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Greatness

Anonymous Author (October 2007)

My whole life I wanted to become something big. As a child, of course it was a ballerina or princess. But as I grew older to 5th or 6th grade and reality hit me I wanted to become President. Into High School, my future was top on my list. I

still kept that childhood ambition of doing something huge. Now, I was more into maybe an actress, singer or even a dancer, something that would put me on the top.

I had a boyfriend and all, but really I was more independent. So in 11th grade, I broke up with Steve and decided to concentrate on my future. The future always seemed to have something promising and amazing ahead.

I did a lot of research through my 11th grade year back in 1988. I finally decided to go into magazine editing hoping to hit big bucks and popularity. As my life continued through college I realized popularity wasn’t everything. I had a boyfriend that I was very serious with at the time- Davy.

In 1990, I found out I was pregnant. I was scared, upset but still happy. I knew I wouldn’t let the baby get in my way of greatness. Davy sent me money each month, but wanted nothing to do with his child. He still hasn’t meet Braedy.

Braeden Wade Hudson was born on Decmeber 12th, 1970. He was a beautiful baby. I loved playing with Braedy and staying home from classes and work to spend time with my little joy.

I went through many unsuccessful relationships in 1991. One of which, I got pregnant again. But this time, Brian wanted to be involved. He was a pefact daddy, and he adopted Braedy as well- so Davy didn’t have to send money anymore. We got married and lived happily ever after! Ella Marie Hudson was born on November 23rd, 1992 In 1994, when Braedy was 4 and Ella was 2, Brian and I got married. Brian changed his name to Hudson so Braedy and Ella wouldn’t have to change their last names. We moved to the suburbs and I took a job as a magazine editor.

I often thought back to my dream of greatness over the years. As I thought about it more, I realized I had it.

I had a perfect life, with a perfect family. Really- what is greatness? The dictionary says greatness is “remarkable in magnitude, degree, or effectiveness”. Wow, Remarkable! My life is remarkable. My favorite thing to be called is MOM. This is amazing. My life is amazing. So is yours.

So you didn’t get the job you wanted in school, or maybe the boyfriend you planned to marry or something else- I don’t know what your case is. But if you are a mom- your life is pretty darn great. Take some time to look around and see whats going on. What do you like about your life?

I bet it’s pretty great.

Words from,

      ~ Theresa~

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ellamia
October 2007 | ellamia
Re: Greatness
Great article interesting to read. Good Work

Love Kelly


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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | winja
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well ever since i was lil i wanted to be a mum also...a ballerina ahha! i was told at 10 that children wouldnt be an option for me so it became a dream. im now a single mum to one 5 yo one bump and i feel pretty lucky its hard  but i love being a mum and its a dream come tru to me! great advice


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jenjen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenjen
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THANK YOU THERESA! It was  lovely to read your article...your little boys biological father missed out on something beautiful-his loss...its lovely that everything worked out for you and you were blessed with a little girl and a lovely man in your life...i think like you as well...that my life may not be perfect but i love it and am amazed that i have my beautiful children and fantastic husband...it is what i always wanted.I LOVE BEING A MUM AND BEING CALLED MUM. I also feel like the luckiest woman alive to have my family.


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monarogirl
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | monarogirl
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Ummm...slight typo on your first baby birth date???
You said that you were in year 11 in 1988 and that the baby was born in 1970... guessing that you meant 1990?
Well written otherwise.


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goodie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | goodie
Re: Greatness
so true! a have always wanted to become a mum and the day i found out it was happenin i was over the moon. being a mum is the best decision i could have ever made i love it!


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      jenjen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenjen
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thats how i felt each time i found out i was pregnant...then ran for the loo...lol...


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