being stuck!

hey everyone i just want to tell you about something that happened to be recently and what you should do to avoid the same situation becasue it is very hard to get out once your in it. I really hope this doesn't happen to anyone else!!

when i was

anyway she was there alone because her fianceewas working so i started chatting with her because i felt sorry with her. she seemed pretty nice so we exchanged numbers. and thats when the trouble started. she started calling almost daily straight away, which wasn't too bad because i felt sorry for her because she was obviously lonely. so she started telling me bout all these insecurities she had which made me feel even more sorry for her.

i tried to make her feel better bout herself but it back fired coz after that everytime i saw her i would feel obligated to fib to her when she asked me stuff like how she looked and stuff. and i would feel really sad n abit depressed after seeing her because her vibes were rubbing off onto me. this was really disturbing as i am normally a very happy person.

so she was ringing me almost everday aswell as messaging me on my phone, and if i didn't reply she would ring me up asking why? it was very frustrating and she would be really immature which i find very hard as i'm not like that (not big noteing myself). most people who i know are very surprised when they find out that i'm 22 coz they thought i was older. anyway i allowed her to guilt me into spending most of my time with her.

then i had my baby and things didn't change they even got more full on. i was still trying 2 be nice because she was lonely. i thought that things would settle down once she had her baby but was wrong againwhen she had her baby i was there for her because she had pnd (but wouldnt admit it). anyway i was just being nice so she had somewhere she could vent or whateva. but she used and abused me!

 she would ring or message me constantly with problems but couldn't care less bout me and mine.

i recently moved out of town and i dont have mobile reception unless i stand on one leg pat my head and stick out my tounge (well not really but its very rare anyway). so she would send me messages even though she knew i wouldnt get it then would ring me and abuse me for not replying. i didn't know what to do this has been going on for a couple of months now and i have had enough but was 2 nice 2 say anything.

then the other day she sent me a message saying what was my problem that i ignore her now ....... and on and on. i was very cranky to say the least but i didnt reply because i was cranky and would probly not have been nice so i let it go. then she sent me one asking if i got the other one or was i just ignoring her then i lost my temper and hold her that she was being imature, needy and posessive.

so even after all of my attempts to ease out of it nicely it still ended very badly. i even told her about minti and she stalked me on here 2. anyway sorry it was a little long winded but my advice is get out of situations that you dont like quickly otherswise it gets messy if ur a sook like me and let it get this far. thanx for reading!!!