
Well done


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      Flicka
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | Flicka
Re: Ways to improve your child's speech
Thank you for your comment Anon.


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