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The miscarriage at hospital making news...happened to me too! |
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by MrsMateos (September 2007) (rank 204th) |
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Hi parents,
I saw today on the NSW related news about the horriable story of an expectant mother who waited over two hours to seek medical assistrance for pain which related to miscarriage.
I could ot believe it becuase 5 years ago a similar thing happened to me and for years I think back to that hidious experience but never had the guts to stand up or speak out against the "system"
I was 21 and 11 weeks pregnant to my partner, who I'm married to now. Anyway I was at work in Malvern, Melbourne and had some pain around 10am, this progressed and was so unbearable by lunch time I went to the local doctor. This doctor told me to go to emergancy immedialy becuase she said I shouldn't be in so much pain, I called my husband to collect me and we went to clayton hospital. The story you read today on the news is exactly what happened to us. I went to triage expecting some assistance....I was told to sit and wait...I thought I was dying and was screeming in pain, not one person saw me, offered advice or even gave a time frame we would be seen. In the mean time I started to bleed everywhere, all over the waiting area going back and forward to toilet, I sat on a towel we had in the back of the car, no painkillers or even a pad were offered and it was so embarrassing, I just kept waiting becuase I wasn't sure what was happening to me or if the baby had survived ...I wasn't seen until 5pm! that was 5 hours we waited and waited and when they took me through, I sat onto the wheelchair and blood was trailing me. In almost idential cirrcumstances, I too was waiting there and when the doctor can too see me I was still covered in blood and doc also was supprised to see me like that, after I got over the "fence" to the doctors the care was good, I stayed in overnight, of course I did have a miscarriage but I had already guessed that by this time.
Years have gone by and we have a little girl, but I think back to that and I can't believe if still happens 5 years later in this country.
My advice is...in my experience, this seams not to be so uncommon, if you feel strongly about your treatment you should speak out at all costs to get assistance, suffering in silence doesn't pay and chances are other people will be just as horriffed as you felt about your treatment.
You don't have to be the silent, nice guy when it comes to your health.
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Re: The miscarriage at hospital making news...happened to me too!
Thank-you for sharing your story with us. How awfully heartbreaking for you lose your precious baby, my heart goes out to you.
It absolutely disgusts me how they treated you during this time. Having to wait all that time and not being seen by someone when you were in that much pain... Surely they have to realise what's going on and treat you with the care you need. Yes hospitals to get it right a lot of the time, but they can also get it so horribly wrong.
I found out I'd miscarried last week... I'm still grieving, its an awful thing to go through. I've been crying every day... Its helped me talking about it though. I also was disappointed in the care the hospitals gave me. Ridiculous that "we don't do ultrasounds after 4pm", and they couldn't even check my baby's heartbeat! Unfortunately our Baby Angel had already gone to heaven weeks earlier... If only we'd known. But still the process from beginning to end took five days, due to lack of equipment available at my Dr's surgery and at the hospital. And I fasted for over 16hours, waited in hospital for 6 of those hours to have the D&C, only to be told "we can't fit you in, go home, fast again til tomorrow morning". It was horrible.
So thank-you once again for sharing this, unfortunately this type of thing doesn't seem to be uncommon at all. Its heartbreaking.
Sending you an invite to my group now, catch up with you again, Kylie xo
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Re: The miscarriage at hospital making news...happened to me too!
Please accept my condolences for your loss, and the same to anyone else who has had to suffer in this way... Especially in a situation like this when you should have been cared for more appropriately. I am glad you wrote this, because when I heard the story, I did wonder how many people had suffered needlessly in this way because of callous hospital staff. I know they are understaffed, however it would seem to me an inhuman individual that could allow for something like this to happen under their nose.
This is information on the procedure for Triage Assessment in Australian and New Zealand hospitals - each patient is supposed to be assessed and given an ATS Category based on these recommendations - scroll down to see the scale.
I am so disappointed that this happened at RNSH - Jaydee was born there and our prenatal, maternity, and post natal care was exemplary - with the exception of one prize cow of a temp nurse - however I proved easier to please than argue with. I know that hospitals are under staffed, and education seems to be lacking too - that is why I grit my teeth whenever I see a few million dollars worth of fire works going up in smoke over the harbour every new year. I would rather celebrate new life, hope and possibilities by providing the nation with the highest possible standards of care and education.
Stick it to the government - make then answerable... And give those idiots that were in A&E last night an infestation of cockroaches that can never die in their nether regions.
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