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Naps in the crib vs. somewhere else

pfallerj by pfallerj Proud Parent(July 2006) (rank 12th)

Today's First Time Parenting Poll: Should you put your baby down for a nap in his crib or somewhere else?

Today, we'll do things a little bit differently. My wife and I disagree on where to put the baby to sleep. I say put him down in the crib.

He'll associate it with sleep, and he takes better naps.

She takes the opposing stance, making the case for putting him down in the same room as us. That way, he learns that his crib isn't just for hour cat naps, it's for bedtime. Plus we have easier access to him if he wakes up and needs something.

So I thought I'd ask other parents what they thought of this. Just make a comment and sound off.

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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | mumof1girl
Nap times

 

I personally think that nap time's would be better in the crib, as that's where he sleeps at night. He has to learn to sleep in his crib when it's sleep time, and no where else.

If you're going to put your child in a different room and different place for the day time naps, he will get confused, so i think keeping your child in the one room ( his room ) in his own crib would be best.

This way, it also teaches him that he has his own bedroom and bed / crib / cot to sleep in, and that you and your partner have your room to sleep in. Hope this make sense.



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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | exquisite-flower
Where she drops
I worked a policy that she slept for her nap where she dropped, simply because if I moved her it disturbed her more often than it didnt and she would then be unsettled and drowsy for the rest of the day making it hard for her to settle at bedtime.  We went through a stage at night where she was in my bed in her own bed, back in mine and so on.  But we got through that and now she is sorted.  If she sleeps in the day she will often make a little bed/nest for herself.  On the floor or on the sofa, or even in the bed, and nighttime is always her bed and she is fine about it.  She loves her own bed.  She even makes it strraight every morning now!!!
Peace
EF.x 


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Nap time...

Where ever he sleeps he sleeps... At day care he sleeps in a different room and a crib.. At home I always stick him in his crib so i can work around him..  At his grandma's he sleeps in a play parc.. I just think if he is tired enough he will sleep anywhere....



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dolphins30
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | dolphins30
own crib
I believe you put your child in their own crib / bed as they know it's bed or nap time. I totally agree with you on this one. Keep the child in the one spot for naps and bet time and no where else


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shoolacy
3.83 (Good) | August 2006 | shoolacy
Sleep
our bub sleeps in shaded sun sometime naked to prevent nappy rash air little creases and make sure that jaundice won't come back besides shaded sun apparently has vitamins in it so there is good and bad to the sun he loves the warmth of a summers day and will sleep a little longer than usual too!!


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      JadieLady
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | JadieLady
Sleep
Vitamin D... only absorbed if the sunlight isnt filtered though.


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rusha
4.42 (Good) | August 2006 | rusha
Cribbin'
Our son sleeps in his crib for naps and bedtime. We just do things differently each time. During naps the blinds are open, and he has no blanket and some toys. At bedtime, the blinds are closed and the closet light is on. He has no toys but a nice blanket to snuggle with. It works for us!


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kryztyna
4.42 (Good) | August 2006 | kryztyna
crib vs. somewhere else
My daughter sleeps on the couch for her nap during the day and in her bed at night. I have always liked having her take her nap on the couch so if im cleaning or if i have to vaccum I can hear her. And with all the noise I make when Im cleaning she wont wake up so it works out for us. I did try putting her in her bed for naps but i found i was always going into her room to see if she was ok. But now she runs around and plays until she is tired and then she goes and puts in a movie and falls asleep on the couch and usually sleeps for about two hours.


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JadieLady
4.42 (Good) | August 2006 | JadieLady
sleep

My son has always been a good sleeper. sometimes when we put him in the car he falls asleep before we have even gotten out of the driveway! the baby carrier backpack thigny is good too... he falls asleep and the side panels keep his head fromflopping around. When i rang the sleep centre a fewmonths back they told me to put him in his cot for his day time naps, because he will havea better sleep. a freidn of mine saidd this worked for her. but he just WOULD NOT sleep. he went a whole week without a daytime nap, which made for a really crabby baby! in general, he sleeps on his special nap time blankie on the lounge room floor. that way if he wakes up, he sees he isnt alone an dgoes back to sleep :) at the moment he is (trying) to have 6 hour sleeps. i have to keep waking him up to feed him! He has no trouble going to bed, i more often than not put him in his cot whilst he is still awake an he will put himself to sleep.

i know, i have been blessed, it wasn't always that way. my brother would sleep anywhere- as long as he had 'silkie' silkie was his satin pillow case. not on a pillow either. just to touch and cuddle.



