My life story of being rejected

stay strong!  I'm sure this was a difficult and upsetting article to write.  Take Care.

You are so right - the main thing is that when things get tough you pick yourself up and keep going! Good on you for finding your voice.  I wish you every blessing the stars can provide.

Just my feeling, when I read the epilepsy article, it was very good.  The article was reported due to copy right issues, it was Not Against You Bel, or to reject you in any way shape or form.  From reading the former comments, Bel, you are well loved here at minti....

Hang on Bel, please read my article of invisible illnesses, and I am so moved by your story, I will be writing in my blog/or advice..not sure yet... from personal experience, not too proud of this, it will be the truth, and it is not pretty.  Probably will post over the weekend.

Take care, Simba1

If you need a freind I'm here

Hi bel,

I don't know if this will help u but i hope it u see iwas not always one of the in crowd in days in London because of  I would accept people at face value which didn work for a while but soon learned that as long as i went long with what so called freinds wanted that waws fine but all i can say is the way i managed to get by was jyust be myself & if they did not like someone considerd to be a freind to hell with them in other words  YOU ARE THE ONE WHO CHOOSES YOUR FREINDS & A TRUE  FREIND WILL ACCEPT YOUR CHOSE  I know hundreds of Gays & get on with them very well in fact my young sister destroyed my wedding day to Millie's mum just because my best man was gay & all I said to her was Please leave. Just be your self if yiou r freinds cannot accept you for what you are they are not freinds

Hugs  & cuddles

Keep your head high & be your own person

Den & Millie

brilliant article , i was a reject too so never think ur alone

love ya

emz x

This is really touching. Well done Bel
I rely on Minti myself as the world around me is judging me on things that are not true
All of my friends have rejected me for daring to say the man I was married to is not as nice as the great and funny mate they think he is.
Most of my friends live behind a computer screen nowadays, but I wouldn't change them for any of the low quality friends I used to have
xxx

Thanks for sharing Bel, I am sure this wasn't easy.

Angela

Hey Bel

I think you're a beautiful person, I'm glad I met you and I treasure the friendship we have.

Thanks for sharing your story, people can be some hurtful sometimes, but these are the people that DON'T MATTER in life. The ones that listen and love you for who you are, MATTER and thats what makes friends so special. Love Ya

 Shelley

 

Your school life sounds much like mine, so I can relate to this completely. Well done matey.

Cheers, DA

Hugs babe.

you are the bestest friend anyone can have.
I know how hard school is sepically when you have a disability or are different to the rest of the kids. we are having to deal with all our pasts with Alex atm.

Bel you are a very strong person and i thank you for sharing your story with us.

Love you
Liz

Bel you are a beautiful person who has been through a lot of rejection and hopefully you will get over that one day because you have so much to offer and we are only seeing a smidgen of your potential.........you are funny, generous and kind to everyone who is fortunate enough to know you.

Great article and I'm so glad you were able to share it with us.......

Amanda xxxxxxxxx

Great article mate - You know my thoughts and i am glad you are a member of Minti.

I am glad that you are making the changes you need to in your life and getting more life experiences . . . .

Be strong and stand up for what you believe . . .

this is great, very sad, i too suffer from rejection, a story i may one day feel comfortable to tell, biug hugs hun xxx

Belle of the ball - this is great advice!  It is original, straight from the heart, and really valuable - so are you!  As I said to you the other day, being a good friend doesn't necessarily mean agreeing with someone all the time just to make them feel good.  A good friend lets you know when something isn't right and a good person thinks about what is best for the majority - not just themselves.

Every obstacle is an opportunity to grow, learn and become a stronger person... I think most of us have had advice reported at some stage - it is content that is voted on - not the author.  Though I have to admit that in this case - I am voting for a little of both.

Hey Bel...

You are a beautiful mum. and i bet your hubby tells you that you are a beutiful wife as well.... So i know how hard it is to build self confidence, and believe it or not i have a low self esteem as well, but you will learn in time to make a barrier and dont let others get to you, and enjoy the friends on here, as we all care for u, and it breaks our hearts when one or another is hurting as well...

So please let us help you shine... As you have so much potential, and no one can take that away...

take care hunni
.love cazza