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Make Believe or Pretend Play

ellamia by ellamia Talking Back(October 2007) (rank 48th)

Most children would pretend or make believe in all different kinds of ways such as dressing up, making a cubby from a box or sheets, role playing and even having a little tea party with make believe friends. This is normal for a child to do this and they enjoy

it. When a child role plays it helps them learn about social roles and other peoples roles and how things are acted out. This encourages and develops language skills that can help as they grow older and also solve and think creatively. This is a guide line what our children will do.

Babies
Babies at this age cant play in this sort of game. They will need to spend time exploring things like objects by banging, shaking and putting things in their mouths. By around the age of 12 months or more they begin to copy or imitate things you do and this is just the beginning of role playing and pretend play.

Toddlers
Toddlers begin to copy what you do and enjoy doing this. They will pretend to talk on a telephone when no one is there or maybe even drink from a drink cup when it is empty. They also may talk to teddy and feed it or even give it a drink. Give them little tasks in your daily routine so they can help and be just like mum and dad, like taking washing out the washing machine or vacuuming. They may make noises of different animals or objects like moo moo for a cow, woof woof for a dog, or brum brum for a car etc.

Children
Children become more involved in role playing around the age 3 or 4 years. They like to help set the table or help cook dinner and washing up the dishes with you. They may ask a teddy or a doll if they are hungry and want some more dinner. They can make objects be other things like a box as a boat or a car. At this age and a little older such as preschool kids they get a lot more involved in role playing and pretend play.


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joburkey
November 2008 | joburkey
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play

this is great, it's so good to let kids imaginations run alive. It also will help them in the future when figuring things out and also creating their own paths for the future



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neets
November 2008 | neets
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play

fantastic advice... and isnt it so nice to see chn using their imginations?

Anita xxx



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samm89
November 2008 | samm89
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play

Great advice - will be keeping this handy!



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hollie8452
October 2008 | hollie8452
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i have a three year old who only very rarely inhabits our mundane ordinary world, most of the time she is flying with fairies, swordfighting dragons, making magic cookies that turn you invisible, swimming with elephants  or nemo (her imaginary friend) or on other such adventures, its so amazing to be allowed into her world!



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exquisite-flower
September 2008 | exquisite-flower
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I love this kind of play - we have heaps of it in our home, and I know I can go off to work on the computer of do housework and E will entertain herself for hours!  A dream come true

Peace
EF.x



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jossilynmason
September 2008 | jossilynmason
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I think that pretending is so awesome. I love to do it  when i was younger and love to watch my son pretend as well. He has the best imagination and is always using it. When milo was around the age of 7 months i tried and tried to teach him sign launge. I gave up for a month but then started it again when he was 9 months old. One day he just picked it up and signed that he wanted milk.. Ahh its a nice thing to teach them it saves on the crying and guessing game. But the reason i told you this is because it really got his brian to respond to me and pick up on things quickly. He learns stuff so fast now and it makes me so happy that he is so healthy and happy. Also playing with him and him watching my every move helps him in his play. He loves to go and make pretend food for me or clean the kitchen for me lol i love it.  Its funny i read in a parenting mag. that make belive may not be a good thing cuz then children wount know when its real and when its not. ... give me a break are you kidding me. The person who must of written that never had a childhood. thank you for sharing your information.



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Amerlinwinga
August 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play

This is a great article enjoyed reading it. Thanks for sharing.

Tee



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nabutters
August 2008 | nabutters
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i love this info you have in this article kell!!!

good reading....

na xxx



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emmysmum
November 2007 | emmysmum
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play
not only is pretend/role play fun, but it is also a great way to develop the cognitive and creative skills of a child!
Great advice!
Cheers


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play

This is really good Kelly.  I think sometimes as adults, we forget about these oh so simple games.  Thanks for the reminder...

Angela



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play
Great article

Keep em coming .. he he he

Cheers Kellz


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mummycristlyn
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | mummycristlyn
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Great advice ur on a roll here keep them comeing


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
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These are great ideas Kelly - however there is no need to limit your child by all of the ages - Jaydee is 21months and does all of these things and has done for some time.

For quite a few months he has taken on the different roles of mumma, daddy and baby and played them quite accurately.  He chats on the phone for real and does his dishes, helps with the laundry, and vacuums.  He has been in charge of his own little stereo and tele since he was about 12mths and I showed him how to work them.  (Of course he has to ask me to use them first). 

He also switches all the lights etc off when we go out, and wipes up his own spills.  He makes many animal noises and can imitate sounds for cars, motorbikes, helicopters and aeroplanes along with signing them and saying them - so it is obvious what he is pretending to do when he sits in his box.

So don't underestimate the ability of your child, and keep encouraging them to use their imagination - especially by using your own and playing with them.  I think our little man is fairly average in his development - it is just that we don't know what age he is meant to do stuff, and try not to worry about that side of it.

Keep up the great advice, it is fun to read, and gives me great ideas.


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missnickley
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | missnickley
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Great advice! Caitlin loves copying what I am doing and talks on the phone and sits on her little lounge when I am and stuff.

Well written and set out! A+!



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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | mumof2b
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Great article.......Pretend play is so much fun, I love watching the kid's while they are pretending....it's priceless.....

Amanda xxxxx



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eteachey
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | eteachey
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Great advice..."D" & "E" both love pretend play :)

xoxo


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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | winja
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great advice hun chloe loves make believe.


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | emmie
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great article cheer

luv emz xx



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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | ellamia
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LOL that would be funny Cazza. It is so cute when they play this game and so exciting in delveopmental wise.

Love Kell


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | cazza
Re: Make Believe or Pretend Play
Great article and as i said before to you my girls love role playing, but im not too sure on that now as they play mummy hehe, thats scary ...

take care
love cazza


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