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jag82blue
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | jag82blue
Wonderful sleeper

When my son was born we had a bassinette with a stand so we put him to sleep in that and moved it where ever we were.  When he got a bit older & too big for the bassinette - we used to put him to sleep on a blanket in the lounge room. 

When he started to move off the blanket we then decided that he would sleep in his cot.  Since then he has associated his cot or any portacot with sleeping and he sleeps better during the day & sleeping through all night because he is sleeping well in the day.  He also knows that his room is for sleeping - & not with mum & dad.

We never had a problem with knowing whether our boy would need anything - he always let us know!



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wildrose
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | wildrose
Beds for sleep
I sort of do both. It depends. Most of the time, we put the kids in their bed either for napping or night time sleep. We sort of to teach them that bed is for sleeping. But for napping we a bit flexible, specially with my older son (he's 4 years old). We let him sleep on the couch (well, usually because he fell asleep there). With my youngest (she's 15 months), I always put in her bed (yes, her bed. I moved her to bed when she's 12 months. And it's a trunddle bed, so she could easily go in and out of the bed). Unless, when she's not settle in her bed, I might took her to my own bed.
Basically, I don't mind kids sleep with us or not.


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Marlena
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | Marlena
Napping
I didn't force my son to have naps in his crib so when it can to bed time he didn't like to sleep there.  With my next child I have I will us  my crib more.  My son is 19 months and he is a bad sleeper.  If I put him in his bed he wakes up and the only reason he sleeps in his crib during the night is because it is next to are bed.  So I say use the crib when ever you can.


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nomes
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | nomes
when at home, beds are for sleeping

First of all , I think you should re-post this in the Q&A to get more of a response.

Overall, I think when children are at home, they should sleep in their beds.

My kids always sleep in their bed/cot whether it's a nap or it's the long sleep.  Something I learnt when I had Luke was it is great to co-sleep, but when possible, we should put him in his own bed in his own room.  A number of reasons were given.  To ensure the parents get proper sleep.  When my children so much as sighed in their sleep when we shared, I would be disturbed.  In their own room you wouldn't hear those little noises they make and sleep more soundly...and I used a monitor.  The other reason was the autonomy aspect.  I know of a couple of people that put their 4 year olds in their bed, and when they fall asleep, put them in their own beds because they are used to sleeping in mum and dad's bed. 

I also think that it's important for children to be able to nap in unfamiliar surroundings.  A friend of mine would run her daily schedules around her daughter's sleeping habits.  She would drop whatever she was doing to make sure she got home on time for the little one to have a sleep.



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Izzy
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | Izzy
Done it both ways.

As a background, I co-sleep, so Matthew sleeps in the bed with my husband and I. 

I used to let Matthew nap in the couch in the livingroom so that I could tend to him when he starts to wake up. When I tended to him fast enough, he went back to sleep some more. This worked out pretty well for about a month, but it started going downhill after that. One weekend, I couldn't put him to sleep no matter what I did (rocked him, swung him). It was obvious that he was very very sleepy but for some reason, he just wouldn't go down. I was at my wit's end until my husband suggested that maybe we should take him upstairs to our bedroom. I did just that and it worked. I lied down with him for about 10 minutes and he fell asleep.

So now, that's how things go. Everyday when it's nap time, we say night night to Salem & Koby (our 2 schnauzers) and head off upstairs. It works like a charm. Matthew gets his paci and in 5 minutes he's gone.

Anyway, I think this would be better posted on the Q&A section, or a forum.



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allyp
4.42 (Good) | July 2006 | allyp
The way I do it
I don't put my daughter in her crib, unless it's for bed time. For her naps, she stay's downstair's with me, so I can get to her quickly if she wake's up crying, or whatever. If I have to vaccum(when my husband is not around) I put her in the crib, just for like 30 min, or less.. All depends on much time it takes for me to vaccum. Now if my husband is home, then he looks after her, or he'll vaccum and i'll take care of her!! But my daughter usually don't take long naps anyway, unless we're going for a car ride!!


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